Blended Orgasms
We women are so lucky. Not only can we reach a climax via our clitorises, we can also have one via our g-spots! But then again, it’s so hard – almost impossible really – to find a guy who can really give us out of this world pleasure.
We already consider ourselves darn lucky if you know how to give us excellent oral play. If you can find and stimulate our gspots, you’re a master lover in our books. And if – by some stroke of genius – you can bring us to both a clitoral and gpot orgasm at the same time… we will proclaim you a SEX GOD not just in the bedroom but to all our friends!
So, if you want to be a sex god, then read on and find out how you can give us a blended orgasm.
Combi Climax 101
The clitoris and the gspot are on two different areas of a woman’s body and each one can produce a different type of climax. So if you are able to make your partner climax from both areas at the same time then you can imagine just how forceful her climax can be.
But before you try and convince your lover to agree to allow you to bring her to a combination climax, it may actually be best if she does this on her own first. This way, she can guide you better as to what makes her really excited and this gets rid of any possible awkwardness or even discomfort for her later on when you guys make love.
So tell your partner to engage in some masturbation time. If she’s not one to do this often, encourage her by buying her adult literature, new sexy lingerie, or even a sex toy to encourage her to do so.
She should learn how to arouse herself by fondling her clit. Once, she’s wet and panting, she should go about locating and titillating her gspot. Once she finds it, she should use her other hand to fondle her clitoris again until she comes to a spectacular display of mental fireworks!
Now, it’s time for you to enter the picture…
Engage in heavy foreplay, keeping in mind that the more aroused she is, the easier it is for you to find her gspot. Treat her to the masterfulness of your tongue as you perform oral sex on her. When you feel she’s almost at the edge, break off and then insert one or two fingers inside her.
With her guidance, find her gspot and stimulate it. If she feels like urinating, put her at ease by saying that the feeling will soon pass. (It will!) The important thing is to keep at it so that the ‘build up’ of sexual tension goes on.
Gspot orgasms come faster so the minute you locate it, bend down so you can perform cunnilingus again on her clitoris. You can also use the thumb of your hand (use the same hand if your hands are big, or use your other free hand) to stimulate her clit. Another mind-blowing idea is to hold a small vibrator and treat her clit to this. She’ll be thrashing wildly in no time!
You can also induce a Blended O via intercourse!
Try doggy-style. Ask your woman to get on all fours. When you enter her at this angle, your penis is perfectly aligned to hit her gspot. Now, simply reach down with your hand and fondle her clitoris.
Try reverse cow-girl. You won’t have any issues asking your lover to go on top because we women love this position! In this one though, she should face your feet as she gets on top. This puts your penis at a great angle to hit her gspot and it’s easy for her to reach down and fondle her clit.
For variation, she can also face you but she should pull her upper body slightly away. This gives you great access to her clitoris as your penis hits and tantalizes her gspot.
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The G-Spot FAQ
Every day I get TONS of questions about the elusive g-spot. So today I decided to enlighten you with some facts about it and of course some tips on how you can bring your lover to a ‘Big O’ via the ‘Elusive G’.
What is the G-Spot?
The g-spot is actually named after German gynecologist Ernst Grafenberg, who is the one credited for having discovered this sweet area in women in the 1950’s. Since then a lot of debated has come up as to whether this spot even exists. This is because research on the subject has been limited because, well, I guess there are not a lot of volunteers!
However, recent studies (based on MRI scans and biopsies) have revealed that the g-spot does in fact exist so now, more than ever, is the time to really have fun in the bedroom!
How Big is the G-Spot?
Women vary so there is no single diameter we can affix the gspot. There is, however, a guideline of sorts. It’s said to be about one fourth of an inch to about two inches.
What’s the Texture of the G-spot?
The g-spot is reputed to be soft but a bit rough. It has the softness of a woman’s clitoris but it has a ridge-like texture. Many say it’s just like the upper wall of your mouth so run your tongue over that area for an idea.
Why is Foreplay Important in the Quest to Find the Gspot?
Foreplay is important because the gspot, just like the clitoris, gets puffed up when aroused. So the more foreplay you guys engage in, the more titillated she will be and the bigger her g-spot will be. This will make it extremely easy for you to find it. Also, being fully aroused means she’s very wet which prevents any pain as you go in and try to find that sweet nub of hers.
WHERE is the G-Spot Located?
Again, keep in mind that all women are different so there’s no exact area. However, here are the guidelines. The g-spot is located at the front of her vaginal wall, about 2-3 inches from her ‘opening’. Think of her navel as positioned at 12 o’clock; between 11 o’clock and 1 11 o’clock is her g-spot.
What’s the Best Way to Find the G-Spot?
I suggest that your woman tries to find her g-spot alone first. A woman’s body has many secrets, nooks & crannies, and each one of us has a unique way of becoming really aroused. So it’s important that SHE gets to know her body first before you join the picture.
The benefits of her engaging in self-pleasure are two-fold: (1) she becomes better at being able to guide you more during sex regarding what techniques really bring her pleasure, which in turn (2) removes any frustration or even pain that may occur as you try and find her gspot.
Trust me, finding and stimulating the g-spot to its fullest does not happen overnight. A lot of ‘trial and error’ can be prevented if your woman engages in self-love first.
Now, as for the mechanics on how to locate the spot, read on. (Instructions below are for her.)
- Lie down on your back and place small pillow on your lower back to elevate your hips.
- Think erotic thoughts so you start to get wet.
- Play with your clitoris.
- As you become really wet and aroused, insert a finger or two (palm facing upwards) inside you. Keep in mind the general location and texture described above.
- Once you find your g-spot, apply various speeds and techniques to stimulate it. Enjoy!
- After reaching your Big O, think about what you really liked and what really turned you on so you can let your lover know what you want.
Once your woman has done the above steps, feel free to join her for the next session!
She Needs to Pee?!?
Oftentimes, as the g-spot is stimulated, your woman will have this burning desire to take a leak. This is because the g-spot is located near her bladder and stimulating it induces this sensation to urinate. However, don’t stop what you’re doing. The feeling will soon subside and she really won’t pee.
What are the Best Positions for a G-spot Orgasm?
The best positions for g-spot climaxes are woman-on-top and ‘flat doggie-style’. For the former, this is great because she can easily angle her body to whatever position so your penis gets to reach her gspot better.
For the latter position, she should lie down on her belly and only spread her legs slightly. You enter her from behind, while also keeping yourself in a horizontal position. She should then bring her legs together tighter. This produces more friction as you thrust and positions your penis to thrust with a slightly upward angle, which is great for hitting her gspot.
Foreplay Tips for Adults
There’s no doubt about it; foreplay is an extremely important part of any relationship. Sadly, as our relationships ‘age’, we seem to focus on foreplay less and less and are just bent on reaching our orgasmic destinations.
Although there are a lot of tips that are given these days to bring back foreplay big time in your relationships, let’s face it, a lot of these tips are corny and impractical.
For instance, sex on the backseat of a car? That’ so uncomfortable!
French kissing? A tad boring.
Feeling her up down there? You do that already!
So read on below where I list some REAL foreplay tips for you to try.
Adult Literature. Yes, don’t hide those adult reading materials anymore. Bring them all out and stack them beside your bed! When you guys tuck in for the night, grab one of them and start glancing through the pages. Sooner or later, one or both of you will be itching to start playing with each other too!
Sex Toys. Sex gadgets are great ways to engage in foreplay. For one, they enable you to learn more about your own bodies and what turns you on best. Some also enable you to please each other without necessarily pushing each other to a climax.
Try this tonight: ask her to show you how to operate her vibrator. (If she doesn’t have one, take this as an opportunity for you to give her a spectacular gift!) As you apply different speeds, pressure and try different angles on her clitoris, keep a mental note of which moves produced the horniest of groans from her and then do the same thing with your tongue.
You can just stash the information away in your head and retrieve it again for the next between the sheets session or do it now! Use the vibrator and your tongue on her alternately.
As for you, there are a lot of sex toys for men too. For instance, try a penis ring. It can be used to delay an orgasm giving you both more time for foreplay.
Sexual Massages. This is by far my personal favorite. Sexual massages can last for hours or be a quick 10 to 15 minute foreplay session. You can easily adjust it to how long you want foreplay to last or how much time you have on your hands.
A sexual massage is pretty much like any other massage except that focus eventually goes to your or your lover’s erogenous zones. The great thing about a sexual massage is that it serves to relax you the first few minutes.
I mean it does indeed start off as a ‘legit’ massage. This helps in relaxing your mind and body and helps in getting rid of stress, which in turn makes your mind and body more sensitive to whatever sexual stimuli.
Here’s a sexual massage move you can apply on her: as she lies down on her back, cover her eyes with a warm, damp cloth to relax her eyes. Now spread her legs and kneel in front of her. Remove her undergarments. Put massage oil on your hands and gently knead her thighs. When you feel that she’s relaxed and succumbing to the pleasures your massage strokes are giving, bend your head slowly and dip a very hot and wet tongue on her genitals!
This move can be done on you too. When she dips her head forward, she can nuzzle your family jewels with her nose and mouth, lick your balls, or run the hardened tip of her tongue on the underside of your penis.
Phone Sex. Have you ever engaged in phone sex? If not, you must try now because it’s extremely exhilarating. You see, we all have that ‘dirty mind’ inside of us but we don’t let it go for many reasons. For instance, you may be afraid to offend your girlfriend/wife with just how ‘harsh’ you can be. I mean, if she’s not used to hearing you say dirty words and then all of a sudden you shout ‘f. me you b.” then yeah, you’ll scare her.
However, most women do want a little roughness but most are ‘shy’ in bed, afraid you would think differently (in a negative way) of her afterwards. The solution is thus to engage in phone sex.
With phone sex you get to role play and ‘test the waters’ more freely. You’ll be surprised at how not seeing each other – and maybe a shot or two of alcohol - can really loosen the tongue.
And who says phone sex should be done when you’re out of town? Hello mobile phones! Call your woman while she’s downstairs and you’re in the garage or in the attic. Talk dirty and talk wild… and then meet in the bedroom!
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