Archive for November, 2006
I hope these techniques help!
A few days ago, we talked about the importance of using foreplay techniques to improve your sexual experience.
Today, you will learn a few more amazing methods to “get your woman ready” for the best orgasm ever!
I’ve taught these techniques to my clients hundreds of times, and they work great! You definitely must try theme tonight.
These techniques can be used together, but remember to start slowly and build on the passion. If you move too quickly, you won’t achieve the desired effect.
- Tickling - Now when I say tickling, I don’t mean to hold her down on the bed and tickle her until she urinates on herself. I mean something a little more mature. Take a feather (if you can’t find a feather, then go to your local pet store and check out the cat toy section – you’ll find a number of items you can use as substitutes for feathers) and very gently graze your partner’s skin with it. Pay special attention to her erogenous zones. Your touch must be very light, so the feather just barely brushes against her skin. This will send shivers through her body. If she’s naked, you may want to start at the top of her head and work down her neck, around her breasts, along the inner part of her thighs, on the back of her knees, and so forth.
- Massage - Remember that massage we discussed under “Dirty Talking”? Well, that’s considered foreplay as well. Massages are a good choice for two reasons. First, stress hinders your partner’s ability to orgasm. A massage will help her release all of that tension and stress so she is physically and mentally ready for pleasure. Second, a sensual massage will further her excitement and can take her to the next level. You don’t have to read books on massage to learn the tricks of the trade either. All you need to know is how to rub your partner’s body so she gets a pleasurable feeling. You also need to know where to rub. Some women love back massages, others like their partners to focus on their shoulders or legs, while a few prefer foot massages. If you’ve never given her a massage before, I recommend trying each of them until you discover which one pleases her the most. Also, there are a number of massage oils on the market which work amazingly well at helping set the mood and intensifying the experience. Oils that warm when they come in contact with human skin are a wonderful choice, particularly during the winter when she is feeling a little chilled.
You can also use what I call “My Secret Weapon” to give her the best massage ever. To discover my most intimate and secret “seduction” tool, click here!
- Give her a bath - Women enjoy being pampered and giving her a bath is a great way to do that while also getting her in the mood for sex. Here’s what you do. Surprise her by filling the bathtub with warm water and bubbles. Have a glass of her favorite wine or beverage ready beside the tub as well. When she slides into the water, take a soft sponge or cloth and begin to gently rub the soapy water over her body. Remember to be gentle and to avoid contact with her vagina. Near the end of the soaping, you can come very close to her vagina, by rubbing the sponge along her inner thigh. Then start slowly rinsing her off, possibly with a shower massager is you have one. When she gets out of the tub, have a warm fluffy towel ready and begin drying her off yourself. In fact, if your tub is comfortable enough, you can sit behind her in the tub for even more erotic foreplay.
- Cooling her off - While the shower and the warm massage oils may be perfect for the cold winter months, these two ideas may work better in the hot summer months. The first idea is to have your partner lie naked on the bed or couch. Make sure that the majority of her erogenous zones are facing upward or are easy to reach. Now take a hand held paper fan and gently wave it over each of those areas. If you don’t have a fan, you can also blow on the areas yourself. Like the tickling, this sensation will make her shiver with delight. The second idea again involves her erogenous zones, but this time you’ll cool her off with an ice cube instead. Don’t have an ice cube handy? Try using a popsicle, then gently lick away the melted part on her skin.
Remember, FOREPLAY is a MUST if you want your woman to enjoy multiple orgasms!
Believe it or not, I’ve received emails from some clients saying that their wives reached an orgasm even before having sex!
To learn more foreplay techniques and give your woman the most intense, mind-blowing sexual experience of her entire life click here.
Does SIZE really matter?
So you have heard it over and over again. Does size matter? Well, I found an article that will literally change your sexual life! I hope you enjoy it darling!
Here are the facts:
Some people say yes and others say no. Well the truth is that size is not everything but it can play an integral part of a woman’s sexual satisfaction. As quoted from a recent article on askmen.com author Vanessa Burton writes “Sure any woman would like to have a big thick bar to play with and suck on. It’s like guys who are obsessed with big breasts.” Women are turned on and satisfied by a large, thick, and powerful penis. If you have read any of the many women’s advice articles on the web regarding penis size then you have read the tips that they offer. They suggest things for women such as supplementing sex (when with a short-ended boyfriend) with a vibrator or a special position, which allows for deeper penetration. While a vibrator is definitely a great tool to use in the bedroom, you should not have to depend on one to fully satisfy your partner.
Some guys are a decent size and can get the job done. However, like all guys we are always looking for a way to enhance ourselves a little bit. Sure maybe you can please your woman consistently but why not drive her wild? Have her begging for more and bragging to her girlfriends.
A potential mate often times can tell how large you are before you even sleep together. There is an aura of confidence that men with large penises give off. Whether or not you realize it, your size is displayed in the way you carry yourself and the air of confidence that you give off. The locker room can be an embarrassing place for a lot of men. They feel subconscious about their size and they are embarrassed to have other men see their true size and then judge them. This lack of confidence carries over to other parts of your life and limits you.
If you have 7 inches or more you will be able to penetrate the more sensitive parts of a women and reach the pleasure nerve areas that she may not even be aware of. The thick girth of your penis will pleasure your woman into orgasmic gasps that will make you proud.
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Try these 3 foreplay techniques
Below are some examples of foreplay techniques you can use to get your partner in the right mood before sexual intercourse. These techniques can be used together, but remember to start slowly and build on the passion. If you move too quickly, you won’t achieve the desired effect.
1. Dirty talking - Never underestimate the power of words to turn on your partner. Imagine looking into your partner’s eyes over dinner at a nice restaurant and whispering, “You look so sexy tonight I can barely keep my hands off of you.” You can even follow it up with a description of what you’d like to do to her. For example, you might say, “When we get home, I’m going to slowly undress you, lay you down on the bed, and give you the best full body massage you’ve ever had.” This kind of comments will make your partner feel desirable and that will increase her arousal, plus she’ll be able to start fantasizing about how your hands are going to feel caressing her body and that’s definitely going to build her anticipation for more. Just remember that you need to follow through with whatever you say. If you promise her an amazing massage, then you need to deliver. Women are not turned on by promise breakers.
2. Gentle touching – I’ve met with women who complain that men don’t know how to touch them. By this they usually mean that men don’t know how to be gentle. For example, they grope their breasts instead of stroking them. A gentle touch even in the most non-sexual place can have incredible results. There’s a scene in a movie that illustrates this point. The movie, Don Juan DeMarco, starred Johnny Depp as a man who believed he was a world class lover who only thought about pleasing the women he was with. In an early scene, he meets a strange woman in a restaurant and sets her on fire simply by stroking part of her hand. While some may argue Johnny Depp could have that effect on a woman without touching her, there is truth to the message the character is conveying. Softly stroking your partner’s shoulders or gliding your hands lightly over her back can send shivery tingles through her body the way other types of touches won’t, especially early on in the arousal process.
3. Kissing - Kissing is an incredible type of foreplay but it is often misused because partners don’t communicate what they like and what they don’t like. There are many, many different ways of kissing romantically and each way is appropriate at different stages of the process. For example, if your partner is merely aroused, you wouldn’t want to begin using a lot of tongue while you’re kissing. Most women seem to dislike a lot of tongue use anyway which surprises most men. Gentle kissing is best at first, including brushing your lips over her fingers, her palm, her earlobes, her inner thighs, even her toes. Remember kissing does not always have to involve her lips. There’s a lot more of her body to touch and taste. As her level of arousal increases, your kissing can become more passionate. If you do use your tongue, only use the tip to touch her tongue or her lips gently. Unless you know for a fact that it turns your partner on, don’t thrust your entire tongue into her mouth. Most women find this to be a turn off.
These three ideas are just the tip of the iceberg when it comes to foreplay. After you try these ideas, you should begin experimenting with some techniques of your own. The more you learn about your partner’s body and what pleases her the easier it will be for you to decide how to take her from those flickering flames of arousal to a total inferno of desire.
Let me share with you what Wikepedia has to say about the importance of foreplay:
In human sexual behavior, foreplay is a set of intimate psychological and physical acts between two or more people meant to increase sexual arousal. Foreplay takes place before sexual intercourse or another act meant to induce mutual sexual gratification or orgasm.
Psychologically, foreplay lowers inhibitions and increases the emotional comfort of the partners. Physically, it helps to produce an erection in men, allowing them to penetrate an orifice. In women, it helps promote vaginal lubrication, allowing penetration to take place comfortably.
Whether an act constitutes foreplay depends on the intent. If no intimate sexual acts are intended, foreplay-type actions are often classified as flirting or being “touchy-feely”.
Foreplay is often subtle in its initial stages. Even before the partners are together, foreplay can be introduced by the selection and creation of a particular environment. A romantic, intimate, or overtly sexual atmosphere can be considered a gesture of foreplay.
Foreplay can begin with non-physical behavior that signals sexual availability. Verbally, foreplay may include sexual compliments, subtle comments with double entendre, and intimate conversations. Non-verbally, foreplay can include provocative clothing, preening gestures, licking or biting one’s lips or food items, standing inside a partner’s personal space, and holding a gaze longer than is acceptable for casual acquaintances.
If the potential partner accepts the sexual invitation, foreplay has begun. Acceptance is often indicated by reciprocating with similar behavior. Since these interactions are non-explicit, there can be misunderstandings about whether an invitation has been extended or accepted. Inadvertent or not, this kind of miscommunication is often termed “leading someone on”.
Foreplay usually turns physical. Simple and seemingly innocuous acts, such as straightening someone’s clothing or hair, bumping into someone while walking, stroking someone’s arm, or whispering in someone’s ear can constitute foreplay. One may also hold hands, touch the face, kiss, bite, or massage.
As comfort increases, the level of intimacy usually increases. More intimate examples include:
- Deep tongue kissing, also known as French kissing;
- Touching and massaging erogenous zones over clothing, also known as groping or petting;
- Touching and massaging erogenous zones under clothing, or heavy-petting;
- Rubbing together erogenous zones over clothing, also known as dry humping or grinding;
- Undressing oneself or partner, also known as stripping;
- Oral sex.
If foreplay does not lead to sexual intercourse, such sessions are called “petting” or “making out”.
Direct manipulation of naked erogenous zones is almost always considered foreplay. In women, this includes stimulation of the clitoris and vulva. In men, it includes stimulation of the penis and scrotum. For both sexes, it includes stimulation of nipples and anus. Stimulation can be achieved by mouth, hands, sex toys like dildos or vibrators, or common household objects like feathers or ice cubes.
Safe sex practices can be incorporated as part of foreplay. A condom or dental dam can be applied in an erotic or playful way as part of the final stages of foreplay. Oral contraceptives do not protect against sexually transmitted diseases.
Foreplay tends to become purely physical and intense. It reaches its peak in the moments just before intercourse, when it induces a strong mutual desire for penetration. Some genital teasing may take place for a brief time.
Direct manipulation of naked erogenous zones is not considered foreplay when it is not preparatory for further sexual acts. For example, mutual masturbation and oral sex are often considered final sexual acts; as final acts with no expectation of further sexual congress, these are not considered foreplay.
Sexual roleplaying, fetish activities, and BDSM can also be considered foreplay, though they more commonly accompany sex rather than precede it.
Foreplay can vary dramatically based on age, religion, and cultural norms.
