Archive for February, 2007
A Sensual Massage Tonight?
My dear friend, as you know I enjoy helping you improve your intimate life! 
Today I want to share with you a hot article about massaging techniques… Foreplay is always a MUST if you want to seduce your lover the right way.
And a sensual massage is probably one of the best foreplay techniques you can use!
Enjoy these tips! 
Gabrielle Moore
By massaging your friend or living partner and let him or her do the same to you, you will both get emotionally closer to each other, and both get several health benefits. Massaging will benefit the mental state of the person you work on, the muscular condition, the blood circulation and the lymph drainage. However, what you want to achieve, will determine the exact technique you use.
Massaging across the muscle fibres
This type of massage is very good for relaxing tense muscles and a stressed mind.
You perform this massage by rubbing or gripping across the direction of the muscle fibres or across tendons. You take one area after the other. You begin by massaging each area lightly, superficially and slowly to warm up, and then proceed by massaging deeper, firmer and more swiftly.
According to the size and conditions of the area you treat, you can use different types of manipulation. You can use a couple of fingers at a small area, or to reach deep into a tense point You can rub with all your finger tips or with the palm of your hand at greater areas. To get a harder effect, you can use your finger knuckles.
Massage along the muscles fibres
This type of massage will give the following effects: Stiffness will be reduced or cured, and the muscles will gain in mobility. The muscles will get better blood supply and drainage. The muscles will get a better drainage of tissue fluids into the lymph system, and thereby swollen muscles will normalize. These effects will in turn make tired muscles faster regain good condition.
By this massage you stroke along the direction of the muscle fibres, and always in the direction of the blood stream towards the heart.
Also now you take one area after the other, but try to reach the whole length of a muscle or muscle group at each stroke. Also by this massage, you begin massaging at each area lightly, superficially and slowly to warm up, and then proceed by massaging deeper, firmer and somewhat faster.
Also by this longitudinal massage, you can press down and stroke with your finger tips, with all your fingers, or grip around a muscle or muscle group with your fingers.
Massage with an electric massager
Most electric massage devices are vibrating up and down. This vibration mostly gives the same effect as the massage across the muscle fibres. If you also stroke with the device head along the muscle in the direction of the blood stream towards the heart, you will simultaneously also achieve the effects of longitudinal massage.
Combining the massage with stretching
The effects of the massage can be increased by also stretching the limbs and body parts of the person you work on. Stretch in the natural movement directions of the limb or body parts until you reach some resistance. Do not stretch hard to go beyond the resistance point. However, by holding the limb some time at the resistance point will often cause the limb to relax, and then you can go some way further.
How hard should you perform the massage?
Tired and stiff muscles are often tender and aching. Working at a tender point will always cause some temporal pain. However, if you use the right degree of firmness, the effect of the massage should cause an immediate release of pain and tenderness when you have finished working at a point. You should never work so hard that the pain is felt nearly unbearable, or so hard that pain remains after the massage is finished. If you do so, you can hurt or aggravate already existing tissue damage.
To achieve the right firmness you should monitor the reactions of the person you work at and listen to his comments. You should also never perform a massage on an area with a distinct inflammation or a distinct injury.
Use of massage oils
By applying a massage oil or ointment at the area you work at, you ease the massage work and increase the effects of the massage. Your fingers glide more easily upon the skin covering the area. The blood supply of the skin and muscles will be stimulated. You get a sensual and exciting scent on the area and in the air. Ingredients in the oil will ameliorate muscular ache and pain. According to the composition of the massage oil, there will be different stimulating effects upon the muscles, for example faster regeneration of tired or hurt muscle tissue.
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Massaging for mutual joy and pleasure
You can use each of the two main techniques, but you let the pleasure of the person you massage decide the technique, the area you massage and the firmness of the massage. Usually gently touching and caressing will be the right manner.
Also your own pleasure shall decide. Do not work so hard that you get tired out yourself, and the person that you give the massage should be willing to repay you by doing the same favour to you.
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Is sex better than candy?
My dear friend I just found a short article about the difference between sex, candy, flowers and beer… LOL!
I couldn´t help it… I want to share it with you!
Kisses!
- Gabrielle Moore
Better Sex -Top 10 Reasons Why Sex is Preferred Over Candy, Flowers and Beer
Lately, sex has been getting a bad rap. Surfing the net, you see all kinds of top 10 lists slandering sex – i.e. “Top 10 reasons Why Sleep is Preffered Over Sex”, “Top 10 reasons Why Beer is Preffered More Than Sex”, “Top 10 reasons Why Chocolate is Finer Than Sex” and so on.
Sex beats just about anything. I would rather have a nice romantic evening with my husband, than sit around and eat a box of chocolate, drink beer and go to sleep.
Here is my new “Top 10 List.”
“Top 10 Reasons Sex Kicks Butt on Candy, Flowers and Beer.”
1. If someone yells during sex, you are doing it right.
2. Sex gives you nice memories, beer makes everything hazy.
3. When things get hot, chocolate gets soft.
4. You don’t have to worry about choosing which kind of sex.
5. When you get great sex, you don’t have to pass it around.
6. Sex is a “hands on” experience.
7. Sex is free. (Usually)
8. Lousy sex is finer than a lousy candy.
9. Sex created the need for lingerie … chocolate the need for control top pantyhose.
10. Sex makes your fingers smell sweeter when you are done.
Sometimes Sweetie needs a little prodding. A reminder that life is not all work and no play. We all need a little lovin’. A quick little smile and the wink of an eye is usually enough to get your lover’s attention. You don’t have to hit them over the head with a bedpost.
Valentine’s Day gifts, birthday presents, Christmas gift, whatever holiday or occasion … forget the candy, flowers and beer … get Sweetie to hit the sack with you.
Sex educator, speaker, editor and blogger Jani, is the author of “The G-gasm Method: The Ultimate Guide to the G-spot Orgasm” – and “Tonight’s The Night … Your Ultimate Guide to Sexy, Kinky Things to do With Your Lover” available at Better Sex – TONIGHT.
Thanks … enjoy!
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Is yours below average?
Hi honey! I have a question…
Do you know what women think when a penis is below average???
Well, let me resolve this intriguing dilemma!
In my last article I briefly mentioned the average penis size to be about 5 1/2 and 6 inches. This number was based on research conducted by the Kinsey Institute in Indiana. So what happens when men fall below the average quota? Do women laugh and tell all their friends about it or do they secretly hope you can make up for it?
Below I’ll answer all your questions plus give you secret tips on how to make her think you are absolutely amazing in bed, regardless of size!
What goes through her mind when she sees your penis?
I’m going to be honest here, when women first discover their partner’s penis is below average they are disappointed. But that’s not the final conclusion. A woman will never decide to stop sex before it begins simply by the site of your penis. After the initial disappointment, she will give you an opportunity to make up for your small size.
At this point she’s thinking, “We’ll maybe he’s on the small size but let’s see what he can do.” She hopes that although her partner is small, he knows how to use his size as an advantage. In fact, most women know that men with small penises usually master several techniques to satisfy women.
Haven’t you heard about the stereo type of men with smaller penises? Read on.
Why men with small penises are better lovers
Most men aren’t aware of this, but men with smaller penis size must work twice as hard to remove a woman’s initial disappointment. This factor makes them a far better lover then men with average or bigger penis size. The reason I say this is because men with larger penises usually rely only on their member to satisfy women. They rarely explore other regions such as oral sex and foreplay which is an even bigger disappointed to women.
On the other hand, men with smaller penises usually master several techniques to please women. They are known to give great oral sex, penetrate in ways bigger size men can not, and be extremely passionate.
A woman would rather have a partner with a smaller penis size who knows how to please her in multiple ways then a man with a big penis who does not. This is why it is said that men with small penises are better lovers.
Tips to be a great lover, regardless of size!
Many men assume that sexual satisfaction for women depends on penis size. They’re wrong. Women need various stimulants to be satisfied sexually. They must be satisfied mentally as well as physically. In fact, some studies have found that as many as 46% of women suffer from sexual unsatisfaction. This stems from a boring sex life and inability to orgasm.
The reason so many women don’t experience an orgasm is because they, and their partners, aren’t exploring other areas of sexual satisfaction.
The truth is penis size has little to do with sexual satisfaction since not all women orgasm from intercourse. Many women need stimulation from oral sex, sexual massage, or sex toys to orgasm.
Below are hot ways to make your women experience the greatest sex of her life, regardless of size; she will be coming back for more!
Master foreplay
An essential to giving women an amazing sexual experience is foreplay. While most men have foreplay techniques not all have what it takes to stand apart from the rest. This means taking foreplay to another level. Are you ready to get creative?
Body Massage Candle
Candles are necessary to setting the mood. It’s a definite must to start the night off in the right foot. You can bring this element a step further by lighting body massage candles instead of regular ones. Body massage candles are meant to be more than decoration; they are made to melt into sensual massage oil. Simply light the candle and drizzle the warm oil on your lover’s body; she will be highly aroused as the warm oil touches her skin. Since the wax turns into oil, it’s the perfect opportunity for an erotic body massage.
Most women have never heard of the body massage candle, when you introduce this nice surprise, she’ll be wondering what else you have in store!
Sensitizing Cream
After you set the mood for sex; it’s time to enhance her sexual experience; opt for sensitizing cream. Sensitizing cream is a lubricant which promotes genital blood flow. There are sensitizing creams available for both men and women. The ones designed for women promote clitoral blood flow which is essential for orgasms. Clitoral blood flow helps increase a woman’s sex drive, sensitivity, and climax.
Once the sensitizing cream is applied to her vaginal lips and clitoris, your every touch will be arousing. The increased clitoral blood flow makes it possible for women who have difficulty achieving an orgasm during sex experience orgasms easier and stronger.
Sensitizing creams for men work wonders as well. Since they also promote genital blood flow; they work to increase the size and hardness of erections. Your erection will be the biggest and hardest you’ve ever had. They also increase stamina, so that you stop when you want to. What more can you ask for?
Sex Furniture
It’s time to take sex off of the bed onto a more exciting location with sex furniture. Flat surfaces, such as the bed are boring compared to the angles in sex furniture. Sex furniture is designed in multiple shapes to offer different angles for maximum penetration, it is the sure fire way to boost your sexual experience.
Couples can find perfect angles with the various sex furniture products out there; my favorite are from Loving Angles. Their sex furniture is so discreet it can be added to your home decor without anyone knowing. This allows couples to take advantage of sexual moments when they arise.
Another popular model is known as the Liberator. Several of my friends have told me that it’s worth every penny of its price.
Remember, when buying sex furniture choose one that can be decorated into your own home since research shows products which are hidden rarely get used.
After all great sex is all about getting into the right position. A small change in angle can be the difference between “ok” sex and outrageous sex!
Kama Sutra
Speaking of angles, the Kama Sutra is an amazing book which offers great ideas for sex positions. The Kama Sutra is often overlooked and most men don’t take the time to learn about new sex positions. This is a shame because men are not mastering a valuable tool in sex; that is finding the perfect angle.
Different sex positions offer men unique angles for ultimate penetration. This works to benefit both men and women as certain positions offer g-spot stimulation; a spot often missed with standard sex positions. G-spot orgasms are very intense for women and often lead to female ejaculation. This can be very exciting for both men and women.
Men with smaller penis should refer to the Kama Sutra to get maximum penetration. With the right position a smaller penis size allows men to penetrate and hit spots deeper in the vagina that will normally hurt a woman. This means, men with smaller penis size are able to please women in ways that men with larger penises can not. Isn’t that a boost to the ego!
Finally, men who are below average in penis size should not assume that they aren’t able to satisfy women. Don’t get hung up on the question of quarter-inches! Be confident and adventurous. With the right attitude such as being creative in foreplay and in sex, women will see your size (regardless of what it is) as an advantage.
Show women that indeed you master several skills in pleasing her. Learn about new sex positions, sex creams, and sex furniture to show women you put your time and effort to giving her the best sex ever. With all these factors in use, she’ll think you’re the ultimate lover and will brag to her friends on the great things you can do!
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With Love,
~ Gabrielle Moore
