Archive for May, 2007
Try A Sexual Massage Tonight!
In human relationships, one should not underestimate the important of touch and this article is all about using touch to show your partner how much you love and care for them.
Try it and you will find out how to convey your emotions and feelings in a totally different way that will enhance any relationship and is a fun and enjoyable form of foreplay.
The importance of touch
Goes back to our very roots of being in the womb, our mother’s holding us, and then childhood innocent games with parents, siblings and friends. In later life, we tend to duplicate this, if we can, with our intimate relations.
The sexual massage is one very special way to do this, and can bring not only relaxation, but a keener sense of intimacy to both partners.
Setting the mood
To begin you will need some relaxing environment. If you are going to give the massage on a bed, it must not be too soft. If it is, use the floor, but put down first a folder blanket or a duvet. You must also have ready
• Massage oil
• A large towel, a smaller towel and a small pillow
• Some relaxing music
• A few scented candles, with some scent like cinnamon which is considered to be somehow aphrodisiac.
The room should be warm, as your partner will be naked (but not at first). Light the candles, put on the music, and you are about ready.
Many techniques include massage (or masturbation) of the gentiles.
This technique does not, but recommends intercourse as the natural conclusion of the massage.
Massage technique
With your partner lying face-down (and perhaps a small pillow under her or his head, and a rolled small towel under the ankles (to elevate the foot slightly) put some oil into your hands. Never put the oil or massage cream directly on the partner’s skin as it can confuse and even ruin the mood of the massage.
Back massaging
Start with the high back, rubbing with flat hands in circles (the left hand circling counter-clockwise and the right hand clockwise). This is a relaxing stroke and you can move both lower or higher. Keep your hand well oiled until your partner’s skin (as well as your own) has stopped “drinking†the oil. As you move higher and lower with this stoke, you can now move both hands in the same direction.
As you continue, you can include the whole of the back, and how your circling strokes become the swimming stroke. These are very large a movements beginning at the small of your partner’s back and finishing at the nape of the neck. You can continue like this for some minutes, and you will give a great pleasure to your partner; who will begin to melt beneath you.
The shoulders and neck
You next work on the shoulder and neck with the flat of your thumbs and even kneading (as if you were kneading dough for bread). Continue for a few minutes.
Buttocks & Legs
Work your way down now to your partner’s buttocks. Use the kneading technique at first, and then end with small circling. Work at the cleavage of the buttocks, and on the inside of the thigh, but do not actually touch your partner’s anus or gentiles. Come as close as you can without doing so, and tease this areas with feathery strokes.
Quickly move down each leg, massaging with the kneading movement, then the circling. Now go to each foot. Apply more oil and rub and massage each part of the foot, each toe even. Place special emphasis on the sole, and use your thumbs to massage the ball of the foot and then arch.
Asking your partner to turn over, work your way up the leg to the hips. Be careful to NOT touch the genital area, but only come as close as is possible. This is like scratching a mosquito bite, but around the bite, and not directly on it.
The front of the body
Lift your partner slightly from the small of the back two or three times. Then on your partner’s abdomen, do large swimming stokes, and keep this up for at least 3 to 4 minutes. This area will ignite the sexual centers, and create a great desire for sexual union with your partner; but do not yield till you are finished giving the massage.
Continue with small circling movements on the chest or breast of your partner, and then move to the next with light pressuring movements only. Go behind your partner now and work on his or her face from behind. Do very light massage, not neglecting the lips, and eyes. Move to the sides of the forehead, and then end with the earlobes. There are great sexual centers (used also by acupressurists) there, and end with light pressure to each lobe.
You end the massage now on the whole of your partner’s body with the back of the hands, using only the tips of the fingernails in as light and long stokes as possible.
Practice and enjoy the above
Try the above and you will find a massage will add a different and enjoyable dimension to your relationship
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The Top 10 Secrets For Great Sex!
Clearly there are no rules, only what lovers have known since Antony and Cleopatra: “Pay attention, be kind, and be loving”. But the following Top Ten List might be a useful reminder! Enjoy!
1. Guys: Great sex starts in the kitchen! Wash the dishes, take out the trash, give her a break, let her know she’s appreciated. Romance and exhaustion do not mix — think about it! (Besides, standing there, side by side, washing and drying those dishes, hands could get to roamin’ and motors could get to tickin’ …the most amazing things do happen!)
2. Gals: Tell that old fool just exactly what you’ve been waiting for! Most males are notoriously poor mind readers, they just don’t “get it”. So tell him! “A little softer” or “let me show you” goes much further than, “How come you never know what I want?”
3. Guys: Take time! Sex is about fun, relaxation, laughter and love — this is not a competition or a 50-yard dash to the finish line! Start slow, let it build, then finish strong. A glass of wine, maybe some music, a backrub, even a few minutes of silence can shift the mood and make things verrrry interesting!!
4. Gals: Make Time! How often does sex happen last thing at night, with two exhausted people trying to find each other in the dark? Or, first thing in the morning, half asleep, with bad breath? If sex is important, why not treat it like getting your haircut or picking the kids up after school? In other words, schedule time, put it on the calendar and treat it as a key part of keeping yourself and the family running smoothly.
5. Guys: Think about your 4th date with the woman you love, after you were well acquainted but everything still felt new and exciting. Remember thinking about it, scheduling it, making dinner reservations? Remember being on time? Did you bring flowers, maybe plan something romantic or special? Remember taking a shower and using cologne? Well, guess what — she’s still special and she’s still waiting!
6. Gals: If you want great sex, seduce him! This is not rocket science! Most guys are sooooo easy. They’re “visual” — show him what he likes. They’re easily flattered — whisper what he wants to hear. Touch him right there, or if you prefer, right THERE!!! Tease him, just don’t be a tease.
7. Guys: Surprise her. Women love that. And, the beauty is, almost anything will work. Surprise her with flowers, with a card, get a baby-sitter for the evening, put a note on the windshield of her car. Even surprise her by cleaning the bathroom! Almost anything will work, just be kind, be gentle, and put a little thought into it.
8. Gals: With all the talk about “size”, remember that a man’s biggest sex organ is his imagination — so use your own! Everyone has fantasies — some romantic, some kinky, maybe even a few that are slightly dangerous or outrageous. What are yours? And, what are his? Why not play dress-up? Why not go on a date with someone “new”?
9. Guys: I just told the gals you have a great imagination — don’t make me a liar! Use it! How long has it been since you had sex in the back seat of a Ford? Would she enjoy a date with a spy? Being seduced by a plumber or “the cable guy”? Is your shower big enough for two? Ever done it at the office — how about her office?
10. Gals: Take time to add variety and spice with tasteful magazines, toys, movies and beautiful lingerie. For most people (including men) pornography quickly turns into a turn-off, but a little satin and lace, maybe some sensual pictures or using common household items in a whole new way can sure add delight to the old routine. Explore, experiment, lock the bedroom door and play some brand new games! As they say, “Just do it!”
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