Archive for June, 2007
Sex Outside The Bedroom!
Location: Kitchen
What to Do:
We all know that the kitchen can be the hottest room in the house when the oven is on, but, believe me, you don’t have to be using any appliances in order to heat things up in there.
Do you have a kitchen island or dining room table in the room? One partner can lean over it while the other partner penetrates from behind. Islands can be a little too high sometimes, but your kitchen counters can also be a good choice for this type of fun.
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Dining room tables and floors also make ideal locations for sex in almost any position and variety (oral, anal, vaginal).
That’s not all though. Look around your kitchen sometime and you’ll be amazed at all of the fun sex toys you can find there. Popsicles and ice cubes can be useful during foreplay or can add some sizzle to oral sex. Bananas, carrots, even turkey basters can be used as impromptu dildos. Plus, there’s always the reliable whipped cream which can be spread EVERYWHERE on your partner’s body, then licked off with your eager tongue.
Why It’s Hot:
The biggest reason is that the kitchen is supposed to be a “clean” place where you’d never do something as dirty as sex. After all, you and your friends eat here, right? Part of the fun is having sex in places where you’re not supposed to be getting it on and the kitchen fits that bill nicely.
Another reason why it’s hot is because there are so many things to play with in the kitchen, as you’ve already seen from the ideas above. It’s really an experimental couples sexual playground.
Fun Fantasies:
A couple is slaving over the food preparations for a party they are throwing for their family and friends. Their first guests will be arriving in about a half an hour. All the heat from the cooking is turning up their temperatures as well though and when they make eye contact across the kitchen island, he comes over and starts kissing her.
Still kissing passionately and stroking each other lustfully, the couple backs until they fall over they fall across the kitchen table. She says they won’t have time before the guests arrive. He smiles and tells her to stay right where she is – he’s going to help her cool down before the party. He goes to the freezer and grabs a couple of ice cubes and returns to the table.
He places the ice cubes in his mouth, then kneels down on the floor and reaches under her skirt to remove her panties. The inside of his mouth and his tongue are cold from the melting ice cubes as he spreads her legs and begins to give her an oral sex. Chills from the sudden touch of his freezing tongue and from pleasure race up her spine.
She climaxes just as the doorbell announces the first arriving guest.
Location: Bathroom
What to Do:
Bathrooms can be great for almost any kind of sex. If you want something romantic and intimate, you can have sex in a bathtub surrounded by burning candles and filled with rose petals and bubbles. For something a little nastier, bend her over the sink and have sex with her from behind while you’re both looking at yourselves in the bathroom mirror.
Showers offer a lot of possibilities, too. You can have sex standing up, on all fours, or bending over. You can also add a shower massager for extra stimulation or a water-proof vibrator to make sure everyone has an equally good time.
If you have a sunken tub in your bathroom, you could always have your partner leaning half out of the tub while the man penetrates her from behind.
And don’t forget – no one said this has to be YOUR bathroom. The bathroom at a hotel or a friend’s house can be just as fun and maybe even more fun.
Why It’s Hot:
Water and sex are an incredible combination. In fact, it seems to intensify the passion and longing you’re probably feeling for the other person.
Bathrooms sometimes have great toys, too. As I already mentioned, shower massagers are one of the best ways to help a woman “get off” and there are numerous other items, including hairbrush handles, toothbrushes, and loofah sponges that can be fun as well.
After you’ve both reached the heights of sexual gratification and your woman’s vaginal area is still throbbing tenderly from the last remnants of her orgasm, you can take a hair dryer on the lowest setting and direct the warm air between her legs. The light breeze will provide just enough stimulation to the still aroused area to give her a few more chills.
Fun Fantasies:
A woman is in the shower getting ready for another day at work. The shower door opens, revealing her partner standing there completely naked. He steps under the warm spray of water with her.
He grabs her loofah sponge and puts a small amount of body wash on it, then begins rubbing it slowly and sensuously over her back, then her arms, and around her breasts. He continues moving the sponge down further – first on gently rubbing it over her behind and then moving to her front and between her legs, then down her legs and onto her feet. By now, her whole body is tingling with desire, as is his.
He motions for her to get on all her hands and knees in the shower, then he kneels behind her and reaches for the shower massager. With a quick thrust, he penetrates her from behind while at the same time directing the massager’s water pressure directly at her vagina. Both are soaking wet and crying with pleasure with their orgasms arrive simultaneously.
Location: Backyard
What to Do:
The options for a lusty good time are really only limited by what you have in your backyard. If you have a porch or deck with stairs, the man can sit there with the woman sitting on his penis (an excellent way to get very deep penetration). Porch and deck railings can also be useful because the man can bend the woman over them while he’s having sex with her from behind.
If you have trees in your backyard, then you can either use them for support as you have sex standing upright or you can try almost any position in its shade. Picnic tables, like dining room tables, make great places for almost any type of sexual position, too. Although, avoid wooden picnic tables which can splinter and cause injuries during sex.
In the spring, the grass is nice and soft so it can be a great substitute for a boring bed when it comes to sex. Sprinklers, hoses, and water guns can be used to cool each other down before, during, and after a good sex romp during the summer. And, if you’re located some place cold, nothing is nicer than making out in the freezing cold, only to go back inside and warm up through as your bodies create a delightful friction.
Why It’s Hot:
Sex is supposed to be private – that’s why we only do it in the privacy of our closed bedroom with the shades down and usually the lights off, right? Wrong. The great outdoors is where sex first started. Most of our ancestors were probably conceived under trees or in caves.
Outdoor sex is wild and freeing. We can bask in those primal feelings of lust and desire all we want.
Not to mention, there’s also the threat of being caught. Remember back to your first sexual experiences as a teenager or young adult: the biggest thrill wasn’t the sex itself but the danger of being caught doing something naughty. When you’re outside, you feel exposed to the world and the risk of being seen by prying neighbor eyes is always a possibility. This cranks up the heat in this location to its maximum.
Fun Fantasies:
A woman is planting flowers in her garden in the backyard when all of a sudden rain starts to pour down on her. She’s soaked in a matter of minutes and the rain washes all of the dirt and mud off of her. She starts to head back into the house when her partner appears on the deck wearing nothing but a pair of jeans. He seems oblivious to the rain that’s quickly soaking him as well.
She stops; their eyes meet, and her fingers begin undoing each of the buttons of her blouse slowly while he watches. She discards the shirt, leaving her breasts bare to his hungry eyes. Then she slips off her shorts and stands there in front of him almost nude. Now he joins her in the backyard and begins covering her wet skin with his lips.
While they kiss, she unfastens his pants and pulls them down, pushing him back gently so he falls into a sitting position on the deck stairs. Then she removes her panties and positions herself over his penis before allowing him to penetrate her as she sits on his lap. As they rock back and forth, joined together and being covered in rain, he reaches around and fondles her breasts until eventually their orgasms create lightning to accompany the storm.
What is wrong with today’s male sexual libido?
A couple of days ago, I participated in a recording of a TV round table discussion on human sexuality in changing times.
I was especially interesting in this topic because I receive tons of emails from men and women, but mostly men who say that they’ve had medical check-ups and nothing is physically wrong with them and yet for some unknown reason they’ve lost their “groove” and with it their ability to sexually attract the opposite sex. Basically they are sexually invisible to women, and a majority of them have just given up even trying to approach women because “what’s the point?”
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So what is wrong with today’s male sexual libido?
The word ‘libido’ is often used inappropriately to refer just to sexual arousal but sexual libido is a complex aspect of human sexual function. Sexual libido concerns our thoughts about sex, sexual fantasies, interest, and actually seeking sexual activity, everything that contributes to sexual desire or the drive to participate in sexual activity.
Consequently if a man complains that he is having problems with his libido it is important to clarify exactly what he means by this. The following review of the panel discussion will help separate out the many factors affecting today’s male libido and if you are one of the men affected by low sexual drive, this may actually provide possible areas of investigation:
1. So may men harbour fear and shame based attitudes towards sex
We are probably the only human culture where sexual passage, perhaps the single most important adult initiation, is ignored, avoided, or distorted. Many of us were left to piece together from peers and the mass media an understanding and acceptance of the power of our own sexuality. Because we have few meaningful, ceremonial means of discovering who we are as sexual beings we find ourselves wondering why the core hunger inside us – the emptiness we have been told we can fill with more techniques, more sex and other “external” pursuits – remains unsatisfied.
2. More and more men are terrified of women
They are afraid they will fail to prove their manhood or lose their symbolic status as “a man” if they are found as sexually undesirable or inadequate. Their fears are usually personal and often based on bad experiences that have nothing to do with the next woman.
3. The pressure to look good is no longer just limited to women alone
Poor body image is becoming a male problem too, with around half of all men falling prey to anxiety and embarrassment when attention is called to male physiques. Men are facing the same increased pressure as women to meet the standard of the muscular defined body that is promoted in film and T.V and magazines. Now if a man wants to attract a woman with a great body, then he must have to have one too.
4. More and more men would rather view porn than have actual sexual intimacy with a real alive and breathing woman
Small wonder, if men are terrified of an actual presence of a naked, willing woman, it seems only logical that they would rather stay home and jerk off to porn. But the real question is: is porn responsible for deadening male libido in relation to real women? There are a lot of arguments on both sides of the table and the jury is not out yet out on this one.
5. As a man grows older or undergoes various kinds of stress he does not think of sex as often and therefore it is much more difficult to turn him on.
Though psychological aspect greatly influences male sex drive, male sexual desire, needs and abilities much depend on age and stress factors. It has been found out that testosterone level in men decreases by 1-2% per year. With an aging populating we have very limited testosterone in circulation. It is however important to not that testosterone levels vary between men of the same age depending on many features, such as mode of living including stress levels, general sexual attitudes, state of health, climate, genetic peculiarities etc.
6. Distorted emphasis on the “sacredness” of sex ushered in by New Age teachings is creating more “enlightened” hypocrites
The problem lies in the fact that these “new teachings’ so efficiently disguise people’s true thoughts, feelings and desires under a conventional form and language that ends up suppressing people’s ability to really express their sexual thoughts, feelings and desires exactly the way they are without censoring them to fit a certain philosophy or technique or whatever.
7. Too many men are zonked out on some kind of substance or taking some kind of prescription
It is estimated that one in every two males in North America consumes some sort of substance or drug that decreases the body’s ability to produce testosterone (male hormone). This includes everything from alcohol to Marijuana, from cocaine to heavy cigarette smoking, from antidepressants to tranquilizers.
8. Sexual encounters and intimate moments are ever meaningless
The usual approach is a hurried, forced event, in which woman’s orgasm is relatively rare and man’s ejaculation is prematurely speeded up by jerking back and forth movements – a mere three to seven minutes of sexual activity and “Oh man! That was really great!” The permanent obsession to reach ejaculatory orgasm completely screws up the ability to respond spontaneously to the moment. The result is bad sexual experiences, and bad sexual experiences makes men insecure with women.
9. Too many unstable attachments and bad relationships
Few men report having had (or are in) a relationship in which both partners know what they want and what they like, and are not ashamed of trying new positions and other sex experiments in bed, because they know each other for quite a long time. Shallow attachments and frequent change of guards just makes men more insecure and unsure about their sexual abilities.
Although a thorough appreciation of your individual life circumstances will benefit the understanding of what is affecting your male libido, it is important that the interactive effect of physical, psychosocial and spiritual factors all be taken into consideration
And remember: the sooner you do it the sooner you will be able to enjoy sex life and life in general again.
About the Author: Christine Akiteng is an internationally renowned Sexual Confidence/Dating Coach and author of eBook: The Art Of Seducing Out Of Fullness. Her unique approach to dating has helped hundreds create positive, constructive, honest and fulfilling relationships.
Christine’s websites: http://www.torontosnumber1datedoctor.com and http://www.theartofseducingoutoffullness.com
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How The Famous “Human Growth Hormone” Works…
Hi! Gabrielle Moore here…
Today I want to talk about the so famous “Human Growth Hormone”.
My clients often ask me about it, and I must say: it works!
So, if you want to BOOST your sex drive, you must read this article!
Have a great weekend!
Gabrielle Moore
What is HGH?
HGH stands for Human Growth Hormone. Human Growth Hormone is the naturally occurring substance from the human pituitary gland that plays a key role in young, active function of body, brain and sex organs.
Levels of Human Growth Hormone decrease as we age. By middle age and beyond, HGH levels have plummeted to a tiny fraction of their youthful levels — and science shows that there is a direct correlation between lost HGH and the typical signs of aging, such as weight gain, loss of interest in sex, sagging skin and muscles, wrinkled skin that lacks good tone and texture, flagging memory.
HGH supplementation has been shown to:
- Decrease fat, while increasing lean muscle
- Improve the look and feel of your skin
- Increase bone density, and even reverse osteoporosis
- Power up the brain, and maintain memory even during aging
- Boost the sex drive
- Tone and improve overall physical and mental well being
- Contribute to better sleep
- Improve mood, and banish depression and fatigue
How do I know HGH releaser products are safe?
Choose carefully to get the highest quality products from the options in this genuinely beneficial category. Go with a product from a company that has a good reputation, such as GenF20 HGH — this one attests to its safety and reliability. There are neither side effects nor known drug interactions with GenF20 HGH. This product is manufactured in GMP certified laboratories, that is, pharmaceutical quality labs of the highest standards. These are the kinds of safety checks to look for. Ask your doctor if you have specific concerns.
Some claims I’ve seen say you must have HGH by injection for it to work. If that’s true, how can tablets be effective?
Originally, HGH products were only available in very expensive injections of HGH derived from donors’ pituitary glands post mortem. The HGH molecule, it was discovered, could not absorb into the bloodstream by other methods because it is too large to pass through the walls of the digestive system. However, new techniques have created the tablet supplement that uses a formula to trigger and stimulate the pituitary gland to produce and secrete more HGH itself. The HGH goes into your body just as nature intended, in other words, through the glandular system — just as it did when you were in your 20s!
What side effects are there?
There are no known side effects with HGH releasers. Many studies have been conducted in all age groups, and no ill effects whatsoever have been reported. Just make sure the product you purchase is produced in a GMP certified laboratory.
How long can I take HGH?
Initially, it’s recommended that you take the product for about 6 months to bring your body’s HGH production levels up. At this time, you may wish to take a “pause” of up to 1 year, while you continue to enjoy the benefits of increased HGH. Your body’s new HGH production levels won’t drop dramatically during this time. Then you can repeat the process to enhance HGH production in the long term. If you are having trouble finding a product that outlines these specifications, we recommend GenF20 as a product you can’t go wrong with.
How quickly do HGH releasers work? How fast will I look and feel better?
You should plan to stay on the HGH supplement for at least 3 months when you begin your program. Results vary depending on your existing level of HGH when you begin, so for instance, people who have very low levels of HGH have more immediate results. Most people, regardless of current HGH level, report feeling better, sleeping better and having more energy right away, with improvement in appearance and muscle tone and other benefits generally becoming more pronounced over the first couple months.
Is HGH just for older adults?
Because the lowest levels of HGH are found in older populations, they’ll experience results most quickly. However, because HGH affects so many systems and organs, it has benefits for adults of any age.
I heard HGH was a very expensive treatment to obtain. Why are HGH tablets so affordable?
Advances in the engineering of amino acids that comprise this product mean the costs are only a small fraction of what HGH injections would cost. Originally, HGH injections could run as much as $15,000! Now you can obtain quality HGH supplementation affordably thanks to new scientific breakthroughs in understanding HGH and manufacturing effective releasers of HGH. We recommend GenF20 HGH as the best value around.
Is it possible to take too much of this product?
As with all supplements or drugs, you should stay within the guidelines established for you by the research community and pharmaceutical manufacturer. Follow the instructions as they appear on the label or product insert, as increasing the dosage usually results in product wastage.
How can I obtain these products and maintain my privacy?
Ordering online is a great way to discreetly get the product you want. Read the site carefully to find out how the manufacturer ships; if they don’t already ship in plain packaging that doesn’t reveal the contents, you may be able to request the service.
How about a guarantee?
You should insist on a guarantee, and make sure to read the fine print. Although all reputable companies offer them, not all companies that have them are reputable. Take extra time to read how the guarantee works, some products require a one year supply to be eligible for a refund, so shop carefully! If you have trouble finding a product you trust on your own, we recommend GenF20, as it features a straight forward guarantee that you can have confidence in.
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