Archive for July, 2007
Hot Sex Starts With a Little Romance
Men who truly amaze their partners in bed know a little secret: great sex doesn’t start in the bedroom. If you want to turn things up in the bedroom, then you need to set the stage in advance. And that means doing a little advance planning and putting together an incredible experience she’s not going to forget.
First, you’ve got to be alone. Your partner may have sex in your bedroom with the door closed even when the kids are asleep in the next room but she’s not truly going to get into the moment when there’s a chance of waking them up or having them walk in. So your first job is to schedule some alone time with her. And that doesn’t just mean you’ve got to leave the kids somewhere else – that also means friends, parents, co-workers, everybody who could interfere in what you’ve got planned have to be out of the picture. If you’re thinking it’s impossible, just imagine how amazing the night is going to be with just the two of you alone enjoying each other with more abandon than you’ve ever imagined. I’m guessing you’ll find the motivation you need.
Second, create a romantic interlude for her. Women aren’t only seduced through their bodies. If you want to truly make all of her body come alive to your touch, then you have to start by turning her on mentally and that’s going to require a little romance.
Let’s look at two scenarios which could make the bedroom a much more fun place for the two of you tonight.
Idea #1
Start off by preparing a fabulous meal for her while she’s gone at work. If you’re not the world’s greatest cook, don’t worry. Cook whatever you know how to make – it’s not the meal itself but the idea of the meal that will work magic. Now when she’s on her way home, turn off all the lights and instead light a trail of candles which will lead her into the dining room. Have the table set with more candles. You can serve white or champagne but avoid any hard liquor because alcohol make release your inhabitations but it also dampens the performance for both partners and that’s definitely not how you want the evening to end.
Before you serve a delicious dessert, sneak up stairs and draw her a warm bubble bath. Surround the tub with lighted candles and lower the lights. Once she’s finished eating, lead her up the stairs and slowly undress her for the bath. Then give her a bath. Move slowly over her body, paying particular attention to all of her erogenous zones. Don’t concentrate too much on her breasts at first. Wait until she’s clearly getting exciting before you suds them or make your way between her thighs.
After the bath, towel her dry and start the foreplay. By now, she’s both mentally and physically prepared to enjoy a full evening of enjoying your body as much as you were enjoying hers.
Idea #2
If your partner is a little more adventurous, plan a romantic interlude that won’t end in the bedroom but somewhere even more erotic. Make reservations at her favorite restaurant and arrange to take her there as a surprise. Over dinner, slip away to the “bathroom” then call her cell phone. When she answers, use your deepest, sexiest voice to outline all of the ways you want to pleasure her for the evening. Be explicit. Women can be very easily stimulated this way because we have incredibly vivid imaginations, especially of the men we’re sleeping with. Don’t think she has spent long hours picturing the two of you in some pretty hot situations before.
After dinner, drive to somewhere secluded. Have a CD playing that sets the mood – you can either choose romantic ballads or something a little sexier depending on what helps turn her on the most. Now bring out your secret weapon: a battery-powered vibrator. Lean her seat back and slide the vibrator inside of her. All the while, whisper in her ear about what you’ve still got in store for her. Pretty soon, she’ll be practically (and maybe literally) begging you to come inside of her.
And that’s the moment you do exactly what she asks. If you can’t get comfortable in the car, get a room at the closest motel you can find and spend the rest of the night finding out just how many orgasms you’re both capable of having.
Better Sex Through Naughty Toys
Let me get rid of one of the biggest misconceptions guys have when it comes to sex and their partners. You know those sex toys she’s hiding in her nightstand? They don’t have to replace you. In fact, believe me, your woman would much rather have you inside her than any old piece of plastic. There’s plenty you can give her that she just can’t get from a dildo or a vibrator.
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Unfortunately, lots of guys end up viewing their partners’ sex toys (or sex toys, in general) as a threat and they miss out on a golden opportunity to give their women some intense pleasure by combining two of her favorite things: you and her sex toy. In lots of ways, this is the best threesome she could ever hope for and if you’re serious about becoming an even more amazing lover then now is the time to learn how to master the power of the sex toys.
First, let’s talk about your sex toy arsenal. If your partner doesn’t have any toys lying around or she has them so well hidden you’ve never seen them, then you’re going to need to find a good store where you can find some. Now I know this can be a little embarrassing if it’s your first time picking out dildos or cock rings, but remember getting rid of your inhibitions is an important step to taking your bedroom fun to a higher level. Of course, if you’re too nervous to shop in person, you’ll find plenty of great stores online which sell everything you need.
Now what exactly do you need? I would definitely suggest a vibrator. Dildos can be work, but you’ll find a vibrator is going to be more useful. You’ll probably want something small so it will be easier to handle. Make sure you also buy some high quality lubricant. You want the vibrator to slide inside of her easily without causing uncomfortable friction – that’s not a turn on at all.
Don’t hesitate to look around and pick out some other handy items, too. Cock rings are great if you want to be able to hold your erection longer and many of them have built-in vibrators which can increase the pleasure for both of you. Anal beads can be a great toy for both of you. Like a string of pearls, you simply put them inside your partner (or have her return the favor), then slowly pull them out. It’s a very sensitive area full of nerve endings and the gentle pressure from the beads feels amazing, especially if you use a little lubricant.
Once you have collected your arsenal of sex toys, you’ll need to know how to use them. In fact, you can use them at almost stage of your bedroom fun.
During foreplay, run the vibrator over her breasts or her inner thighs. The vibration will excite all of those sensitive nerves and will make her tremble with excitement for you. You could also use it to tease her a little by sliding inside her just a little then pulling it out again. When she begs you to go deeper (and she will!) you know it’s time to pull out the real thing.
Once you’re in the moment, a well-placed vibrator can almost guarantee that she’ll climax. The problem for many women is that it’s difficult for a man’s penis to hit her clitoris in just the right way to bring her to orgasm. Some women can have vaginal orgasms with just penetration, but don’t rely on that possibility. Clitoral orgasms are usually stronger and longer, so they are much more prized by your woman.
You can slide the vibrator inside her along with your penis or while you’re giving her oral sex. If you have a vibrator designed for the anus, you can have that in place during almost any type of penetration and it will be sending intense shock waves through the lower part of her body. You might even be lucky enough to hit her G-spot and send her to the moon with ecstasy!
After you’ve both climaxed, you don’t necessarily have to call it a day. Bring out the vibrator and use it to bring her to orgasm two, three, four, even five more times. When you can make her have multiple orgasms, you’ll definitely shoot right to the top of her list of the world’s greatest lovers.
Just remember to keep your sex toys clean. Never use them on different body parts or people without thoroughly cleaning them first. You don’t want to ruin all of the intense fun the two of you are going to share.
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7 Ways To Get Her Hot!
Hi honey! Gabrielle Moore here… with more sensual tips!
You want nothing more than to have your woman crying out your name in pleasure, right? The problem is you don’t know exactly how to get her to that point consistently. Well, let me give you seven pointers that are sure to make her want you inside her in the worst way – and once she’s at that point, you’re home free.
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1. Touch her hand and wrist – Nothing seems less sexual on a woman’s body than her hands to most men, but they are actually extremely sensitive spots on her body. Just stroking her palm or the inside of her wrist very softly will send shivers all along her spine. Try rubbing your hand from her inner wrist all the way up her lower arm. Not only will she melt, but you’ll be putting her senses on high alert so she’ll be ready for more.
2. Whisper in her ear – Your woman’s ears aren’t just perfect for listening to you talk about your day at the work. They’re actually a very sensual part of her body. Plus, they’ll directly connect you to the most sexual organ in her entire body: her brain. Lean close to her and whisper in her ear. The gentle rush of warm air along her ear will send tingles down her spine. And if you’re saying some naughty words about what you want to do the non-ear parts of her body you’ll probably get quite a rise out of her.
3. Give her neck some attention – While you’re whispering in her ear, your hands can be working their magic on her neck. For some reason, the base of the neck where it connects to the shoulders and upper back is full of nerve endings that would love to send shots of pleasure rushing through her whole body courtesy of your fingertips so don’t disappoint them. Gently stroke her lower neck with your fingers and when you’re not whispering in her ear you could also cover it with delicate kisses and maybe even a little lick.
4. Stroke her hair – You may love the way her hair smells after a shampoo or the way it feels draped over your chest after a round of passionate sex, but you probably don’t show it the attention SHE wishes you would. A woman’s scalp is super sensitive and each strand of her hair is connected to it. Imagine what that means when you start stimulating thousands of those strands at one time! Remember women aren’t just playing with their hair to look cute or flirtatious; they do it because it feels amazing for them, too. Just start running your hands over her hair and she’ll start to melt. Some women even go crazy when their partners brush their hair for them.
5. Massage her back – What woman can resist a sensual massage? None that I’ve ever met! And there’s a good reason. A woman’s back is teaming with nerve endings just waiting for stimulation. Of course, each woman is different in terms of where the sweet spots tend to be. Some prefer the areas just under the shoulder blades; others get weak with a few strokes on their lower back. Part of the fun for you will be discovering all of the best places for your fingers, hands, tongue, and lips to enjoy her body. If you really want to experiment, take a feather and light stroke her back with it. The moaning you hear now will only be a prelude to what you’ll be hearing in the bedroom.
6. Touch her lips – You’d probably be surprised to discover just how many tiny nerves can be found in those soft, sweet lips that have kissed you and which have probably given you hours of pleasure in other ways. Now you can repay the favor by giving them some much needed attention. Kiss her. Start with very gentle kisses, then gradually become more intense and passionate. If you want to start even more slowly, run the tip of your finger across her lips to give her goose bumps all over her body.
7. Ignore her breasts for awhile – Men love breasts, and women love men to love their breasts. But we love having you love the rest of us first. If you really want to work your woman into a frenzy, work on stimulating all of her body you can reach without removing any of her clothing. When she’s already highly aroused – and you’ll definitely be able to tell – then start stroking, kissing, and licking her breasts and nipples. Your devotion to the rest of her beautiful body won’t go to waste.
