Archive for July, 2008
Let HER Turn You On…
Hi! Here’s what I want you to do.
I want you to watch this video with your partner. Trust me, I normally tell couples to watch sexy videos together before having sex. And it really works!
So please relax, and let this very sexy woman turn both of you on.
IMPORTANT: Make sure you’re by yourself or with your partner only. It’s very… sexy, let’s put it that way.
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8 Tantric Touching Tips
Tantric lovemaking is not about learning new sex positions (although you will learn that too!). It’s about connecting with your lover in heart, mind, body and spirit. And to achieve this, one of the tenets of Tantric sex is tantric touching.
Tantric touching is to touch or physically connect with your lover in a deeper more spiritual way. With today’s hectic lifestyles, it’s amazing how many couples don’t even take the time to connect with each other via a simple loving touch.
Well, you won’t be one of those couples! Deepen sexual intimacy with her with these Tantric touch tips.
Tantric Touching 101
One: Make time for Tantric touching.
You can schedule a meeting. She can schedule a beauty parlor appointment. Surely, you can schedule something for the two of you! Get your calendars out and block an hour this Friday or the weekend. These dates are best as there’s something about the weekend that makes your minds and bodies relax.
Two: Prepare yourselves properly.
Simply plopping down on pillows cross-legged, facing each other and touching won’t do! It’s like forcing or expecting the effects of Tantric touching to just magically occur. No, you guys need to prime yourselves a bit. Here are some ‘primer’ tips.
- Sit down and have a nice cup of herbal tea together first.
- Take a walk hand-in-hand.
- Take a shower or bath together.
The point is to condition your minds to relax in each other’s presence.
Three: Prepare the Tanric touch area.
A relaxing touching session will not occur if you’re in a place of chaos. As such, take some time to prepare the area where you guys will have your touching session. You can dio this together or you can do it alone while she’s showering or taking a bath.
To prepare the area, here are some tips: place a nice soft rug on the floor and put a lot of pillows over it so your bodies are nicely cushioned. Then play some soft music and light some scented candles or burn some scented oils. Don’t make the smell overpowering. In most cases, a ‘whiff’ of something is better than a full-on scented assault. If you have them, scattered rose petals are great too!
Four: Free her inhibitions.
When she’s ready to join you, ask her to lie down on her back and close her eyes. It’s best if she’s wearing lingerie or a nightgown. If she’s uncomfortable or feeling vulnerable, ask her to close her eyes or if she wants to be blindfolded. A lot of people realize that they act freer and are more responsive when blindfolded.
Five: Drink in her whole presence.
Before touching her, take a step back and admire your woman. Start with the tips of her toes and work your eyes up her whole body till you reach the very of her head. Don’t look her up and down with the goal of critiquing or even trying to find her ‘best parts’. Simply preview her as you with a really exquisite painting by a master.
Six: Speak your desire.
Still not touching her, start to state how you love certain parts of her body. Don’t hold back and let out all your positive comments and even lustful ones. This will make her feel loved, cherished and yes, a bit horny too!
Seven: Start touching her.
Start physical contact with her body. It doesn’t really matter where you touch first but it’s best to start with ‘small touches’. For example, touch her toes first with just your fingertips instead of using your hands and grabbing her ass right away. However small the touch, make it firm. Your goal is not to tickle her after all! Give this part some time before you move on to firmer, bigger touches.
Eight: Pay attention to her reactions.
Take notice of how she’s reacting to your sexual touches. Is she relaxed? Too relaxed? Or is she too tensed?
If she’s too relaxed, then your touch needs to be a bit firmer (maybe even a bit more naughty!). If she’s all tensed up, then you may be pushing her to an early sexual release. Ease up a bit so she’s not pushed over the edge… yet.
Here are ways to help you detect how your touch is making her feel.
- Is she making noises? What type of noises?
- How are her facial features? For instance, are her brows relaxed or tensed?
- How’s her skin? Are they a bit flushed or cool with goose bumps on them? (Maybe you need to light more candles, lather some warm oil or increase the room’s temperature.)
Pay attention to how she’s reacting to your Tantric touch and react accordingly. Remember, the goal is to relax her mind, body and spirit and use this as a primer for making love so it would do well if the Tantric touching session is a success.
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Try These Sex Games With CAUTION! ;)
One of the reasons to include sex games in your relationship is to increase excitement and to remove boredom or prevent anything in your relationship from reaching ‘routine status’. As such, you should always be on the lookout for more, new and exciting sex games to try with your lover. And for that you need not go far, simply read on and see which one you want to try tonight, and which ones you want to save for later.
Daring Sex Games to Push Excitement and Intimacy to the Next Level
HONEY, I LIKE SPORTS TOO
Sports and sex: what a lethal combination! If your partner is one who’s not into sports as you are, then this sex game is a great way for her to take part in your love for the sport too. Start by agreeing on a sport that you both will watch. Assign different teams to each other.
List down several sexual activities; each one increasing in naughtiness and heat level as the last. Watch the game together and list down each team’s scores. At the end of the game, the team/partner with the highest score wins! The loser needs to carry out ALL of the sexual activities listed by the winner.
HOT Variation Tip # 1: Instead of waiting for the game to end, cash in your points each time your team scores something.
HOT Variation Tip # 2: Carry out this sex game while having family and friends over! During each break, sneak off to the bedroom or bathroom and start collecting your winning points!
FIND YOUR PLEASURE
List down the Top 5 things that you know your lover just absolutely loves you performing on her. Don’t be shy to list down things that really make her crazy and shout! Turn these things into five sex coupons and hide it in different places of your bedroom. Tonight, tell her that she needs to go on a massive sex coupon hunt.
As she searches in the room, say if she’s ‘hotter’ or ‘colder’ as she comes close or far to a sex coupon. Whatever coupon she finds, you must do the deed listed on the coupon!
HOT Variation Tip # 1: Use a timer and set this to 30 seconds or 1 minute. Your partner should find as many sex coupons as she can in that time. Whatever she finds, you must do whatever’s listed on the coupons found.
HOT Variation Tip # 2: Don’t list various sexual activities on the coupons, list down sex positions instead. Another tip is not to indicate this in words but in pictures. Cut out (or download from the internet and print out) some really hot sex positions and paste this on the sex coupons.
TRUTH OR DARE
This is a sexualized version of this popular game. Tonight, make sure you’re alone at home. After a nice, sexy, romantic dinner, turn down the lights, light some scented candles and play some soft, sexy music.
Take of all your clothes and sit across each other on the floor or bed, and then play the traditional Turn or Dare game. This time, however, only questions concerning sexual activities are allowed. Use this opportunity to really know your lover and help her bring out your sexual fantasies to life. For example, you can ask questions like “what public place would really like to try and have sex?”, “what sexual fantasy do you want to try tonight”?
BLINDFOLD ME
In this sex game, you’re blindfolded by your lover and she gets to put some lotion or scented oil all over your body. (Stuff like chocolate, honey, or whipped cream is also allowed.) She then starts to touch a part of your body with something (a feather, cotton ball, her tongue, etc.) and then you have to guess what she’s using to touch you. If you guess correctly, you can demand a sexual activity from her. If you guess wrong, she gets to ask a sexual activity from you.
THE ONE-NIGHT STAND
Role-playing is very much a part of many sex games. It’s a great way to break down any shyness on your or her part because a part of you thinks that it’s not really you engaging in that sexual act anyway. One favorite sex game of many couples is to role-play the one nigh stand affair.
Don’t plan this one. Just email, call or send a message to your partner that you plan to eat out tonight and if he/she can meet you at this pub or bar later. (You can decide to meet at a real sleazy bar.) Don’t give anything else away.
Once you meet at the pub, act like you’re someone else and try to ‘pick her up’ from the bar. If she’s game, she’ll easily pick up your hints and play along. Now, move on and DON’T go home. Go to a motel or hotel room and do the deed!
