Archive for October, 2008
Sensual Stroking – Why Don’t You Give Her a ‘Hand’ Tonight?
We all know that a good hand job can do the trick for guys, so why not try it on your girl and see what it can do for her? For the most part, men need only a few good strokes to get them to the end result, but women need a little more than that. Check out how to give her the sensual stroking of her life.
Some Do’s and Don’ts Before You Get Started
Do remember that this is not a race! Be prepared to spend some time down there if you really want to make her climax like never before.
Don’t go straight for her clitoris! Yeah, that may be where most of her pleasure-hungry nerves are, but if you get there too quick, your touch will feel more annoying than hot!
Do listen and make sure that your in touch (pun intended) with what’s working or not for her.
Don’t stop until you’re finished—or she’s finished rather.
The Hand Moves that Will Max Her Pleasure
• Start by having her lie on her back naked and begin with things like kissing and caressing her lips, face, neck, breasts, etc., and then SLOWLY make your way south. Once you’re down below the waist, take the time to rub and caress her all around her sweet spot until it seems that she can’t take the teasing anymore.
• When you’re ready to move to her womanhood, use your entire hand. With your palm down, rub the area lightly at first and then add a little more pressure.
• She should be getting wet by now, but if not, take some lube or massage oil and pour a little on just above her pubic bone and massage it down and around her vagina.
• Now you can move onto using your fingers. With your index finger; run it gently up and down along her slit and then around the sides of her ‘lips’. The point of this is to tease her and make her crave your finger inside of her. The teasing and anticipation will send her through the roof.
• Next, let your finger graze her clitoris for a second and tease the rest of her womanhood with it. Each time you pass her clitoris, let your finger linger a little longer until you can see that it’s swollen with excitement and rock hard. (Yes, women get ‘boners’ too!)
• Now that she’s really turned on; run your finger in a couple of tiny circles over her clitoris and then slide it down her slit and slowly push it inside of her and push it in and out slowly a few times before puling it back out.
• Now it’s time to focus even more attention on her clitoris. Use your index and middle fingers and put them on each side of her nub so you’re holding it between your fingers. Now start to move it up and down. This move is basically like jerking her off, only instead of your manhood, you’re jerking off a hard little nub! Keep at it until you can see that she’s getting close to climaxing.
• When she’s writhing around all over the bed and almost there; slide two fingers inside of her and use your thumb to start rubbing her nub as your fingers pump in and out of her. Imagine that you’re trying to get the pad of your thumb to meet and work in unison with the pads of the two fingers that are inside of her, the same way that you would to snap your fingers.
• Continue this move and add more pressure and speed as you go along. She’ll make it clear when you’ve found the ideal tempo and if not, then just ask her if it feels good. When you know you’ve got the right amount of speed and pressure then keep at it and don’t stop until she orgasms!
Extra Tips
• Pay attention to her body and her voice so you know when what you’re doing feels right. It can be a little hard to know if she’s loving it if she’s one of those shy girls who isn’t too comfortable making noise in bed, in which case you need to ask. A simple “You like that baby?” or “how does that feel?” should suffice.
• Keep the lube handy since some brands tend to dry up quickly and become a little sticky. You want stuff to be slick and smooth but not so lubed that she can’t feel your fingers!
• Try to use your other free hand on the rest of her body while you’re working your magic down below.
• Be patient!! Sensual stroking is about getting her off and that can take some time, so don’t start something that you’re not willing to finish!
Sensual Biting: How to Use Some Well Placed Nibbles to Drive Her Wild
Have you ever had someone lean in real close and press their lips against your skin in a way that caused your hairs to stand on ends just as they lightly nibbled on your ear or neck? It probably caused goose bumps to spring up along every inch of your body while making other things stand at attention to, am I right? This exact same reaction is what makes sensual biting an extension to foreplay that shouldn’t be overlooked no matter how cheesy it may sound.
As it turns out; you can stray from the ‘usual’ things that you think you need to do to help get her all ready and primed for action. A few well placed nibbles and bites will go a long way in getting her so charged up that she’ll barely be able to keep her clothes on—or yours for that matter! Here’s what you need to do and how to do it right.
Tips That Will Make You a Sensual Biting Master
Start at the top. Resist the urge to head straight down to your other favorite parts of her body and begin on her ears and neck. She’s super sensitive there; plus, the point of sensual biting is to help get her in the mood for more, right? If you go straight for her special spots, you risk getting slapped away like a mosquito caught going in for the kill!
Don’t forget her lips. The lips are a great place to spend some time on. We all know that women love to be kissed and always want more of that, so why not make her happy by spending some extra time on the kisses and throwing in a few playful bites while you’re at it. The mix between sweet and naughty will really get her going and have her clawing at you for more. More. MORE!!!
Don’t rush, but make it snappy! You don’t want to just jump straight into biting her but rather take it slow with some kisses and even a little naughty talk if that’s what she’s into. It’s all about the tease here so take your time, but not when it comes to the actual biting. Keep your nibbles light and quick to avoid seeming more like an annoying puppy gnawing away at a slipper.
Breathe. The combo of your hot breath and your teeth grazing her skin will feel incredible, so making sure that you linger just long enough for her to enjoy your warm breath on her skin for a second or two before you nibble is important.
Pay attention. You’ll know by the way her body reacts to your bites if she is feelin’ it or not. Paying attention to her reaction to your moves will help you gauge if you should be even gentler or if perhaps she is game for something a tad rougher. Who knows, she may surprise you, so pay attention to avoid missing out.
Use your hands! I know that multi-tasking isn’t always easy, especially when most of our blood has left our brain and moved down to our nether regions, but try to remember to use your hands to caress or hold her while you’re nibbling away. It will be sensation overload and will drive her wild!
Be gentle—at least at first. Like I said, you can gage what she’s into by her reaction to your bites, but for the most part try to be gentle. The point of sensual biting is not to draw blood or seriously maim someone—unless that’s what they ask for! And since we’re focusing on all of the most sensitive spots of her body; one hard bite too many and chances are you’ll never make it to the really special spots! (Yes, you can bite that too)
Follow these tips are you’re guaranteed to rock her world before you even get to the meat of the game—pun fully intended. Sensual biting will go a lot farther then the same ol’, so make sure you give it a try and prepare to be amazed at how hot she gets! As long as you remember that there is a difference between sensual biting and vampire fetish, then you should be alright.
How to Make Your Woman Squirt
Just in case you didn’t know, women do ejaculate. The ‘juice’ is released from the Skene’s glands and is expelled from the urethra. The unfortunate news, however, is that just a handful of women have ever reached such an orgasmic height sufficient enough for them to ejaculate or squirt. Thumbs up to all you guys who do a great job. If you’re looking to learn more about making your lady ejaculate, keep reading.
#1: Start out with great foreplay.
Begin by doing those things that turn her wild. Nibble her ears and neck, gently and slowly suck her tits, and then proceed to licking her breasts. You could use your fingers to tickle her abdomen while sucking her tits and then proceed slowly to her inner thighs. Spend serious time on foreplay and don’t be quick to dive into her privates. She’ll be the one to lead you when she’s ready.
#2: The lick.
Before using your tongue at all, it’s important that IT is at room temperature – not too hot or cold. Begin by gently licking her from her vaginal entrance to her clitoris, following the outer edges of her vagina and on both sides. Repeat this technique slowly from top to bottom. Use the flat area of your tongue for this lick for maximum effect.
#3: The labia tickle.
Now slowly use the tip of your tongue to trace the margin of her labia minora on both sides. Then re-position your head and gently suck her labia minora on one side – slowly, gently and lovingly. With the labia in your mouth, use your tongue to gently caress it. Do the same on the other side.
#4: Slowly take the clitoris.
Take her clitoris softly into your warm mouth and suck on it slowly. You probably have her moaning wildly at this point. You want to remain creative by applying different strokes as well – top to bottom, bottom to top and circular. Basically, you should combine repeated sucking with strokes and intermittently go down to the labia minora.
While sucking her clitoris, don’t let your fingers stay idle, use them to fondle her breasts and tits and tickle her at those erogenous zones. Don’t overdo this as the game is just about to begin.
Some women also love it when you gently nibble their clitoris between your teeth. This requires so much gentleness. Let your imagination run wild people.
#5: The tongue tube.
Next, roll your tongue into a tube and slowly insert it into her – thrusting it slowly. This turns several women wild with pleasure. If you can’t roll your tongue, too bad – you’ll just have to skip this step. If you do roll your tongue, you need to train your tongue because this move isn’t as easy as it sounds – it’s a tad strenuous initially but you’ll get used to it in time.
#6: Let those fingers work like magic.
Give her clitoris a break for now; with your palms facing up slowly insert two fingers into her vagina and feel for her G-spot. Just in case you’re wondering, the G-spot is the round ball of skin an inch or two inside her vagina. Stroke this area with your fingers with gentle pressure. With each stroke, you’ll feel the G-spot get firmer. Stimulate the G-spot for a few seconds and keep working on her clitoris with your tongue.
#7: And finally…
It can’t be much longer before she has an orgasm and squirts all over you. Before she ejaculates, she may feel like urinating. Ask her to let go – it’s not urine. The ejaculate varies in quantity. Whatever happens, don’t act weird when it does come out. The more comfortable you are about it, the more intimate the sexual union. She’ll love you for it!
For more orgasmic tips to enjoy the WILDEST sex ever, click here!
