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5 Reasons Why Self-Love Is Good For You
Almost everyone does it; almost no one admits it. We are talking of self-love or masturbation, also famously called various slang terms such as wanking or jerking off. But whatever name you call it with, it boils down to the same thing. It is the stimulation of your genitals with your own hand (or sometimes, hands), most times to the point of orgasm.
The truth is that both men and women engage in this self-pleasing activity. However, very few people will mention it openly. Men may speak about it among themselves, but often in a taunting or teasing manner rather than seriously. Women will never even breathe about it (in general, any way).
So, what’s the problem here? The main problem is the social taboo surrounding masturbation that we have grown up with. This is probably the taboo that has the largest number of practitioners in the world! But the fact is – masturbation can actually be very good for you and your relationship!
Here Are At Least Five Ways Why Masturbation Is Good For You
1. The best thing about masturbation is that it is a readily available method of sexual gratification. If you feel ‘in the mood’, just go into a room alone and love yourself! You do not need to pursue anyone here. You don’t have to wait for her to get in the mood or… yikes! to be beg for some loving from your partner.
2. One more very significant thing is that there are no performance issues connected with self-love. When you are masturbating, the only person involved is you. Because of that, you do it much better since there is no excess baggage involved. You do not feel guilty about it later either!
3. The next great advantage is that there are no health risk involved whatsoever. Yes, there are some old wives’ tales about masturbation leading to blindness or may make you grow hair on your palm or drains off all your energies, but there is no nonsense more nonsensical than that stuff! You can masturbate as much as you please and not get a single health problem ever. In fact, studies show that masturbation is actually good for you! As you climax and ejaculate, you are in way ‘cleaning your tubes’. As such, many now believe that masturbation can help fight against prostate cancer.
4. Self-love is a great stress reliever. If you are stressed, you are highly recommended to try out some self-love. You will find a recharge of your mental energies after your masturbatory orgasm. Similarly, if you are an insomniac, masturbation could be a wonderful way to put you to sleep. Try this when you are tossing and turning in your bed. You will see that once you have an orgasm, you will be lulled to sleep almost instantly.
5. Self-pleasuring helps make you last longer in bed! Here’s a simple fact: if you make love excitedly, chances are you’ll ejaculate soon. Now consider the fact that women take much longer than men to really get excited to the point of climax and you have a situation where you’re ready to explode and she’s not. However, by masturbating before the ‘main event’, then you prolong your own climax, leading to more satisfying lovemaking event for you and your partner.
Now these are the benefits of masturbation that you definitely needed to know. However, you must also know that there are several misconceptions about masturbation. Let us debunk some of these myths here.
1. Masturbation does not drain your physical energy. The ejaculate contains seminal fluid. The seminal fluid is not what produces energy in your body. That’s your diet. So if the fluid is ejaculated, there is certainly no energy loss. In any case, the seminal fluid that you discharge is completely rebuilt within three days in the testes.
2. Masturbation does not make you a social outcast. Since most people are doing it still or have done it, they will understand anyone who is found out to be masturbating.
3. Masturbation does not come in the way of an intimate relationship. In fact, it helps it. Couples can try masturbating each other, which is a good way of keeping your sex lives exciting.
The first thing you need to remember is that self-love is not as taboo as you think it is. Several people that you know will be probably engaged in this activity. There are even Masturbate-a-thons being organized in various parts of the world so that people can overcome their inhibitions and enjoy the best form of relaxation in the world so… just do it!
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