Archive for March, 2009
Long-Distance Sex 101
Sometimes, mostly because of work, you need to go and spend a few days from your lover. That’s ok. Nothing makes the heart grow finder than a little absence, right? But why don’t you do something a little extra to ensure that she REALLY misses you. You know, just the kind of things that will make her lust after you while you’re gone and make her rip your clothes off as you come back and cross the front door.
Make Her Horny Tips While You’re Away
The Sweet Approach – Send Flowers
Women love romantics! So while you’re away, arrange to have a bouquet of flowers sent to her, with an endearing note. If you want to increase the lust factor of this gesture, write down a naughty note and then put it in an envelope with one condom. Seal the envelope and ask the florist to be sure and send it along with the flowers.
The Naughty Approach – Leave Lewd Notes
This one is very easy to do. Leave behind sizzling sexy sex notes at home for her to see while you’re gone. Be as timid or as sizzling as you dare to be. Also, don’t put any preambles in your notes. Use the shock factor! For example, instead of saying “When I come back, I want to kiss you and then…” Boring!
Instead, write down something like this “Arriving: 8 PM. Licking you down there by 8:05…”
The Naughty Approach – Send Sexy Messages
If you prefer to slowly build up the sexual tension instead of shocking her, try this approach. Send sexy SMS messages to her mobile phone during the period you’re away. Start from the simple “missing you” and work your way up to “can’t wait to f$%^ you”. By the way be careful when sending mobile messages. You don’t want to accidentally send them to somebody else!
The Dirty Approach – Send Something Naughty
Ok, maybe you don’t want to go all Angelina Jolie and Billy Bob and send a vial of your blood or used underwear, but that doesn’t mean you can’t send something naughty. For example, why not go to a sex shop, but something simple and send it to her with your EXACT ideas on how you guys will use it when you get home.
The Dirty Approach – Phone Sex
Ok, this for me is the ultimate long-distance keeping the sex alive approach: phone sex! The approach you take here depends a bit on your woman. If she’s very shy, warm up to the subject so this means call her and talk about other things first. If she’s ‘game’, then call her up when she least expects it: at work, at her parent’s place, or even while she’s already fallen asleep.
The goal is not necessarily to make her come. Although if she’s on her way there, why stop it? Enjoy yourselves!
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Try These Twists on the Missionary Position!
Ah, the good old reliable man-on-top missionary position. It’s a common fact that this is the most commonly used sex position by lovers all over the world. And it’s really not surprising why. In this position, you and your partner can kiss passionately, stare into each other’s eyes or embrace madly as your manhood penetrates her.
However, too much of anything, even if it’s a good thing, can be bad, right? Besides, you don’t want the R-word (routine!) to creep into your bedroom. So, hold on tight as I share with you these twists to the missionary position!
Six Man-on-Top Positions to Rock Your Worlds
The V
In this man-on-top position, you hold your partner’s feet or ankles and lift them towards her, lifting her bottom from the bed a little bit. You then assume a kneeling position. As such, her legs form a “V” and you my friend are right smack in the middle it!
In this position, you’re able to penetrate her deeper AND the increased pressure on her front will stimulate her clitoris better. Everybody’s happy!
The Cushion
In this man-on-top position, grab a pillow and slide it under her bottom. Ask her to raise her knees until her feet are flat on the bed. The advantage of this position is that you again get to penetrate her deeper while your upper body gets to rub against her clitoris better.
The Vine
In this man-on-top position, she puts her legs on top of your legs, making them look like entwined vines. This maneuver will restrict your thrusting a bit. This is thus the perfect time to ‘rub and rock’ against her as opposed to thrusting.
The Cube
This man-on-top position is a little bit like The V. However, instead of just having her legs straight up (and you holding her legs), have her fold her legs so that her knees are up her chest. She can rest her legs on your upper body. And then, ask her to reach up with her arms and hold your back (under your armpits). As for your hands, use one to stabilize you in this position, and the other to sort of embrace her legs in front of you. A tad complicated but definitely worth the effort!
The L
In this position, your woman is lying down on the bed with her legs up in the air. (She should hold her legs together.) You then penetrate her as she’s in this seemingly vulnerable position. It’s sort of like doggy style in reverse. Instead of having her on her knees and you taking her from behind, she’s lying down with her feet up in the air and you taking her from under her legs.
The Split
This man-on-top position is a mixture of The Cube and The Vine. In this position, one of her legs is stretched out and intertwined with one of your legs, sort of holding that leg down (as in The V). Her other leg, however, is lifted and placed in front of your chest. She can have her leg simply rest against your upper body, or, if she’s very flexible, she can bend her leg far so that her foot is flat against your chest. This sort of restricted and yet sort of free access position is very nerve-wracking because you’re so turned un you want to thrust away, yet your other leg is being clamped down by her other leg. Woo-hoo!
So I hope you enjoyed all these man-on-top variations. Remember though that in whatever position you try… comfort first! Don’t engage in anything that will hurt either of you.
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How to Do a Foot Job
A foot job can be a very erotic experience if you want it to be. It’s considered a type of ‘dry orgasm’ because there’s no direct exchange of bodily fluids. But did you know that a ‘foot job’ can mean two different things?
Firstly, receiving a foot job generally means having one’s genitals stimulated by his or her partner’s feet. So for you, it’s pretty much like getting a blow job but her feet are used to stimulate you instead of her hands and mouth. And you can give your partner a foot job too by using your toes to ‘explore’ her vagina.
Secondly, a foot job can also mean having one’s toes sucked by your partner. This is also called as having a foot fetish or a foot worship fixation.
Although both scenarios above can be called a foot job, the former tends to be more applied to males, while the latter description is enjoyed more by females. Somehow, sucking your toes does not appeal a lot to women because they know that men don’t spend as much time grooming their feet as women do. In addition, applying the first description of a foot job on women (i.e., stimulating her vagina with your feet) is also not tempting because it sort of feels that their genitals are being ‘investigated’ or ‘probed’ rather than caressed.
Well, now that we’ve gone through the nitty-gritty of what a foot job is, how do you convince your lover to give you one?
The following steps assume that you want your wife or girlfriend to apply a foot job on your genitals. Now, grab your lover and read the following steps together.
Step # 1. Discuss basic feet grooming. Toe nails are actually harder than fingernails so it’s best if she trims her nails; having a pedicure before giving a foot job is also not a bad idea. For added sexiness, it’s great if your lover paints her toe nails fiery red!
Step #2. Engage in some super sexy foreplay. Not only will this make things hot between the two of you but it will remove any awkwardness or shyness about giving and receiving a foot job.
Step #3. Reach for a good lubricant and together, apply a good dose on your feet. Massage her feet for a while. This will make her feel good and warm her feet before they touch your genitals.
Step #4. Know lie back on the floor and enjoy! Your lover, on the other hand, should get a small stool or chair and find a comfortable sitting spot beside you. From her raised sitting position, she should be able to comfortably extend her legs and have her feet touch your erect flagpole.
Step #5. At first, she should simply move your feet up and down your manhood (as it rests on your belly). She should then start to raise your penis with one foot, as the other continues caressing it. Once your manhood is fully raised, she can position her feet at both sides of your penis and move them up and down.
Step #6. Ladies, don’t forget to be creative! For example, what would your tongue do if you were giving him a blowjob? You would probably lick him right along the ridge of his pole right? Well, use your big toe then to do exactly that! Remember, your feet are lubricated so wriggling your big toe along his manhood or drawing small circles around it is just as good!
Here’s another tip: how about a double, simultaneous foot job? While in the same position as outlined above, lubricate only one of her feet. Now, as she tickles your pole with the lubricated foot, draw her other foot towards you and suck on her toes.
A foot job is easy to try. All you need is an open mind and clean feet! Give it a try. You’ll never know what tickles your lust bones if you don’t.
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