Archive for March, 2009
How to Have Morning Sex
Now, what can be more romantic, and not to mention energizing, than to start your day with sex? I can hardly think of a better answer. However, what if your wife or girlfriend is not a morning person? If you’re morning advances have ever been answered by a smack or a grunt instead of a grope and a groan, then you’re probably doing something wrong.
So how do you have guaranteed morning sex with your lover? Follow these tips.
Make sure you smell good. I’ll state it simply guys, bad morning breath sucks! It’s a real turn off so don’t even start if you suffer from bad morning breath. To get around this, here’s a simple solution: get up, go to the bathroom to relieve yourself and brush your teeth! This actually has two advantages: one, your breath smells fresh and two, the minty aftertaste wakes her up. Sucking on a breath mint (you have a box of it stashed on your night drawer, right?) is also good.
Be slow and gentle. Most people hate being rudely awakened and this includes your lover. So instead of getting on top of her and kissing her fervently, go slow! Reach out and gently fondle her nipples through her clothing. You’ll see them get hard and perky even while she’s still sleeping. Who knows, she might even think she’s dreaming and get all lusty and wet even before she wakes up!
After spending some time fondling and cupping her breasts, start kissing and breathing warmly against her neck; progress to licking it. If she’s turned on her side all the better because this means you can press against her with your stiff manhood. Rub against her. I repeat this: RUB against her, not pump. Again the key here is to almost lazily make love, not hungrily romp.
Ok, by now, she’s surely waking up! Don’t ruin it by simply going for intercourse. Remember, she may not even be wet yet. So compliment her right away. Say something like “baby, the curve of your shoulder is so sexy, can I suck on it?” Also, since you’ve been fondling he breasts you can say “your nipples are so erect honey, can I kiss it?” But of course, you won’t JUST kiss it! You can also guide her hand on your erection and, while still holding her hand, rub your own stiffness with it. Don’t worry, she’ll get the idea soon enough!
Is she wet already? As she starts to rub you, leave her hand and return the favor. Reach down between her legs and start fondling her there too, making sure she’s ready for you. On the rare chance that she’s not but you see that she’s very much in to morning sex already, duck under the sheets, draw her undies down (or lift her lingerie up!) and give her some good oral.
Now that you’re both hot for each other, go for the kill! However, if your natural tendency is to talk dirty, try not to do it this time. Remember, morning sex, at least for most women, is tantamount to slow, romantic, lazy sex so try to stick to the theme will ya?!
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Try These Four Women-On-Top Positions!
Warning – reading this article may cause untold erotic excitement!
After a long, demanding week, most women enjoy nothing more than to spend a little downtime with their boyfriend or husband to unwind. Whether you are painting the town red or spending a quiet evening at home, a night of lovemaking always makes for a great nightcap.
With hundreds of sexual positions in existence, one position is almost always a winner for females: woman on top. For men, the full frontal view of their partner’s breasts or bottom (depending on the position) makes for quite a satisfying experience. It is also a chance for the man to get a bit of rest and let the woman do the work. For women, the dominance and increased likelihood of orgasm makes this sexual position a clear favorite. Luckily, there are several variations from which to choose.
Woman on Top Position One – Lean Forward
This position is basic – the man lies on his back while the woman straddles him leaning forward. This carnal tango allows the woman to glide back and forth as deep as she desires. The stimulation of her clitoris is enhanced by the motion exerted against the base of the penis. The same pleasure is likely to occur if performed anally. Both partners will enjoy this position as they will be able to caress and stroke each other and exchange deep kisses. Nothing says fun like the Big O.
Woman on Top Position Two – Squatting
Similar to position number one, this variation differs in the position of the woman’s legs. The woman straddles the man, while he is lying on his back, but rather than sitting down leaning forward, she assumes a squatting position while upright. The up and down motion allows the man to get a better glimpse of his partner’s vagina, stomach and breasts. She may lean back and grab her partner’s thighs or legs for extra support. The sexiness of her arched back and shallow thrusts makes for an amazing visual turn-on for the man.
Woman on Top Position Three – Seated Position
This next position involves the man sitting upright (likely in a chair, on a couch, or in a car) with the woman straddling him while facing him. This may be more desirable for men as they have the woman’s breasts directly in front of them. Depending on the piece of furniture or location, this position allows a woman to get a better grip on their partners’ love muscle. She has the ability to gyrate from her knees or rotate her hips while seated on her partner.
Woman on Top Position Four – Reverse Cowgirl
Fellas, just imagine your hot girlfriend naked in leather chaps. This next position is a take on that sensual fantasy. Men who love their partners’ bottom will relish the reverse cowgirl position.
The reverse cowgirl allows you to see her derrière in motion and up close. While you are lying down, she sits on top of you facing away from you. The penile and vaginal stimulation may take a bit of maneuvering, but the ride is sure to be enjoyable!
Guys can help women in this position by grabbing her hips or thighs for maximum depth as well as providing vaginal stimulation with the use of his fingers. It is important for ladies to be gentle in this position as bending the penis in this slightly abnormal position can be uncomfortable for the man. Reverse cowgirl can be performed while the man is lying down or sitting in a chair or on a couch.
The variety of positions with a woman on top is a great treat for both partners. Women favor being on top as it feels unbelievably satisfying, pleases their partner and allows women to exert a little control in the bedroom. Men, on the other hand, love it for all the visual treats it brings!
So take it from a woman, if you want your lady happy, let her straddle you! Some men find it hard (no pun intended) to relinquish control in the bedroom, but it is a healthy balance to share in the act of lovemaking.
Consider this tip – unlike other positions, the responsibility of the man to bring his partner to orgasm is diminished because the woman is controlling the speed and depth of penetration. Relinquishing the power position can take the pressure off you to bring her to an orgasm and she is very likely to love being in control of this delicious pleasure!
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Backdoor Sex for Beginners
Slow Down!
Ok guys, slow down. Did I say that clearly enough? SLOW DOWN. The first time you decide you want your girlfriend to perform anal sex with you is going to require some pretty serious consideration if you expect there to ever be a second time. The two most important words you are going to hear have already been said three times but I will say them again. Slow Down!
Anal sex can be something that a lot of girls learn to enjoy but the problem is; most guys don’t know how to do it the first few times without making some very critical errors. After that, most girls will argue against it forever and the slightest mistake on your first virgin run will have ruined what could have been a career of enjoyment for the both of you.
Actually, many experts say that as many as one in four straight couples have already tried anal sex so it doesn’t have to be considered a “sexual taboo” unless you decide that for yourself. By making some of the critical errors on your first time out, you will indeed place it into the “taboo” category and kiss this exercise in pleasure goodbye. The biggest error for most guys can be avoided because it is the simple error of going too fast and hurting your partner. Then, before she has even had a chance to determine if she likes it or not, the case is closed.
Communicate
Guys, if you’re too scared to talk about it in a mature way then you aren’t ready to do it. In order to actually enjoy anal sex, a girl needs her guy to have some idea of what he’s doing and he needs to be confident. You also need to be able to communicate with your partner about her true feelings about the act and whether she is really ready to do this or not.
Despite all the touchiness around the subject, the idea of anal sex is actually quite a turn-on for a lot of women but the intrigue gets smashed as soon as she becomes afraid that her man isn’t mature enough to handle the topic or the activity.
Since there’s really no “right” way to start talking about it, it often helps to begin with something less intimidating… like your index finger.
A more experienced lady might even help her man along by putting his finger in there for him. Then she can coach him along so as to avoid all the difficulties that can come with this daring escapade.
If you aren’t so lucky to have a partner like this, try moving your finger down there in the middle of some particularly intense sex. Then press your penis toward that area on several different occasions until the topic comes up about what you had “almost wanted to do”. You can get a pretty good idea about her willingness for such exercises after you breach the subject.
Some women report the most powerful orgasms they’ve ever had while having anal sex so it sometimes helps to be led in the right direction first. Ask your sweetheart to lead you down that road and put her in the driver seat guys. Do it like an experiment and don’t expect to enjoy it the fist time you set out to reach new ground. You may be very glad you were able to take some simple instructions the first time out because this could open up a whole new world of pleasure and enjoyment for both of you down the road.
Lubricate
After you decide to try it out and to take it very slowly, make preparations to generously coat your penis with a heavy water-based lube. This is something that cannot be stressed enough.
True, the vagina has natural lubrication but the backdoor doesn’t! Without sufficient lubrication you can even hurt yourself or your partner in a very extreme way. As long as you use a condom and enough lube, you’ll be much safer. Then make sure you don’t thrust too deep and wait for her to get used to it.
There you go! With these simple suggestions, you should be well on your way to enjoying this seemingly “taboo” activity with a great deal of fun and pleasure.
Anal sex doesn’t have to be a terrifying experience the first time. Just make a point to talk about it before you take action and then make the necessary preparations to do it safely and smoothly. After the first few experiences are through, you will find that this is an area of enjoyment you never thought you would experience and you will be awfully glad you did.
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