Archive for April, 2009
10 Little Things You Can Do To Get On Her Good Side Forever
True, we women have 101 things that irritate us about the men in our lives but the truth is… we also find it hard to live without you! Men often say they’re clueless when it comes to women because admit it ladies, we CAN be hot and then cold in a matter of minutes! However, there are things that make our hearts melt almost instantly. So if you want to get on her good side all the time, then read on!
10 Reasons Why We Love Men…
1. You fix what’s broken at home.
We do love handymen! Sure, we’re all supportive of women power and all that stuff but deep inside nothing says “I’ll take care of you” more than a man who knows how to fix the roof… or plumbing… or the broken fence… etc.
2. You cook every now and then OR get take out on your own once in a while.
In most homes, women are the ones who cook and ensure that the family is fed. However, cooking 365 days a year can be taxing! So once in a while, surprise us and cook something. Really, it doesn’t have to be a 5-course meal. It can even just be take out. Just something that tells us that today is our ‘day off’ from the kitchen.
3. You put your socks and underwear in the right places.
Little things irritate us and little things make us happy. And putting your dirty laundry in the right place is one of those things that make us happy! We know it’s small thing to do but whenever you don’t do it here’s the message we get… ‘he’s not listening!’ or ‘he’s soooo insentsitive!’.
4. You realize when there’s no more toilet paper… and do something about it!
Screw leaving the toilet seat up! Women can also be called upon always leaving the seat down, right? But when you see the toilet paper gone and never re-fill it? Dude, that’s just insensitive.
5. You lift her bag of groceries for her.
No, we don’t want chivalry to be dead.
6. You bring home flowers.
When men bring home flowers, it just literally brightens our day! It shows that you’re thinking of us and want to make us happy.
7. You make us laugh!
We just love men with a good sense of humor! The ability to laugh at things is just what we need to lift us up from our drama episodes. And sometimes, when we’re extremely mad, just the right joke or funny face is all we need to banish all those frustrations aside.
8. Foot massages! Bliss…
Sitting on the coach together, watching TV. You reach out and draw our legs up and on your lap. You remove our shoes/slippers/socks/stockings and you give a nice foot massage. Ah, we’re yours forever!
9. You take foreplay seriously!
It’s really ironic that during the times we need attention most, that’s when you stop and move to the next stage. STAY exactly where you are for a while! We like enjoying the journey just as much as the destination. And, truth be told, we actually reach our destination better when the journey is good!
10. You give great oral action.
Few men know how to conquer us with their tongues. But once we find the guy who can make us moan, groan and thrash about simply by using that small muscle inside his mouth, we’re soooo sold!
SIX Tips to Bring VARIETY in the Bedroom
As time goes on, it’s only natural that certain things become normal or mundane inside the bedroom. Sadly, if you let things be ordinary for too long, then everything from foreplay to the actual sex act becomes a routine. And deep inside you, you KNOW this spells disaster for any relationship, right? Even if you and your partner love each other and stay together, it’s still best to opt for an exciting life than a boring one!
So, how do you go about bringing variety inside the bedroom? Check out our Top 10 list below.
Hot Ideas to Bring Change and Excitement in Your Bedroom
1. Change the décor!
How long have you guys been keeping those cream-colored curtains? How long have you both been starting at that peeling edge of wallpaper? Sex is pretty much a mental thing and a drab bedroom does not shout SEXY doesn’t it? So the first thing on your list should be to make changes in your bedroom to make it HOT.
The changes will depend on your budget but even if you have a tight one, it’s definitely possible to make a few new hot changes. For instance, get rid of CLUTTER. Children’s toys (and clothes, and diapers, etc.) are also a no-no in the bedroom.
If you want to go all out, all the better! Discuss with your partner items like color schemes and fabric choices. For instance, ditch the cream colored curtains and go for fiery red! Ditch the cotton bed sheets and go for silk! Lastly, adorn your bedroom with lots of good, sexy lighting and scented candles.
2. Bring in the adult literature.
Stack up on your favorite adult literature in the bedroom. Realize that you and your partner are adults in an adult relationship so these things should not be shunned in some locked drawer somewhere. Ok, maybe still locked if you have kids but it should not be something kept secret from your lover.
At night, just before you go to sleep, grab your copy of Playboy as she turns and grabs her copy of GQ. After a few minutes, don’t be surprised that you guys are so hot that you turn and grab each other!
3. Set a glass bowl of naughty ideas.
Set a big glass bowl (e.g., fish bowl) on your nightstand and fill it up with naughty ideas. Go from simple and sexy to downright freaky. For instance, write “kiss me goodnight 10x” on one note and “lick my pole up and down 10x” on another.
Some ideas may be simple but I assure you that the fact that every night brings some surprise in the bedroom will make the idea even more potent!
4. Set the TV on the adult channel.
If you already have a TV in your bedroom but it’s such a distraction that you or your partner would rather watch a program than talk to each other, then I say put it OUT of the bedroom… at least for now. This is because you need to reconnect with your lover first.
However, if you think you have the willpower to NOT look at other TV programs apart from the adult channel then keep the TV inside! Try and set a viewing schedule so you guys don’t end up getting addicted to porn though. Remember, these are just excitement tips.
So every now and then turn on the TV and watch some adult entertainment. Watch it together. You’ll be so turned on in a few minutes that you’ll be reaching for your partner sooner than you think!
5. Fill a closet drawer with sex toys.
Just like adult literature, sex toys no longer really have that taboo quality about them. Nowadays, it’s all about exploring your sensuality and using sex toys is surely one of those ways.
Store a few sex gizmos in a closet or drawer and be sure to use them on each other at least 2x a month! You’ll learn A LOT about yourself and your partner with this idea alone.
6. Buy adult posters!
Here’s a fact: men are visual creatures. Show a man a nude woman and his pole starts to stand at attention. Women are also visual creatures but they don’t like seeing anything vulgar or offensive. The solution? Go out together and busy some inexpensive yet racing adult posters.
Once home, set one up on the wall directly facing your bed. When you guys lay down you’ll surely end up talking about the image you see. Stir this conversation to something like “so what do you think he/she’s thinking” or “what do you think he/she’s going to do next?”. The sex talk will most likely end in some sex acts of your own!
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