Archive for August, 2009
Strictly for Adults Only: Underwater Sex!
It’s not surprising to feel ‘aroused’ while frolicking in the swimming pool or on the beach. After all, you and your partner are ‘almost naked’ and all that touching and slipping is bound to put lewd thoughts into anyone. But thinking about having sex underwater is one thing and acting on it is another. Read on if you want to explore this idea further.
How to Engage in Aqua Sex
To begin with, let’s discuss the ‘practicalities’ shall we? Firstly, be aware that making love in open, public spaces is considered illegal in most states so do know the risk that you’re taking if you get the ‘buzz’ on a public beach. Of course, if we’re talking about your own Jacuzzi or swimming pool that’s a different matter, especially if they’re indoors. And of course, don’t discard the pleasures your own bath tub and shower stall can bring.
Secondly, it’s a myth that making love underwater means there’s no more need for lube. You see, salt water (beach) or chlorinated water (your pool) gets rid of a woman’s natural slippery lube. So you may soon find that intercourse underwater is actually not as ‘slick’ as you thought. The solution to this dilemma is to use a silicone-based lubricant. It’s not water-soluble so it guarantees a more pleasurable experience for you both.
Thirdly, if you do decide to give in to your carnal desires on, say, a private beach, don’t forget practical stuff like making sure a big towel is nearby. You know, just in case your swimming clothes get lost at sea.
Now on to the aqua tips!
When making love in your bathtub, woman on top is a blast. Lie down in all those suds but make sure that your head is supported by one of those bathtub pillows/cushions or a big, thick towel. Now simply, ask your lady to get on top and grind away. Don’t mind the water spilling out the tub. They add to the ‘hotness’ of the moment. Of course, good ol’ doggie style is great too. She can get on all fours on the edge of the tub (but make darn sure she’s got a good grip on something so she doesn’t slip!) and off you go!
If you don’t have a bathtub, just turn the shower on the perfect lukewarm setting and on full blast and do your thing underneath it. Perfect positions that come to mind are: standing doggie style, standing missionary, and of course, oral!
Speaking of oral, this is also the perfect thing to do if you’re in a pool. You see, the chlorine in a pool is not really good for her vagina. It can cause irritation during intercourse and can even lead to infection. The best thing to do is to have her sit on the edge of the pool as you perform cunnilingus on her. (Take turns and get your fair share of treats too!)
Another idea is to take advantage of inflatable floats! Simply prop her on top of one and let your imagination take over you.
For more ‘slippery tips’ to enjoy the WILDEST sex ever, click here!
How to Build Sexual Tension Gradually
You often hear it mentioned that foreplay is a crucial part to lovemaking. And this is really true. If you spend time on foreplay, you are slowly but surely building sexual tension. And the higher the sexual tension, the more mind-blowing the climax!
So do read on and find out what you can do with each of your senses… to blow her out of hers.
The Senses of Sight & Sound
Adore her with your eyes. Ask her to lie down and keep her eyes open (so she can see you). Now, slowly go over her body – from the tips of her toes to the roots of her hair – with your eyes. As you reach certain areas, feel free to ‘verbalize’ how you feel about that part of her.
For instance, tell her how you love STARING at the swell of her hips as it curves outward from the tops of her thighs and turns inward again at her waist. Tell her how the sight of her mound excites you and makes you drool. Say how the sight of her erect nipples makes you feel. Be as specific as possible. For instance, say that as your eyes focus on her womanhood you can feel your manhood getting longer and harder, and so on.
Even with the above, you will notice a marked change in her breathing and how she closes her eyes or clutches her hands closed. Try to pick out the items that really turn her on and focus on those.
The Sense of Smell
With the sense of sight and sound, you kept your distance but not so with the sense of smell. Approach her and start to gently smell her hair. Place your nose close to her neck and inhale her scent there. If your eyes went over her from her feet to hear head, do the exact opposite now, remembering to smell each pivotal part of her body (e.g., between her breasts, that hollow on the opposite side of her elbow, her wrists, hair down there, and so on).
The Sense of Taste
Now, it’s time to get a taste of her. You can either go the slow and torturous route and have a lick at various sensitive parts of her body, or you can shock her a bit by licking the insides of her thighs and simply trying to nudge your way between her legs with your tongue until you reach her ‘sacred place’.
The Sense of Touch
By now, your hands are probably itching to touch her! Go ahead and satisfy your sense of touch now. Start gently and simply run your hands all over her body. Note that while you do this, avoid engaging your other senses. By this, I mean don’t lick or smell her if you’re touching her with your hands. Let her feel exactly where your hands are at any given time on her body.
After the above, it’s time to indulge all your (and her) senses. For instance, lovingly gaze into her eyes as you run your hands all over her body; say just how much you love her taste in between licks; inhale her scent deeply as you slowly get on top of her and touch your bodies together. Make things as deliciously sweet and wickedly erotic as you possible can.
Enjoy yourselves!
5 Wonderful Things to Do Naked!
Sometimes, we just need to let our hair down (pun intended), move freely, and just do what we want to do… without the restriction of clothing. True, a lot of people have body issues but seriously, who’s perfect? Wouldn’t it be just wonderful to bond with your lover in the most fun and erotic way manner? Well, we thought so! As such, we’ve listed down at least 5 things you can do with your partner naked.
FIVE Hot Activities to Do in Your Birthday Suits
Tip #1: Woohoo! Sex game night!
Bring out the slutty deck card, the adult dice, the erotic board game, the slippery Twister, the ‘play’ handcuffs, and pretty much anything you have in house that you can use as props for a night of sex games.
Some couples are ‘shy’ to engage in sex games while others claim that they are neither sexy nor fun. Either way, isn’t it time for you to find out for yourselves? As we always say: try everything at least once!
And to increase the erotic factor, do it without any clothes on! Picture this, you and her completely naked on the living room floor… playing Twister! Not hot enough? How about you and her playing a simple game of naked dice? Let’s say the numbers that land are “3” and “6”. Now, pick 3 areas on her naked body that you need to do lick for a total of 6 minutes!
Tip #2: Let the ‘passion/fashion show’ begin.
So, you may be asking… if you don’t have clothes on, what’s there that point of having a fashion show? Here’s how to make things fun: be sure to have only very few and skimpy clothes on (e.g., thong, necktie, silk scarf, crotch-less panties, handcuffs only, etc.). Now, imagine her walking all over your home with nothing but crotch-less underpants; imagine you walking all over your home with nothing but your business tie.
Tip #3: Pamp-er it up!
Being both naked is the perfect opportunity to engage in a sexual massage. Whether you’re the receiver or the giver doesn’t matter. (You can also of course decide beforehand to take turns on the same night.) For argument’s sake, let’s say you’re the one giving the massage. Now, isn’t it titillating to be able to touch, see, smell and taste her… AND for her to be able to see the effects these have on your body as you give her a massage?
Tip #4: Engage in a ‘nude chat session’ with your lover.
Think of this as phone sex with a view. You don’t need to leave home. Just go to two separate rooms where you can dim the lights (or not) and strip down to your birthday suit. Now, engage in some online naughty chat session with your lover!
Tip #5: Go on a quest to find her g-spot.
Ok, we said no sex but… we lied. Since you’re both naked and all, why not take this as the perfect opportunity to experiment and find her g-spot? The beauty of this is that you’re making a conscious decision to do only this (as if that’s not hot enough!). As such, there’s no added pressure during lovemaking. Try to find it and if you succeed, great. If not, better luck next time.
If we all took the time to explore various ways we can spice up our sexual lives, I swear, the world will be a better place! Try the above tips and find out the truth of this statement yourself.
