Archive for October, 2009
5 Things She Secretly Wants in Bed
Sometimes even the most experienced lovers have trouble determining what a woman really wants. That is why it is so important for you to be attuned to your partner’s responses as you are making love. As you begin to understand the things that your woman wants in bed, you will actually grow closer and build an even stronger relationship with her.
There are many ways of communicating, and one of our most powerful ways to communicate is through sex. So you may have to discover by trial and error the things she secretly wants in bed but wouldn’t dare ask you. Yes it’s a tough job, but somebody’s got to do it!
When It Comes to Sex She Wants… She Will Tell You One Way or Another
Here are some tools that will come in handy when you are doing your ‘job’.
She Needs a Skilled Tongue.
Of course you went down there, but this skill is actually something much simpler: compliment her. Tell her that she is beautiful or sexy and make it personal. Zero in on traits that are uniquely hers like, “You have the biggest, most beautiful eyes (or whatever else you want to insert here)”. And a little compliment on her performance would not hurt either like, “It feels so good when you . . .” or “I love the way you . . .” By referring to her you make this sexual act extremely intimate.
She Wants You to ‘Listen and Lead’.
Most women want you to take the lead in lovemaking. While she wants you to satisfy her, it is equally important for her to know that you enjoyed the experience also. So notice what she likes. She may like being dominated or she may like to move around a lot, but as she gives you signals, be aware that she is taking your lead and responding to it. So you can amp up the action or tone it down and measure her response to each to understand what she prefers in bed. While she may never be able to verbalize what really turns her on in bed, if you are paying attention, she will tell you loud and clear.
She Wants You to Love Her COMPLETELY.
Make love to ALL of her. Take the time to set a romantic tone for the evening. Set a sexy mood and romance your woman by having something for all of the senses: gentle lighting, scented candles, soft music and lush bedding. By giving a woman time to shift gears and settle into a romantic state, you are assured that she will enjoy this experience as much as you do. As she becomes aroused, of course you can join in. Explore her entire body from the nape of her neck right down to her toes. Use your tongue to explore all of the sensitive parts of her body and work your way to her pleasure points.
She Wants to Reach a Mind-Blowing Orgasm!
Shockingly, many women do not reach a climax during sexual intercourse… but that doesn’t mean that they don’t want to! So tonight, bring on you’re sexual A-game and give each of her erogenous zones the time of its life!
Yes, She Wants You to Connect.
You always hear about women wanting to snuggle and talk immediately after sex. Consider that this is their way of finding a connection with you after sharing such an intensely private experience. If you like to talk and snuggle then you are all set, but if you prefer silence or a quick catnap after having sex, then this can work for both of you as well. Remember that it is all in the delivery. So rather than rolling over and settling into a snoring session, simply scoop her up in your arms, whisper to her how amazing she is, and settle in to catch forty winks. She will melt into your arms feeling safe and loved and… probably be asleep before you are.
So if you simply remember to pay attention to all the unspoken cues that your woman is offering you throughout your lovemaking session, you will always be able to tell what things she secretly wants in bed, and you can be her hero by always delivering them to her.
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How to Make an Office Relationship Work
The workplace is full of single, young professionals who frequently find themselves pretty much living at the office. As a result they really do not have a lot of time to get out and make new friends, so quite often their circle of friends is their work mates. As friendships develop into romances, sometimes the situations can get complicated. If you are into an office relationship, here’s how you can make it really work.
The Upside of Having an Office Relationship
There are actually several advantages to working with your lover. First of all, you work for the same company, so you already have a lot in common. Since you know and work with a lot of the same people, you already have a lot of the same friends. It is also really convenient to work together, because you get to see each other frequently. You can even commute together if you choose.
Another advantage of dating a co-worker is that you already know them. You have had a chance to see how your partner relates to other people, reacts under stress and behaves in general long before you ever asked her on a date. By assessing her traits before jumping into the relationship, the cards are stacked in your favor for a successful relationship.
Ok… the Downside of Office Romances
Of course, you must also consider that there can be a few problems with this type of relationship. Sometimes, being able to see each other all day every day is a little too much constant contact. A little separate time is good for everyone, so if you work together, you will need to carve out some individual time at home.
Another potential problem is this: romance at work could actually affect your job. Think how awful it would be to have to approve a layoff that cost your girlfriend or wife her job, or vice versa! In this regard, it would be wise to make sure that you do not succumb to a conflict of interest.
Also, if your office relationship is a secret, you may have to endure the advances of other coworkers on your partner (and she vice versa). You both need to understand that you are choosing to keep your relationship private, so office flirtations will occasionally happen.
If your partner is your exact peer, there is always the chance that healthy workplace competition or promotions may actually hurt your relationship. On the other hand, if your lover is a subordinate at work, you always run the risk of sexual harassment when you fall out of favor with each other, or you may have to endure accusations of favoritism while you are together. If you choose to date your boss, accusations of favoritism may still occur, albeit you’re on the receiving end of any ‘favors’.
Lastly, know that many companies have policies that address employees who find themselves in a relationship so be sure to check them out.
Office relationships can be great, and they frequently grow into a happy lifetime spent together. You should, however, be diligent to make sure that your romance does not interfere with your work, and that your breakup, IF it should occur, can be weathered by both of you with minimal workplace damage.
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6 Things to Do with a Naked Woman
Generally most guys do not have a problem figuring out what to do when they are confronted with a naked woman, but if you have discovered that your ideas are getting a little stale, then maybe you should continue reading. You may want to consider sensual seduction or frolicking fun. Whichever appeals to you, here are six things to do if you should happen to stumble upon your partner in her birthday suit.
Look! There’s a Naked Woman!
Say Something.
Well, don’t just stand there gawking… tell her that she is beautiful! You really cannot say that too often to any woman, especially when she is standing naked in front of you. And as long as you are gawking, drink her in with your eyes, because more often than not if you are lucky enough to see your partner naked, it is probably as you are dismantling her clothes on the way to making love. Being able to look at her from a bit of a distance offers you a new vantage point, so take a moment to appreciate it.
Get Naked Too!
Are you still standing there with all of your clothes on? Why? Of course you want to join in the fun. Your partner will definitely get the idea of what is on the horizon as you peel your clothes off and leave them in a trail behind you. Or you may choose to undress seductively for her pleasure. This way you can enjoy looking at her standing there naked as she has the pleasure of watching you shed your clothes for her. You can put on a show for her, or perhaps she will pleasure you with a little show of her own. To make the performance just a little more tantalizing, regardless of which one of you is performing, only allow the performer to touch while the “audience” can only watch. By restricting access you ramp up the sensuality of the experience.
Get Wet.
This is a perfect time to take a steamy shower together. There is something unmistakably sensual about intimate physical contact as water cascades over your collective mass. You have everything you need in there to have a ton of fun. You have water; you have soap; you have lips to kiss, and most importantly you have a completely naked lover next to you.
Discover New Places.
Find a new place to make love in your own home. You can have an adventure without ever leaving the confines of your own home. Discover your kitchen, the hall closet, in front of the fireplace or even the guestroom as new places to have a passionate interlude. By surprising your woman with a new place to make love you are adding a little excitement to your sexual interlude by surprising her with something unexpected.
Blindfold Her.
As you get out of the shower, offer your partner a blindfold, and continue the sensual encounter even further. Dry her off with a lush soft towel, settle her in to a comfortable spot and rediscover her body one inch at a time. Not knowing exactly where your next kiss, touch or caress will land on her creates a very strong sense of anticipation adding to the mounting sexual tension. And when neither of you can stand it for another second . . .
Here’s a No-Brainer: Engage in Hot, Passionate Sex!
Yes, mind blowing sex. You see her naked and wanting… so just look skyward, whisper your thanks, and head straight for the bedroom.
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