Archive for October, 2010
Best Oral Sex Positions
“An erection is like the Theory of Relativity – the more you think about it, the harder it gets.” – Unknown
Ahhh oral sex – is there anything better?
Hmmm, let me rephrase…
Ahhh good oral sex – is there anything better? The answer is no! A chick who is great at sucking is definitely a keeper, and we ladies feel the same way – when a guy knows how to make our toes curl, you can pretty much guarantee we’re highlighted his name in our little black books.
Great oral sex isn’t only about the techniques that you use with your mouth and tongue – it’s also about the way in which you’re situated. If your other half is in an uncomfortable position, she won’t enjoy all your hard work, and the same is true for you. However, there are certain configurations that can really help to optimize your pleasure, and in typical Gabrielle form, I’m here to fill you in on the best oral sex positions.
Believe it or not, even oral sex can get “mundane” if you’re sticking to just one position, so think outside the box (no pun intended) – a new yet simple angle can add tons of excitement to your oral arsenal.
The classic 69
Tried-and-true and oh-so-good, the 69 position is ideal because it allows the both of you to experience great oral stimulation. Lying down horizontally, situate yourselves so that you’re crotch-to-mouth. It’s better for you if you’re on top so she can have access to everything, if you catch my drift.
You kneel
By kneeling on the bed you allow your partner easier access to your manhood. You can also have her lie down on her back and you can kneel over her, basically straddling her face – it’s a super hot position for oral sex and one of my personal favorites.
She kneels
Have your spouse do the same thing and kneel over you – you’ll have the perfect full frontal view while you pleasure her, and it will allow you to explore her front-to-back.
She’s on top
Get comfortable while you lie down on your back on the bed or the floor and let your other half crawl on top of you and get busy. If it’s something you’re both comfortable with, feel free to use your hands to guide her head as she moves up and down your shaft. And be sure to make lots of yummy noises so she knows that you’re enjoying what she’s doing to her – nothing is hotter!
Sitting
Quite often oral sex is actually easier when the “pleasuree” is sitting on a chair or the edge of a bed – if you’re sitting she can kneel on the floor in front of you and do her dirty duty, and if she spreads them while sitting upright in a chair or while she’s lying on a bed or couch, you’ll have easy access to get in there and make her toes curl.
Have a great week!
Gabrielle Moore
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The Best “She’s On Top” Positions
“Sex is emotion in motion.” – Mae West
And what a motion good sex can be! We’ve already discussed the benefits of a few positions where you get to be on top, but most couples agree that some of the most pleasurable sex they’ve shared has been when the woman is on top.
I like being in control – I know what feels good, so I enjoy being able to control the angle, speed, and techniques by riding a guy (and I’d have to say I don’t think those men have minded either!). When she’s on top, she can discover certain positions that stimulate her G-spot and/or her clitoris which, in turn, will inevitably get you off too.
So here are the best “she’s on top” positions to explore and enjoy with your partner.
Cowgirl
The most tried-and-true girl-on-top configurations, the cowgirl has lots of variations and provides almost instant satisfaction. She can sit facing you and gently move up and down, you can have her lie down on your chest with her knees bent alongside you – a very intimate and hot position, or she can lean back and put her hands behind her and then spread her legs as wide as possible – this is a major G-spot stimulator!
Help to guide her by placing your hands on her hips. Encourage her to do a circular motion (similar to what Cosmo refers to as a “hula” motion) so that you’re rubbing against every nook and cranny of her nether regions.
Giddyup!
Reverse cowgirl
By simply turning our backs to you, we’re given a whole new set of pleasure points. I’m a big advocate of this she’s-on-top position – the reverse cowgirl allows for deep, straight-on penetration while she sits upright on top of you, and if you’re an ass guy you’ll love the view.
Instead of keeping your legs slightly parted, try straightening your legs instead for a new sensation.
YEEHAW!
Kneeling version of reverse cowgirl
Somewhat like doggy-style, she kneels over you while facing the opposite direction and thrusts into you. Nothing will excite you more than feeling yourself gliding in and out of her, rubbing her G-spot with each movement.
If she’s up to it (which I always am), grab and even spank her ass while she rides you.
Sitting
If I’m experiencing real sexual energy with a guy, I love this intimate she’s-on-top position. With her back to you, she’ll crouch down on her feet and lower herself into your lap while you’re sitting up. The close skin-on-skin contact of your body against hers will be a huge turn-on (pun intended), and you can keep your hands busy by caressing her breasts or stimulating her clitoris while she moves up and down on top of you.
Thigh Master
Not to go Cosmo-crazy, but I found this position in their magazine awhile back and have used it many times – much to me and my partners’ delight! You lie on your back and bend one leg. She mounts you reverse-cowgirl style and straddles you sideways, with your bent knee between her legs – this gives her something to help her balance as well as use for leverage.
Yours always,
Gabrielle Moore
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