5 Things She Secretly Wants in Bed
Sometimes even the most experienced lovers have trouble determining what a woman really wants. That is why it is so important for you to be attuned to your partner’s responses as you are making love. As you begin to understand the things that your woman wants in bed, you will actually grow closer and build an even stronger relationship with her.
There are many ways of communicating, and one of our most powerful ways to communicate is through sex. So you may have to discover by trial and error the things she secretly wants in bed but wouldn’t dare ask you. Yes it’s a tough job, but somebody’s got to do it!
When It Comes to Sex She Wants… She Will Tell You One Way or Another
Here are some tools that will come in handy when you are doing your ‘job’.
She Needs a Skilled Tongue.
Of course you went down there, but this skill is actually something much simpler: compliment her. Tell her that she is beautiful or sexy and make it personal. Zero in on traits that are uniquely hers like, “You have the biggest, most beautiful eyes (or whatever else you want to insert here)”. And a little compliment on her performance would not hurt either like, “It feels so good when you . . .” or “I love the way you . . .” By referring to her you make this sexual act extremely intimate.
She Wants You to ‘Listen and Lead’.
Most women want you to take the lead in lovemaking. While she wants you to satisfy her, it is equally important for her to know that you enjoyed the experience also. So notice what she likes. She may like being dominated or she may like to move around a lot, but as she gives you signals, be aware that she is taking your lead and responding to it. So you can amp up the action or tone it down and measure her response to each to understand what she prefers in bed. While she may never be able to verbalize what really turns her on in bed, if you are paying attention, she will tell you loud and clear.
She Wants You to Love Her COMPLETELY.
Make love to ALL of her. Take the time to set a romantic tone for the evening. Set a sexy mood and romance your woman by having something for all of the senses: gentle lighting, scented candles, soft music and lush bedding. By giving a woman time to shift gears and settle into a romantic state, you are assured that she will enjoy this experience as much as you do. As she becomes aroused, of course you can join in. Explore her entire body from the nape of her neck right down to her toes. Use your tongue to explore all of the sensitive parts of her body and work your way to her pleasure points.
She Wants to Reach a Mind-Blowing Orgasm!
Shockingly, many women do not reach a climax during sexual intercourse… but that doesn’t mean that they don’t want to! So tonight, bring on you’re sexual A-game and give each of her erogenous zones the time of its life!
Yes, She Wants You to Connect.
You always hear about women wanting to snuggle and talk immediately after sex. Consider that this is their way of finding a connection with you after sharing such an intensely private experience. If you like to talk and snuggle then you are all set, but if you prefer silence or a quick catnap after having sex, then this can work for both of you as well. Remember that it is all in the delivery. So rather than rolling over and settling into a snoring session, simply scoop her up in your arms, whisper to her how amazing she is, and settle in to catch forty winks. She will melt into your arms feeling safe and loved and… probably be asleep before you are.
So if you simply remember to pay attention to all the unspoken cues that your woman is offering you throughout your lovemaking session, you will always be able to tell what things she secretly wants in bed, and you can be her hero by always delivering them to her.
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