Are You Breaking These 5 Married Sex Rules?
If you’re married or in a long-term relationship, you’re natural tendency is to be a bit lenient or lax in the sex etiquette department. However, what you probably don’t realize is that the ‘rules’ are the same whether you’re just starting a relationship of have been married for 10 years already.
Think about it: when you’re with your partner for a couple of years already, you tend to ‘slip’ and discuss or do certain things that you probably would NOT say or do when you’re just in the early stages of your romance, right? Well, guess what? A turn off is a turn off no matter how long your relationship is. So, read the general guidelines to married sex below and keep your relationship always fresh and exciting.
Rule #1. Keep bathroom activities private (excludes showering together of course).
Seriously, do YOU want to see her take a leak? Do you enjoy hearing (or smelling) her emit gas? Of course not. At the start of your relationship, the thought of the above would probably have been a cause of a pimple breakout for you already so why not keep it that way? Keep bathroom activities private. Remember, think of each other as LOVERS whose mystique must be kept throughout the years.
Rule #2. Check what your bedroom is saying.
Quick! Enter your bedroom right now, what do you see? Is the bed even made at all? Are there clothes everywhere? Toys?
Your bedroom should convey one message and one message only: romance, the kind that’s conducive for sex. If your bedroom is not relaxing and doesn’t hold a tinge of romance, how then will you enjoy sex often? So, grab your wife and make a list of what must go from your bedroom and how you guys can sex it up a bit!
Rule #3. Don’t use sex for reward or punishment.
In general, they say that women, more so than men, use sex as a form of reward or punishment so… call your partner now! Just kidding there (unless, it’s applicable of course). Think about this for a minute. Are you sure you’re not doing the same?
A lot of men actually say (more like make promises really) to their partners that they would do this or that IF they had some lovin’ tonight. In the end, it’s not important who does this but it’s a no-no in married sex. Why? Because sex should be about love and connection and pleasure, not about just getting what you want or punishing your lover for not giving you what you want.
Rule #4. Don’t bring in-laws to bed.
If you want to lose an erection fast or turn her off in bed, then talk about each other’s in-laws! One can get pretty defensive when it comes to blood relations so for the sake of YOUR relationship, quit talking about in-laws in the bedroom.
Rule #5. Don’t discuss past lovers.
It’s never healthy to discuss previous partners and more so if you guys do so in the bedroom. You see, it’s almost unavoidable to feel a tinge of jealousy and/or competition towards past boyfriends, girlfriends, husbands or wives and the last thing you want is to get annoyed each other so you don’t have sex, or worse, that you have sex not to make love but to dispel the ghosts of lovers past from your partner.
Follow the tips above for a harmonious, long-lasting and exciting married life. Life can be full of troubles and stress already so we all need to be able to rely on a stable and happy union with our partners to keep things in balance. Good luck!
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