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Backdoor Sex Myths Busted!

Backdoor sex or anal sex is one of the most misunderstood ways of making love. There are just so many negative things about it that a lot of couples don’t even want to try it. However, why not try everything at least once? You’ll never really know what you like until you go out there and explore. Furthermore, backdoor sex can be extremely pleasurable for you and your woman considering the tightness of the area. So, if you feel like going on an adventure tonight, read on as we explore – and bust – the following backdoor sex myths.

FOUR Backdoor Lovemaking Fallacies

One: Backdoor sex is ‘abnormal’.
In many cultures around the globe, anal lovemaking is an accepted form of sex. Of course, in the end, no one should force one’s partner to do something the other is uncomfortable with. However, as I always advocate, don’t discount anything just because OTHERS say you shouldn’t do it. Keep an open mind; respect your partner; and try things at least one in your lifetime!

Two: Backdoor sex is painful.
Couples who engage in backdoor lovemaking swear that it hurts… you and your partner are probably not doing it right. When it comes to anal lovemaking, the following things are paramount: trust, relaxation, education, patience, and lubrication!

Trust is important because without it, your girlfriend/wife will be tense and subconsciously ‘tighten up’, which is the exact opposite of relaxing. Getting educated about proper techniques is also important to prevent any pain. Patience is also key because given the myths surrounding backdoor sex, it might take a while to fully convince your woman to try this sex position. And lastly, lubrication is a must when you try this. The anus is a very tight area and so the right kind and the right amount of lube is important.

Here’s a tip: try the Tongue & Thumb technique when starting your backdoor lovemaking voyage. This move calls for you to treat her to some great oral sex, which helps her get stimulated and lubricated. Next, reach down and press a thumb against her anus. The slight pressure is meant to further stimulate her as well as get her used to the feeling of something pushing on her behind. Vary the movement of your thumb from, say, drawing small circles to pressing down on her anus.

Three: Engaging in backdoor sex is ‘dirty’.
Considering what goes out of our backdoor, it’s easy to think of it as a ‘dirty place’. In fact, since childhood, aren’t we all taught by our parents to ALWAYS wash our hands thoroughly if we touch our behinds? However, if you and your woman practice excellent hygiene, this is not a problem whatsoever. The only thing you should keep in mind is that the anus – just like other parts of our bodies – has its own set of ‘resident bacteria’ so it’s best not to place anything from her backdoor to her vagina.

Four: Backdoor sex is only for gay people.
Sex is not gender-specific. Period. And yes, this includes backdoor lovemaking. This sex position is exactly that, another sex position and one should not look at it as something only practiced by a certain group of individuals.

In the end, trust and education are the real keys here. If your partner trusts you and believes that you respect her and that she’s the one in control of the situation, then the next step is to understand how best to go about trying backdoor lovemaking. From there, it’s all about experimenting and practicing… and when it comes to sex, that’s not exactly a bad thing, right?

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