Domination can have a lot of meanings when it comes to game-play in the bedroom – it can be everything from blindfolding your partner to breaking out the whips, chains, and ball-gags. Almost all of my female friends agree (including moi): nothing is more of a turn-on than being dominated. It’s a primal urge that all of us seek to fulfill at some point in our sex lives, and when you’re involved with someone where trust is involved, it can be extremely exciting and satisfying.

Don’t take a woman home for a one-night stand and think you can get away with handcuffing her – trust me, she’ll be dialing “911″ faster than you can do up your pants! The game of domination is for couples only – without trust, neither party will be able to fully enjoy being dominated.

If you and your partner want to engage in some domination play, then heed the advice below.

Start slowly
If dominating your spouse is one of your fantasies, then broach the topic carefully and ease your way in. What I mean is, start with some light domination, such as tying her up, the aforementioned blindfolding, or some light spanking. Save the latex and paddles for a few weeks down the road.

I went home with a guy who had an entire closet of domination toys… he thought it would be a good idea to show off his collection, and he quickly attempted to backtrack as I redressed and headed for the door. It’s a shame – he would have been a great lay, but he’d come on way too strong too fast. Even if you’ve been married for years, approaching the topic of domination should be done gradually and with sensitivity.

Take turns
Some couples prefer to always let the man be the dominator and the woman be the dominee, or vice versa, but for the most part, I think everyone has fantasies to be both. So take turns! Let her control you one night and then have a turn of your own the next time.

Speak up!
One of the most exciting parts of domination games is the vocalizing – ask her if she wants to be spanked, tell her what you’re going to do to her, ask her to tell you what she likes. If you’re busy pleasuring her while she’s wearing a blindfold and you’re both on mute, it won’t be very exciting. This is the time to choose your (dirty) words and get talking.

Playtime
Toys for the game of domination can range from fun and silly to extreme and hardcore. They all have their place in the bedroom when introduced in the right way. These are the types of toys you should pick out together. I love going to a sex shop with a guy – it’s like foreplay. Secondly, you don’t want to bring home a spiked collar and leash when your wife had more of a feather tickler in mind – seek out toys that you are both comfortable with. Finally, never surprise your other half with a sex toy – an unexpected whip-lashing on the bottom will not be well-received.

MWAH!

Gabrielle Moore

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I’m definitely a take-charge woman, but every once and a while, it’s nice to relinquish control and let the man take over. When he’s on top not only is the view fantastic but it’s also a great way to experiment with some fun “he’s-on-top” positions. With the proper configuration, you can align yourselves so you and your spouse can experience maximum pleasure.

Even though you’re on top, the motions and rhythm will still take some effort on both of your parts, so don’t think that this is about making you do all the hard work. With the following positions, you’ll be able to manoeuvre and create tantalizing sensations between the sheets.

Missionary
Missionary may be one of the oldest positions in the book – and its stay-power is because of its effectiveness. Hey, if it ain’t broke, don’t fix it.

Missionary is super enjoyable because, at that angle, not only are you penetrating us but the motion also allows for your manhood to rub against our clitoris, creating a double-sensation. Feel free to keep her on her toes by varying your speed of entry.

Now I’m not saying I’d want to do it missionary-style every night of my life, but this move should definitely be in every guy’s arsenal.

Knees to chest missionary
This position takes a tad more dexterity on her part, but the manipulation is worth it! Get into the standard missionary position but have her pull her knees down so they’re against her chest (she can even rest her feet on your shoulders, if she’s flexible enough). If you need to, use a pillow under her bottom to help elevate her. This position is all about deep penetration not to mention the benefits of the missionary pose, adding even more toe-curling excitement to a sex session.

Sideways missionary
Anytime you turn your bodies so that you’re not exactly forward or backward, you create new opportunities to find orgasm-inducing positions. So try this: have your wife lie down on her side and prop one leg up on your shoulder while you’re on your knees, ready to penetrate her (a sideways missionary). It’s a fairly easy position to experiment with and is a great way to get you both fired up.

Downward dog
This is a “flater” version of doggy style, if you will, and involves your wife lying down flat on your stomach while you mount her from behind. The angle is incredible for G-spot stimulation – you’ll have her begging for more.

I’m a huge fan of doggy style, as the position is somewhat naughty and always pleasurable. While you move in and out of her, go slowly at first and then pick up the speed. Be sure to kiss her neck or run your hands down her spine while you do the deed.

Criss-cross
This unique configuration is often overlooked – and shouldn’t be. Have your partner lie down on her back while you lay alongside her – get her to bend her knees and rest both of her feet on your hips while you penetrate her. The tilted angle will create new sensations for both of you – she’ll love the rubbing and the fact you’re hitting a new spot inside of her, while you’ll love the new taught sensations.

Smootch!

Gabrielle Moore

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Nothing is a bigger turn-off than a guy who goes straight for the goods – that is, they’re all over the breasts and nether regions. While these are undoubtedly our tried-and-true hotspots, every woman has a few more erogenous zones up her sleeve. For many of us, a little neck kissing and sucking can give us shivers down our entire bodies, and for others, it be the gentle bite of an earlobe that sends out shock waves. The same goes for you – I once ran my tongue ever-so-slowly down the nape of a guy’s neck and he actually lost his load (but luckily for me, and him, it was a triple-header evening).

I’ve been with enough men – and women – (and explored the terrain myself) to know a few secret erogenous zones that, when titillated, immediately makes my toes curl! And it only seemed right to share these with my fellow boys, so here it goes…

Scalp
Kinkier guys and gals love a little hair tugging – some because they like the pain involved in it, but there’s also something to be said about stimulating the scalp. I love making out with a guy and having him run his hands through my hair along my scalp. It send shivers down my spine almost instantly. A good scalp rub is also a major turn-on, so don’t be afraid to get right in there and mess up her hair.

Palms of hands
I was fooling around with a guy once and he kissed the inside of my hands verrrry slowly. I couldn’t get my panties off quickly enough! A man had never given attention to the palms of my hands, and I don’t know if it was the fact that he was thorough enough to find this hidden gem or the sensations that he created that got me more excited, but either way I can tell you, I haven’t forgotten him since (Jonathan).

Wrists
After a night of drinks I wound up in the jeep of this stud I met at a bar and he kissed my wrists – his warm breath on my skin created an instant spark (that burned till sunrise, if I can recall).

Touching this area of my body is only arousing when it’s done tenderly – while being tied up is another exciting form of sex play better kept for another article, the mode you choose to restrain a woman is also a big part of the equation. Cold handcuffs are raw and sexy in their own right, but a pair of (strong) fuzzy cuffs is a wonderful feeling.

Shoulders
You go for the lips, the neck, the breasts, and skip right over the shoulders. Stop neglecting this highly sensitive zone – rub our shoulders, kiss them, even suckle them if you feel so inclined. This may not do it for every woman but it certainly revs me up.

Tops of feet
I’ve always stressed how over-the-moon satisfying foot play can be, and yet so many couples are reluctant to experiment with the tootsies. If you’re not ready to suck on her toes or lick the pads of her feet, ease yourself in by kissing the tops of her feet. The foot has countless nerve endings that can be extremely arousing, so break out of that comfort zone and try hitting this unexpected target.

See ya tomorrow!

Gabrielle Moore

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Sex in a bed may be the “ideal” setting for a romp (there’s privacy, lots of room, it’s dark…) But as we all know, sometimes the mood strikes us while we’re out at other places, like a dinner party, at the movies, and while we’re with other people. Maybe you’re sick of every-day bedroom-sex and you want to break the mold. I like the way you think – some of my steamiest hookups have been in the most unusual of places, so I thought I should share them with you.

What makes doing the deed in an unusual spot is that it’s so exciting – maybe there’s a danger of being caught, which only adds to the excitement, or perhaps it’s the spontaneity of the act that is getting your juices flowing. Whatever the motive, don’t shrug off sex because it’s not cookie-cutter bedroom sex – get creative and act on your impulses. After all, when there’s a will, there’s a way…

Movie theater
Sometimes, during a matinee or a particularly bad flick, the theater is near-empty, so it’s not difficult to find a quiet dark corner to fool around in. The key here is to practice quiet sex as to not draw the attention of the random people in the theater. If you want to up your chances of getting laid, purposely chose a terrible film, like an international subtitled flick – when she gets bored and you start making your advances, you’ll have her undivided attention (that’s why I always wear a skirt to the movies – easy access!).

Backyard/balcony
My balcony has a huge tree in front of it, which offers a lot of privacy. And, given I have very few neighbors (especially ones who stay up late), surprisingly enough I’ve been able to get away with a lot on that public space. Maybe you and your partner are sick of indoor sex and want to move things outside with Mother Nature – find a way to make it happen. You can always seek out a little nook in the backyard, behind the shed, or between the houses for a quickie. The same goes for a well-hidden balcony like mine. You’ll be surprised at how some fresh air can really heighten the sensations.

A closet
If you find yourself pining for your spouse at a public party, check out the closets. Bathrooms can work too but you don’t want to necessarily hold up the one restroom and then exit with your girl in tow (kinda obvious, no?) But no one is checking the closets during a dinner party (except for the coat closet – this should not be an option unless you want to get caught). Bedroom or linen closets offer darkness, privacy, and the ideal setting for sex.

On the roof
Yep, I was once at a birthday party with friends and snuck up to the apartment roof with my partner – it was a warm summer night, no one could see us, and we went at it like two animals. It was incredibly sexy. You can usually find rooftop areas of apartments or restaurants and hotels, the views are amazing, and your groans can echo off the buildings around you.

The office
A lot of people have keys to their offices, so if you’re out somewhere and can’t control your urges, and you’re closer to work than you are home, stop by the office for some corporate desk-humping. Maybe there’s a sexy leather couch in the reception area or a huge table in the conference room.

I was out with an ex-boyfriend and he took me to his office for a quickie. We passionately swept everything off his desk and did the deed on his desk calendar. It was such a turn-on thinking about him returning to his office Monday morning to see the scattered mess and thinking of our exciting romp.

Always thinking of you!

Gabrielle Moore

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George is only partially right – he has a reason to be excited about the prospect of make-up sex because, well, make-up sex can be pretty damn good! But he was wrong to say that it’s all he had left, because you have a lot more going on in the bedroom, right? (Thanks to moi!)

There’s something ultra sexy about make-up sex. After you and your partner have a fight, you’ve both had a chance to release your anger or frustration, which can be very freeing. But you’ve also probably gotten yourself worked up in other ways, and having a chance to unleash it on something (you) is a major turn-on. There’s a sense of animalism and raw emotion that takes place during make-up sex, so you want to make sure that you never let this opportunity pass you by. It’s the silver lining to the long-term relationship – you’re inevitably going to disagree, but at least you’ve always got make-up sex to look forward to!

Here are some tips on doing the deed after the storm has passed.

It’s all about the timing
If you and your spouse are in the midst of World War III and you try to cop a feel, you may want to duck! Make-up sex comes after the argument once you’ve both made up (hence the name of this forgiving act). So don’t try for the make-up sex until after the disagreement is over.

Let bygones be bygones
While part of your erection may be from the fact that you actually won this spat and got her to apologize, do not say anything more about this during sex. Things like “I’m so glad you were able to see things my way” or “Thank you for saying you were sorry” will be an immediate buzz kill. Resist the urge to gloat. Make-up sex means all has been forgiven – don’t rock the boat at this point. Just go with the flow.

Be just good enough
Your wife would kill me for letting you in on this little secret, but I’m here to help you, so here it goes: you always want to excite and pleasure your wife – that’s a given. But you also don’t want to pull out any extra stops during make-up sex, and I’ll tell you why: we’ll associate great sex with heated arguments, so if you’re looking to avoid a repeat offense next week, give her just the right moves to make her cum, but save the mind-blowing orgasms for another time.

Make-up sex is charged with lots of energy and can be a great way to “decompress” after a disagreement. Life’s too short to dwell on why she was being pissy with you or why you always leave your wet towel on the bathroom floor – get over it (and under her) and move on already!

Kisses!

Gabrielle Moore

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You usually start your day with a hard-on. Most guys do. And us girls know this. We realize you’re raring to go from the moment you open your eyes, however when we wake up, we usually feel fuzzy, disheveled, and pretty non-sexy… at first.

Curling up behind us and thrusting yourself into our backs is not always the best “move.” Sure, it might get us aroused one in 30 times (sometimes 50), but it’s certainly not the most exciting way to come on to us. So here are some ways you can turn her on in the morning.

Kisses
If you both haven’t had a chance to brush your teeth or swish with some mouthwash, you may want to avoid deep-throat kissing first thing in the morning, but that doesn’t mean you can’t kiss her softly on the lips, cheek, earlobes, neck, arm, etc., etc. Give her some affection – help her wake up slowly and get those juices flowing. Sometimes a gentle kiss on my shoulder or the inside of my wrist, or a caress on my thigh or down my back, is enough to get me wet and willing.

Never, ever under-estimate the value of a simple kiss.

Undress
Married couples take a lot of shortcuts with their sex life. One of the worst is not undressing fully (you know you’ve done the deed in your black dress socks!) So in the morning, take the time to get into the buff. Let her wake up by feeling your bare skin against her body. Then start undressing her as well. There’s no need to rush – it’s the morning and she’s just waking up, so slip her clothes off slowly and seductively.

Then, hold her. Let that skin-on-skin contact bring you both to arousal.

Be playful!
Sex doesn’t always have to be so serious, especially wake-up sex. Sneak under the covers for a little sub-thermal-blanket fondling. Have a pillow fight. Use a feather to tickle her nose. Bring her breakfast in bed (which should really be just about any type of fruit, which you can eat, feed her, or eat off of her).

What a fantastic way to kickstart the day – with a good romp! Turn her on in the morning by waking her up slowly, seductively, and even playfully, and put a hop in both of your steps all day long.

Ta-ta for now!

Gabrielle Moore

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Every woman has an inner wild side that she’s just waiting to unleash. Even the shiest ones have a secret prowess – they just need to reach a level of comfort and trust in order to reveal it. And once they do, look out!

I know the adage is true: guys want a lady in the street and a freak in the bed. And we want to show our men how unadulterated, naughty, and free we can be between the sheets. So it’s a win-win for everybody! It’s just a matter of creating a sexual as well as a comfortable environment for experimentation.

You go first
If being racy and carefree in the bedroom is something you’ve both been avoiding, then someone has to be willing to dive in and go first. And I think the guy should lead by example. Show your partner that you’re willing to be vulnerable and daring, and then hopefully, she’ll be willing to return the favor.

Say something particularly X-rated to set the mood (“I can’t wait to make you cum” or “You make my cock so hard”). Just hearing these naughty actions put into words will be enough to excite her.

Then kiss her deeply and passionately. Caress her breasts and move your hands slowly down her body. Give her some physical cues that will heighten the pleasure.

Take control of the situation at first to test the waters and see how she reacts. It will give her time to get into the mood and start letting her inhibitions go. When a guy shows me that he’s aroused by some dirty talk, it’s often the invitation I need to start teasing him orally back (with my words, not my mouth… just yet).

Relinquish control
I can say from personal experience that I like being both in control in the bedroom as well as being submissive. And I would say that guys feel the same way. So, since you’ve already gotten the ball rolling (no pun intended), it’s time to let her have a go at controlling things.

I have some girlfriends who feel self-conscious about dirty talk because they don’t know what to say. So make things easier on her – ask your partner, “Tell me what you want to do to me” or “Does that feel good?” A little coaxing could help draw her out of her shell.

Then suggest a little dominating – maybe she’d be willing to blindfold you or tie you up. While you’re in one of these “vulnerable” positions, she can easily take the reins and explore your body on her terms. She’ll thrive off of the power of being on top of you, kissing and touching and stroking, while you’re either in the dark or restrained.

Take your time
Nothing is more of a turn-off than feeling like you’re being rushed. If you truly want to bring out her wild side, then you need to take your time and work your way up to bigger and better things.

It’s not unusual for spontaneity to have seeped out of a marriage, and for many of you, this could be your first experiment with unbridled passion in years. If your partner is feeling rushed, she may withdraw (although, in the right setting, a rushed romp can be exciting too). So make sure that your wild antics are reserved for sex sessions where you have time to explore each other slowly and thoroughly. These are no shortcuts here.

Hugs and kisses!

Gabrielle Moore

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The shower is an erotic haven, with warm water, slippery suds and all that steamy heat. It’s like an instant set-up for great sex. The right position might be a tad tricky to master at first (I’ve got lots of tips for you below), but once you’ve got the logistics figured out, her groans and screams will be echoing off the tiled walls.

There are a bevy of stimulating sensations in the shower, which will cut your work in half. So get that water running, get your clothes off, and submerge yourself in the pure enjoyment of steamy shower sex.

Something to lean on
A lot of today’s homes are built with stand-up showers, meaning no bathtub ledge to prop yourself up on. If your partner isn’t flexible enough to rest a leg on your shoulder or have you hold it, then bend her over. If you’re still crammed for space, there are a wide range of shower benches that are sold at most hardware stores (and she’ll love it because it will give her somewhere to sit when she shaves her legs- an added plus!)

Work with the water
Water is not a long-lasting lubricant, but it does allow for easier, smoother caressing, stroking, and movement in general. Let your hands slide up and down her body. Lap the water off her neck and shoulders. Let your tongue suck the water off her breasts.

Also, if you’ve ever been hesitant about giving her oral sex (or she’s had apprehensions about going down on you), or if you’ve been looking for a “safer” venue to experiment with anal stimulation, the flowing, warm water presents a unique opportunity to work with a clean area as well as have the water dilute any natural secretions.

Lather up
Soap is fun for all sorts of reasons – it gives you a great excuse to lather her up and let your hands glide over every square inch of her body, it’s slippery and stimulating, and believe it or not, all those yummy scents that body washes come in can add to the overall steamy shower sex experience.

Give her a good rub down. Wash her hair. Hell, even break out one of those poofy sponges. Don’t leave one inch of her unexplored.

A quick word of warning: Soap should never (ever) go inside of her. When you’re using soap down there, proceed with caution. And for God’s sake, soap is not a lube.

Use the shower head to your advantage
That’s right – a removable shower head is a girl’s best friend. We don’t take long showers because we’re doing facials and exfoliating (although that’s what we tell you) – a removable shower head, especially the ones with multiple settings, are a treat all their own.

So why not take advantage of this bathroom-fixture-slash-sex-toy? First use it to massage her scalp, then slowly move it down her neck, across her shoulders and down the length of her spine. Then ever so gently bring it up between her legs while kissing her. Use it in a back-and-forth or circular motion. Change the settings on the showerhead to create different pulsations. She’ll love the exciting sensations it will create!

It’s warm, wet and fun! And that’s why we women (ahem, I) are such fans of steamy shower sex!

Much love!

Gabrielle Moore

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Sex isn’t always about the rubbing and petting – it’s about that connection, at least for us ladies. While it’s true that sex can sometimes be just about the physicality of it all, women find it easier to engage in steamy sex when they feel that they’re connecting with their partner on a higher level. We thrive off of non-verbal cues. A quick wink or sly smile can make our panties wet (it’s the truth!)

Be vocal
Speak up! Tell her what you’re fantasizing about, what you love that she does to you, what you love to do to her. Hearing these devious acts put into actual words can be a major turn-on (just plan on what you’re going to say before you blurt out the first thing that comes to mind. And don’t be too smutty, unless your wife is that kinda gal, like moi!)

Act it out
Feeling turned on? Touch yourself while you catch her gaze across the room. Give her a mischievous wink. Lick or bite your lip ever so slightly.

When I know a guy is turned on just by looking at him, it gets my juices flowing. So don’t be shy to capitalize on these cues.

A naughty message
Busy lives translate into not having a lot of time for foreplay and to build up the momentum. I get that. So why not send your wife a dirty text, email, or even picture? A guy I was seeing once sent me on my phone an up-close shot of his soldier at full attention while I was at work – I don’t have to tell you how quickly I raced home that afternoon!

Go back to basics
Remember when you and your wife were first dating – there was all that lovey dovey stuff, with the hand-holding, the long gazes, the little expressions of affection? We thrive off of that. Try and recall the simple things you would do to get your wife all smitten, like a look across a room, and go back to the basics.

Sometimes, a guy being vulnerable enough to wink at me is the thing that sounds off bells in my head (not to mention elsewhere).

Whisper in her ear

A woman’s ears are highly sensitive to a variety of sensations, so the sound of you quietly relaying a message to her along with the warm feeling of your breath will send shivers down her spine. Afterward, gently blow on her neck. Then, well, brace yourself!

MWAH!

Gabrielle Moore

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Sex can’t always involve hours of foreplay, passionate caressing, and long, drawn-out sex sessions, especially when you’re married and have a busy family. That’s where quickies find their niche.

Quickies fulfill a very convenient, easy way of enjoying a satisfying release as well as a few moments of unadulterated pleasure. I’m talking about unplanned, spontaneous moments of passion where you and spouse unleash your prowess on one another without a second thought.

A quickie isn’t about being quick on the draw – rather, quickies are mutually fast and rushed form of sex, and it’s a great way to keep your sex life healthy as well as exciting.

Here are some quick opportunities for quickies:

1- You’re at a neighbourhood BBQ and the kids are busy playing with their friends. Ask a neighbour to keep an eye on them while you run home to get your sunglasses. Then, whisk your wife off for a quick sex session in the bedroom, living room, hell even the front hallway – no one’s home anyway!

2- Most people are rushed in the mornings, and since the majority of men wake up and are raring to go, it’s the perfect opportunity for a quick romp. Wake your wife up with a kiss or a “good morning beautiful” and then press yourself up against her so she knows where you’re headed (no pun intended).

3- Social engagements and company dinners can be a major snooze fest. Sneak off with your spouse to a public bathroom stall or even your car and add some much-needed excitement to your evening.

4- Going for a long walk or bike ride on a secluded path can present a unique opportunity for a quickie a la Mother Nature. Take a detour into the woods until you’re out of sight, use a tree for balance, and do the outdoor deed.

5- Movie theatres are surprisingly great spots for quickies – the bathrooms are usually near-empty during show time, and actual theatres are near-empty during crappy flicks, making a risky romp in the back of the dark room all the more possible (and thrilling).

6- Do it in the car. Whether you’re out running errands or returning from a social engagement, find a secluded parking lot, turn off the engine, and take a go at steaming up the windows.

7- When you’re at a house party with a larger crowd of people, it’s easy to slip away for a few moments unnoticed. There are lots of unoccupied rooms for your quickie – just be sure that the door has a lock.

8- Quickies at the office are always rousing. You and your wife know where you can get away with it, and a mid-day romp can be the unexpected excitement a couple needs to spice up their sex lives.

Because quickies are known for their speediness, they only require a very small window of time. Therefore, as long as there’s a will, there’s a way – find that empty closet, private restaurant bathroom, or abandoned parking lot and enjoy one of the simple pleasures of couplehood – the quickie.

Sweet dreams!

Gabrielle Moore

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