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7 Smoldering Hot Things to Do After Sex
For many couples – especially those that have been together for quite some time already, intercourse is the goal and highlight of making love. We have talked a lot already about the importance of foreplay so today, let’s discuss the importance of after-sex activities.
Immediately after climax…
Stay inside her.
What’s the rush? There’s no need for you to immediately break the contact. Think about it: you guys have just done the most intimate of things so why not prolong the contact a little longer? After you reach your respective orgasms, guide her to her back (assuming of course, you didn’t go missionary). Support your body using your arms on either side of her head and kiss her gently on the neck or shoulders as you catch your breath.
And here’s another positive thing about this move: you may find yourselves rearing for a second round soon enough!
Take a shower together.
Avoid rolling away from each other and going to sleep by getting up and taking a quick shower together! The warm water will prolong that warm, fuzzy feeling emanating from your bodies and it will help wipe out the tiredness from your bodies.
Listen to sexy, soothing music.
After towel drying each other off, go back to bed and snuggle up to some sexy, soothing music. Use this time to lovingly touch each other, to get in touch and discuss your respective days, or simple BE.
Eat, massage, drift.
If sleep is not in the agenda yet, get up and get a snack! A few edibles like grapes, chocolate, or crackers with a glass of wine are perfect to cap the evening. If you feel like it, give her a gentle massage, letting your hands coax her to sleep. Just when you feel she’s drowsy and about to sleep, snuggle up and sleep spoon-to-spoon style.
The morning after…
Linger in bed and make out.
After such a wonderful night, don’t break the romantic spell by jumping out and rushing out of bed. Instead, continue to hug and caress each other and well, make out! You don’t have to engage in sex again (of course, you can if you want to) but rather you are just trying to remind each other how hot and exciting being together can be!
Strip down and have coffee in bed.
If possible, spend the whole morning together in bed. Strip down to your birthday suit and have coffee – and maybe even breakfast – in bed.
As you part for the day…
At some point, you guys will have to get out of your bedroom cocoon and do your respective activities. As you part from each other, give her the hottest, naughtiest, lewdest kiss you can. Dry humping is allowed! At some point during the day, send her an SMS about what you thought was the BEST part of last night.
Follow the tips above honey and you will NEVER be accused of being ‘cold’ after sex again.
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Are You Breaking These 5 Married Sex Rules?
If you’re married or in a long-term relationship, you’re natural tendency is to be a bit lenient or lax in the sex etiquette department. However, what you probably don’t realize is that the ‘rules’ are the same whether you’re just starting a relationship of have been married for 10 years already.
Think about it: when you’re with your partner for a couple of years already, you tend to ‘slip’ and discuss or do certain things that you probably would NOT say or do when you’re just in the early stages of your romance, right? Well, guess what? A turn off is a turn off no matter how long your relationship is. So, read the general guidelines to married sex below and keep your relationship always fresh and exciting.
Rule #1. Keep bathroom activities private (excludes showering together of course).
Seriously, do YOU want to see her take a leak? Do you enjoy hearing (or smelling) her emit gas? Of course not. At the start of your relationship, the thought of the above would probably have been a cause of a pimple breakout for you already so why not keep it that way? Keep bathroom activities private. Remember, think of each other as LOVERS whose mystique must be kept throughout the years.
Rule #2. Check what your bedroom is saying.
Quick! Enter your bedroom right now, what do you see? Is the bed even made at all? Are there clothes everywhere? Toys?
Your bedroom should convey one message and one message only: romance, the kind that’s conducive for sex. If your bedroom is not relaxing and doesn’t hold a tinge of romance, how then will you enjoy sex often? So, grab your wife and make a list of what must go from your bedroom and how you guys can sex it up a bit!
Rule #3. Don’t use sex for reward or punishment.
In general, they say that women, more so than men, use sex as a form of reward or punishment so… call your partner now! Just kidding there (unless, it’s applicable of course). Think about this for a minute. Are you sure you’re not doing the same?
A lot of men actually say (more like make promises really) to their partners that they would do this or that IF they had some lovin’ tonight. In the end, it’s not important who does this but it’s a no-no in married sex. Why? Because sex should be about love and connection and pleasure, not about just getting what you want or punishing your lover for not giving you what you want.
Rule #4. Don’t bring in-laws to bed.
If you want to lose an erection fast or turn her off in bed, then talk about each other’s in-laws! One can get pretty defensive when it comes to blood relations so for the sake of YOUR relationship, quit talking about in-laws in the bedroom.
Rule #5. Don’t discuss past lovers.
It’s never healthy to discuss previous partners and more so if you guys do so in the bedroom. You see, it’s almost unavoidable to feel a tinge of jealousy and/or competition towards past boyfriends, girlfriends, husbands or wives and the last thing you want is to get annoyed each other so you don’t have sex, or worse, that you have sex not to make love but to dispel the ghosts of lovers past from your partner.
Follow the tips above for a harmonious, long-lasting and exciting married life. Life can be full of troubles and stress already so we all need to be able to rely on a stable and happy union with our partners to keep things in balance. Good luck!
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6 Tips for a Sexed Up Halloween
With Halloween just around the corner, have you given any thought to a hosting or attending a sexy Halloween party? If not, then you should because it can be the HOTTEST thing you do all year!
How to Sex Up Your Halloween Festivities
Send a dirty Halloween e-card.
During Halloween, a lot of people send e-cards in lieu of the traditional card you send by post. This year, why not send a special x-rated Halloween e-card to your lover? A lot of e-cards are highly customizable anyway so who’s to say you can’t send a generic adult e-card and simply put a Halloween message to it?
If you want something that shows a Halloween theme, then pick that and then just put a really hot and sizzling message. For instance, choose an e-card that shows Dracula’s fangs and say “I can’t wait to sink my teeth into you.”
Send a picture of yourself wearing only a Halloween mask.
What can be hotter than sending a picture of you with NOTHING but a Halloween mask on? You can send it to your lover’s mobile phone so she has something to fantasize about all day. You can also put the picture in her bag as an invitation for romantic and sexy dinner for two on Halloween night.
Attend a ‘swinging party’.
Halloween tends to bring out the ‘dark side’ of us and with loud music, booze, and everyone in masks, it’s easy to let yourself go and flirt and cavort with others during a Halloween costume party (you know, where everybody’s face is hidden!). So, maybe this is the time you and your partner can try swinging? In fact, during Halloween, there are a lot of parties specifically for swingers or swinging couples so be on the lookout for one near you if you and your lover are interested.
Since you’re already in costume… role-playing time!
If swinging is not for you, don’t let your Halloween costumes go to waste! Instead, use them for sexual role-playing. A few ideas for you: Dracula and the to-be-ravaged damsel, the super sexy witch and her minion, traffic cop and violator (hey, this last one is season-less!).
Play adult trick or treat!
You or your lover can pretend to be a young, horny teen out for some trick-or-treat time. Knock on the door and she either gives you her special treat (wink, wink) or you treat her to your naughty, sexy trick.
Have sex in a haunted house.
If you and your partner are REALLY adventurous, adrenaline junkies, then you can try to make love in an alleged haunted house. Now mind you, some haunted places are still private property so you CAN get busted for this so know the risks. However, this does not mean that you cannot book for a night in some out-of-the-way, scary, and reportedly haunted hotel, motel or bed-and-breakfast, right?
If the thought is a bit overboard for you, then decorate your home to have a haunted house motif and make sure there’s a dark, scary place somewhere where you can ravage your woman! (Preferably, where her ‘screams’ cannot be heard by neighbors and passing kids out for trick-or-treat.)
That’s it… have a Happy, Horny Halloween everyone!
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