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3 Sensual Tips… Enjoy!
One thing that is bound to happen in a long-term relationship is that, eventually, some of the sizzle is going to get lost in the shuffle of your every day lives. As you get busier, and get to know what makes each other’s bodies tick, you start to focus on efficiency rather than passion when it comes to lovemaking.
As you become more secure in your relationship, you sometimes forget that physical intimacy in the bedroom is as important as emotional intimacy outside of it. You start to put time for sleep above time for sex in your list of things to do.
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If you do take time for sex, it is efficient: hit all the right buttons, and you know you can get off and get to sleep at a reasonable hour.
When you are new to the relationship, and new to each other, however, this is not a problem. The reason is that you are just learning about each other.
Everything about your new partner is new and exciting—how she smells, her underwear, learning what makes her tick and recognizing the signs that she’s ready to pounce.
How do you recover this novelty in your sex life when you feel like you’ve both run out of tricks? The key is to try and keep it new. There are a million ways to play in the bedroom—and out of it.
Here are just a few ideas to freshen up a sex life that has become a little stale and predictable.
Share Your Fantasies
Every person has fantasies that they would like to try. If your partner tells you that she doesn’t, it is most likely because she is shy or embarrassed. New millennium or no, women are still taught that good girls don’t act “slutty,” which is to say that they don’t take control of their sexual pleasure.
If this is the case, then you need to make her feel that you will be completely non-judgemental. If she is still unable to tell you, then have her write it down, whisper it to you or share it in an online chat session.
Part of the embarrassment is that she may just not be used to using the words she needs to describe what she finds exciting.
This is one way in which online play can be really fun. Communicating online gives you just that wee bit of distance that might allow her (or you) to come out and say what each of you want to try.
You can try chatting on an instant messenger service or meeting in an online chat room. Make a date to meet online late at night and each of you can share one fantasy. You can decide together on a certain date when you are going to try out each others’ fantasies.
This gives you both something to look forward to so you’re both nice and riled up by the time you can get your hands on each other.
Another alternative is phone sex. Sometimes people aren’t too comfortable with writing online.
Talking over the phone late at night, both of you in bed, can also give you just enough space to be honest (sometimes it’s easier not looking your partner in the eye when admitting some of your screwier turn-ons!), but the phone also lets you hear the sound of your lover’s voice as they purr out their fantasy.
Role Playing
A big part of fantasy play is role playing. In role playing scenarios, you can make things new by actually taking on the persona of other people. Think about how liberating it is to don a costume or a mask and clown around.
Now think of how sexy your conservative girlfriend would look all decked out in a platinum blond wig, sitting at the bar waiting for some stud to come and buy her a drink and then slip her his hotel room key.
Some people like to keep the role playing at home, experimenting with costumes. Many of the scenarios you will find yourself in will play with power and authority. Let’s face it, we all have an inner bad child who needs to be spanked by a hot teacher. We all need to feel vulnerable or powerful in different ways, and sex is a way we can play with those roles.
Sometimes you need to be the fireman rescuing a damsel in distress and sometimes you need to be a naughty boy who needs to be disciplined. You may find that you and your partner each slip into an affinity for being more or less vulnerable or powerful in your play, and this could take you into more daring adventures in the future!
Toys
Many people think that sex toy shops are strictly for gag gifts and lonely singles. In reality, the sex toy game has come a long way, and often the people who run these shops are very open, honest people who are really interested educating you about toys that will help you enhance your sex life.
If your partner is too embarrassed to go into a sex shop, there are many, many virtual toy shops online that the two of you can peruse. You can even order toys to be delivered directly to your door so that you don’t have to worry about running into your neighbours at the local smut peddler.
Along with toys, these online stores often sell titles for erotic videos, books, and costumes (for your role playing!). While there are many women who have mixed feelings about porn, there are some erotic titles and series that contain less of the hardcore humping close ups and more romantic plot (women have sex with their brains—it’s just the bottom line).
Even women who enjoy porn admit that there’s always a part of them that feels kind of bad or wrong watching it because there’s just a degrading tenor.
As an alternative, try ordering some erotic fiction and read it aloud to her (or buy an audio book so your lips are free to do other things to her). Let her tie you to the bed and read it in a whisper into your ear.
The beauty of erotic fiction is that no matter what is going on in the plot, you can imagine anyone you want (including yourselves) in the lead roles. There is no cast of people who have impossible bodies to make you feel bad; there are no actors whose lives you can’t help wondering about: the cast of literature are the people in your head, as you imagine them, not as you are told to imagine them.
The key to rejuvenating your sex life is to break out of the norm. When you are first together, you think about having sex all the time.
Find innovative ways to make it new again, so that you can regain that feeling of having the unknown of what could unfold in the sack tugging at your brain and reminding you just how sexy your partner is.
Cunnilingus – Tips for Pleasing Her
Hi! Gabrielle Moore here…
Today I want to share with you a hooot article.
Read it carefully, because most women (even if they DON´T consciously agree) love oral sex!
So close the door, relax and enjoy!
Let´s get started.
Cunnilingus if performed correctly has the potential to give women exceptional orgasms and many women actually prefer Cunnilingus to full intercourse in terms of satisfaction.
To learn the art of cunnilingus takes a little practice and below we have outlined some tips to improve your technique below.
The art of cunnilingus takes some practice but its practice both you and your partner will enjoy!
Oral Techniques
The Initial Lick
As a start, try licking her from vaginal entrance up her clit and following the outer edges of her vagina covering both sides, going up and down and vice versa can be a great way to start your love making and will relax her and get her in the mood.
Holding The Labial
Hold the two parts together gently with your lips, run your tongue between the inner and outer labia one side at a time and repeat.
Tongue Intercourse
The majority of a woman’s nerve endings in her vagina are around the opening and within the first couple of inches inside.
Hit them with your tongue when perorming Cunnilingus by inserting it into the vaginal opening, then licking gently in circular motions combined with flicks of the tongue.
Flicking
Spread her outer vaginal lips with your fingers. With your tongue pointed, gently lick and flick your tongue across the clitoris and into the vagina.
When doing this make sure go gently and see the response before being harder with your tongue. Most women need to be extremely wet to enjoy this as it is quite an intense feeling for many women.
Sucking
Expose her clitoris by spreading her lips and gently pull back her hood.
Suck the clitoris (be gentle) and then let it go and repeat again.
This can be an incredible turn on and will be very frustrating, warming her up for the other Cunnilingus techniques that are outlined here.
Holding The Clitoris
Take the clitoris in your mouth and suck on it gently, at the same time flick your tongue around it. This can be done very lightly or aggressively or a combination of the two (find out what your women likes first) this is normally intensely arousing when done correctly.
Its as simple as A-B-C
Try using your tongue to spell the alphabet when performing cunnilingus. This is very arousing as your tongue is moving in lots of different directions. You can use any letters you wish, not just ABC! Listen to the ones that give her most pleasure and remember them!
Other points to keep in mind to make cunnilingus pleasureable are
1. Share a shower or bath together before you start to make sure that you are both clean and add gels and lubricants to enhance taste and stimulation if you wish.
2. Ask your partner what she likes. She can give you directions such as harder, slower, faster, more circles etc
3. Fill your own mouth with as much saliva as you can before you begin and never touch or lick the clitoris when performing Cunnilingus with a dry finger or tongue.
4. Don’t go for the clitoris make sure she is warmed up and aroused. Try gentle kissing and licking around the upper thighs and vulva area and work your way up to the clitoris.
5. Use a variety of ways to arouse her. If you repeat the same motion, your partner can become insensitive to it, keep in mind variety with Cunnilingus and keep her expectations up.
6. As she becomes more aroused, insert a finger or two into her vagina as well.
7. Continue to touch and hold her as she orgasms and after and make her feel wanted and loved.
8. The clitoris has more nerve endings than the entire head of the penis, so be very careful not to be to hard with it go gently and remember ask her all the time what she likes and doesn’t.
Cunnilingus can enhance any relationship and most women love it and getting it right is all about communication.
Following the above tips on cunnilingus will help you satisfy your partner and will enhance your relationship.
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Oral Sex Secrets For A Great Female Orgasm…
Pleasuring your partner is an important part of a great sex life. You definitely know that, right? Well, one of the best ways to pleasure her is by giving her a little selfless attention – that means doing something hot to make her feel amazing even when you’re not getting anything back . . . at least not at that moment.
I’m talking about oral sex or, in this case, cunnilingus.
The good news is that oral sex can be amazingly pleasurable for your partner. The bad news is a lot of guys just don’t know what their doing and that ruins the experience for both of partner. But you’re not going to be one of those guys.
Let’s look at some pointers to improve your oral sex aptitude.
Oral sex is one of those things guys have to pretty much learn how to do on their own. It’s not like driving a car where they can ask their dad for advice and it’s not even like vaginal sex which you learn how to do from watching a couple of X-rated films. You’re pretty much on your own with this one so let’s look at three techniques you can use to become outstanding in the oral sex department.
First, you’ve got to know how to move your tongue. The best analogy to describe this is a cat or a dog drinking water from a bowl. When they’re lapping up that water, their tongue is going in and out of their mouths pretty fast, right? Well, that’s the same type of movement you’re trying to achieve. Short and fast is the way to turn up the heat and rev up her clitoris.
Of course, using just “lapping” techniques won’t necessarily win you a prize in bed; you’ve got to know how to spice things up. After you use the first technique for a little bit, mix it up and try a rotation technique. Instead of moving your tongue in and out, keep it in and moving it a circular motion. This motion works amazingly well with the clitoris (circular motion also does the trick in vaginal intercourse, too) and can sometimes be just what she needs to push her over the top.
Now I know some of these cunnilingus sessions can last a pretty long time and a man’s tongue can get pretty tired (we do appreciate the effort though!), so when you start wearing down, give your tongue a break and try humming instead. That’s right – I said humming. Pick any tune you want and hum away but the trick is to keep your face in position. The vibration from your humming will travel up through her vagina and stimulate her clitoris. Basically, you’re becoming her own special vibrator.
Sometimes, guys, you just can’t do it alone. Now I’m not suggesting you bring in a friend, but I am suggesting you pack along a special surprise in your pocket for her: a sex toy. You can choose almost any type of sex you want, but keep in mind one thing: Where am I going to use it? If you don’t mind sharing your tongue space with a vibrator or dildo – and many guys don’t – then any of those choices are fine. My suggestion though is to invest in a toy designed specifically of anal stimulation. Even though your woman may frown on anal intercourse (especially if she’s had a bad experience), the truth is that stimulation in that region – when done correctly – can be pretty intense and can even lead to G-spot orgasms! Plus, if you’re pleasuring her in one area and your “friend” is pleasuring her in another, then your partner is definitely going to be one happy lady, especially after a few minutes.
And you’re likely to be happy, too. A satisfied woman is very likely to turn right around and repay you for your efforts. Maybe with a little fellatio. After all, what man doesn’t love getting oral sex?
While we’re on the subject of oral sex though, I want to mention safety. I’m not trying to kill the mood but you’ll have a lot more fun if you’re protected than if you end up seriously regretting your actions a few months down the road if you know what I mean. While oral sex won’t cause pregnancy, you and your partner can still transmit diseases that way. It may not be romantic but you need to invest in dental dam which covers your teeth and tongue during the act so you don’t exchange bodily fluids during the act. Trust me, you’ll be thankful you did.
Now go out there and start pleasuring your woman with amazing cunnilingus . . . safely.
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