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Ways Masturbation Can Improve Your Sex Life
For years it was a widely-known fact that guys enjoy frequent self-pleasure, but it’s only recently come out that us girls enjoy the same solo play too. Apart from the obvious, there are lots of ways masturbation can improve your sex life.
From discovering your own hotspots (and sharing them with your mate) to lasting longer in the sack, self-fondling can be incredibly self-rewarding, not to mention fantastic for your other half. Do it alone behind closed doors or out in the open in front of your wife – both ways are satisfying, sexy and healthy. So here are some ways masturbation can improve your sex life.
Self-exploration
Nothing is more gratifying than learning more about your own body and what makes you tick. It’s a common and beneficial way to figure out what it is you do like (and maybe what you don’t like). This form of self-discovery will make everything from foreplay to sex that much more enjoyable.
Just make sure you pass this learned info on to your spouse – sure, it’s great to get yourself off but it will be ten times more passionate if you tell your wife what to do (and she does it, and you have a mind-blowing orgasm…)
Last longer
Very often, guys who masturbate frequently are able to maintain their erections and delay ejaculation for a longer period of time. This goes back to my first point – when you masturbate on a regular basis, you learn about your body and you become more in-tune with your biological reactions. Once you really familiarize yourself with the sensations that occur during sex, you can actually teach yourself how to hold off – you’ll start to recognize the triggers and you can then find new ways to fend off your impulses and hence, last longer.
I was dating this guy for a few months who could go forever in bed (the anti-minute-man). But, as we started spending “everyday” time together, we also started to learn more about each other… and it didn’t take me long to figure out that in addition to shaving and washing in the shower every morning, he was also choking the monkey. And let me tell you – to this day he was the only guy I was ever intimate with who had complete control of his load – it made oral and conventional sex fantastic!
Keep the balance
It’s rare for people who have been in long-term relationships to always be “in the mood” at the same time – maybe you’d be happy with sex five times a week but she’s only interested in it once or twice. Well, masturbation can be a great “filler” for those dry spells. Keep yourself satisfied (and balanced) by taking things into your own hands (literally). You don’t always need her and she doesn’t always need you.
Two-sided
While women and masturbating is a topic that isn’t as faux pas as it once was, there are still a lot of ladies who feel embarrassment, shame, or even humility when it comes to openly discussing their self-pleasuring. So let your partner know that you’re not only okay with it but encourage her to explore and share her findings as well.
Yours forever,
Gabrielle Moore
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REAL LIFE ISSUE: What to Do if Your Member is Too Big
If you are sitting around wondering what to do if your member is too big, then a good portion of the male world is really envious of you. Though, understandably, when you vary too far from normal in anything it can be problematic.
Nature builds people with average sizes for a very practical reason. With the one size fits all option, you have your pick of the field. However, if you are just plain too big to fit a lot of women, from a practical standpoint it limits your choice in mates.
Of course to some extent you can compromise your sex live by having sex with your partner as best you can and manually stroking your penis to round out the experience for you. Oral sex is also an option, though that could prove to be problematic as well.
While the average erect penis really is just about six inches long, if you are a little bigger than that you probably do not have much to worry about. A fully erect penis has a circumference of just less than five inches, so again if you are within a click or two of that again, you probably have nothing to worry about.
These measurements are taken by measuring the top of the penis from its base to its tip, and a string is used to measure the girth of the penis at its widest point. Then measure the string with a ruler.
Interestingly your erect penis size has really nothing to do with your erect penis size. A man may have a tiny penis when limp, which grows to a normal size when erect. Good to know if that was worrying you.
There is a relationship between a man’s height and his penis. Studies have proven out that while height does affect penis size, weight only sometimes affects its size. While there is a relationship between a man’s height and his penis size it is not directly proportional.
Your Index Finger and Your Penis…?
Everyone has heard the story of hands and feet. While foot size has absolutely nothing to do with penis size, a very strong relationship does exist between the index finger and penis.
What does all of this mean? Well if you are an extremely tall man with crazy long fingers, you probably have a member that is just too big. A man’s penis continues developing until puberty is complete, and this can be anywhere from 16 to 21. Pretty much when you stop growing height wise, your penis is done growing as well.
Studies have shown that men with average to below average penis sizes have lower self-esteem then those with a larger penis size. While men are busy obsessing about being bigger and of course better, most women are fine with the healthy average male. Since the inner portions of a woman’s vagina generally only extends to a length of about four inches, pretty much any length over the average size penis is wasted, and an extremely large penis is problematic.
While surgical options, creams and pills are available to address the problem of an extremely large penis, it is not a good idea to tamper with what nature gave you. Instead find a partner who is willing to work with you to explore creative solutions to your problem. For example, as mentioned before, you may be able to enjoy sex with your partner by having her use her hand to manipulate the excess length. Oral sex may be a good solution. And you should consider exploring sex toys and gadgets. Between stimulating creams, vibrators, artificial vaginas, etc, you and your partner can build a very satisfying sex life together.
By exploring all possible solutions to your problem like different sexual positions, and digital manipulation, you afford yourself the opportunity to enjoy a very full and satisfying sex life with your loving partner.
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Does Size Matter?
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