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How to Do a Foot Job
A foot job can be a very erotic experience if you want it to be. It’s considered a type of ‘dry orgasm’ because there’s no direct exchange of bodily fluids. But did you know that a ‘foot job’ can mean two different things?
Firstly, receiving a foot job generally means having one’s genitals stimulated by his or her partner’s feet. So for you, it’s pretty much like getting a blow job but her feet are used to stimulate you instead of her hands and mouth. And you can give your partner a foot job too by using your toes to ‘explore’ her vagina.
Secondly, a foot job can also mean having one’s toes sucked by your partner. This is also called as having a foot fetish or a foot worship fixation.
Although both scenarios above can be called a foot job, the former tends to be more applied to males, while the latter description is enjoyed more by females. Somehow, sucking your toes does not appeal a lot to women because they know that men don’t spend as much time grooming their feet as women do. In addition, applying the first description of a foot job on women (i.e., stimulating her vagina with your feet) is also not tempting because it sort of feels that their genitals are being ‘investigated’ or ‘probed’ rather than caressed.
Well, now that we’ve gone through the nitty-gritty of what a foot job is, how do you convince your lover to give you one?
The following steps assume that you want your wife or girlfriend to apply a foot job on your genitals. Now, grab your lover and read the following steps together.
Step # 1. Discuss basic feet grooming. Toe nails are actually harder than fingernails so it’s best if she trims her nails; having a pedicure before giving a foot job is also not a bad idea. For added sexiness, it’s great if your lover paints her toe nails fiery red!
Step #2. Engage in some super sexy foreplay. Not only will this make things hot between the two of you but it will remove any awkwardness or shyness about giving and receiving a foot job.
Step #3. Reach for a good lubricant and together, apply a good dose on your feet. Massage her feet for a while. This will make her feel good and warm her feet before they touch your genitals.
Step #4. Know lie back on the floor and enjoy! Your lover, on the other hand, should get a small stool or chair and find a comfortable sitting spot beside you. From her raised sitting position, she should be able to comfortably extend her legs and have her feet touch your erect flagpole.
Step #5. At first, she should simply move your feet up and down your manhood (as it rests on your belly). She should then start to raise your penis with one foot, as the other continues caressing it. Once your manhood is fully raised, she can position her feet at both sides of your penis and move them up and down.
Step #6. Ladies, don’t forget to be creative! For example, what would your tongue do if you were giving him a blowjob? You would probably lick him right along the ridge of his pole right? Well, use your big toe then to do exactly that! Remember, your feet are lubricated so wriggling your big toe along his manhood or drawing small circles around it is just as good!
Here’s another tip: how about a double, simultaneous foot job? While in the same position as outlined above, lubricate only one of her feet. Now, as she tickles your pole with the lubricated foot, draw her other foot towards you and suck on her toes.
A foot job is easy to try. All you need is an open mind and clean feet! Give it a try. You’ll never know what tickles your lust bones if you don’t.
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How to Foot Worship Her
Many men suffer unrequited foot fetishes. Maybe it’s the painted nails or the look of a woman’s foot in a perfect high heel, but something about a woman’s foot makes many men swoon.
If you want to get some of that obsession fulfilled, you need to know how to bring your lady into your need to worship her feet. You need to worship her feet so she’ll know that you desire them. You want to make her feet feel as special as you make the rest of her feel.
If she’s completely out of the loop when it comes to your obsession, then by all means go slowly. She might get freaked out if you come on too strong. But if you work up to full worship mode slowly, you’ll likely be able to bring her along for the enjoyable ride.
Top 5 Tips to Feed Your Foot Fetish
1. Begin by treating her feet with tender loving care. The next time the two of you bathe together, gently wash her feet by lathering up your hands, and gently caressing her feet. Give the feet a massage as you do this. Even if she’s ticklish, if you give the feet the right amount of pressure and gentleness, the massage will feel good.
Take your time when you massage the feet, and let her know that you really enjoy touching her feet and giving them special attention. In a subtle way, you’ll be satisfying your own fetish while making her feel special and loved.
2. Buy her some fantastic shoes. Only you know what kind of shoes turns you on the most. Buy her the ones that do. If it’s a stiletto heel, get her some black ones that she can wear out to a party and then later in the bedroom. If it’s a strappy sandal, get her a fantastic leather pair that will make her feet feel like they’re walking on air. Then ask if you can be the one to put them on and take them off on her.
3. Give your lady complimentary input about her shoes, her nail polish and the overall look of her feet. Encourage her to get pedicures and offer to be the one that massages lotion into her feet at the end of the day.
After you’ve bathed her, bought her shoes, and complimented her feet, by now, she might have an inkling that you are into feet. This is, of course, assuming that you haven’t just come right out and told her. If she asks, be open about it but don’t scare her. If she doesn’t ask, then feel free at this point to start discussing it.
4. Start to explore the online world of foot fetishes together. Start to buy sexy shoes together, watch adult movies that feature foot fetish elements, and others. You can also join a forum and talk with others who have feet fetishes or who enjoy worshiping feet. You might find ideas for how to satisfy your foot fetish.
If you’re a bit shy, you can also use the online world to buy special items for your lady’s feet. Be it nail polish or those fantastic shoes we talked about, use the anonymity of the online world to explore your fetish in more detail.
Best of all, you might find that you’re not alone. You can commiserate with other worshipers and get ideas for how to make your lady’s feet feel like they are the greatest things ever.
5. Finally, if you want to take your fetish to the extreme, use those feet in bed. They can be licked and sucked; they can be used for masturbation or other sexual satisfaction. Use your imagination; only you know what will do the trick for you.
Remember, this is as much about her as you. While you have a desire to worship and focus attention on those feet, she needs to feel like it’s OK and that her feet are something to be worshiped. It’s important that in this process you don’t ignore HER, and continue to worship her other body parts. Unless she shares your obsession, you could turn her off if you only focus on the feet.
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