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How to Have Great Fun with Blindfolds
Have you tried using blindfolds during lovemaking? It’s exhilarating! It’s amazing how your other senses are heightened by taking away the sense of sight. It makes for VERY powerful orgasms for sure.
However, it always seems to be a tad scary whenever someone suddenly pulls out a blindfold during sex. So read on for a few tips on how to get used to the idea of using blindfolds.
Blindfold Bliss
As always, start by discussing with your partner the benefits of trying on blindfolds for sex and reassure her that it should be a fun process if you guys do the following.
Eat with your mouth.
Well, you do eat with your mouth but eating is a visual experience too. So what would happen if you guys ate blindfolded? (By the way, did you know that there are restaurants now in some parts of the world where it’s VERY dark so that when you eat, you hardly see your food? The purpose is of course to heighten the sense of smell and taste.)
So that you don’t harm yourselves in this effort, ensure you have something easy to handle for dinner. (How do fried chicken drumsticks sound? This way, you don’t end up really blinding yourself by accidentally sticking a fork in your eye!) Anyway, you get my meaning.
Eating blindfolded can be a really sense heightening experience so if you start the night this way, you pave the way for a very exhilarating experience in bed.
Blinded by foreplay.
After dinner, fool around on the sofa or in the bedroom, with the blindfolds left on of course. You’ll be amazed at how daring you may even become with the blindfold on. Further, everything will seem like 10 times more erotic! This is because you hardly know what’s next because you cannot see where the other is headed.
Also, can you just imagine how erotic things are when you only rely on your sense of sound? You cannot see her face but all of a sudden those ooohs and ahhhs are a tremendous turn on for you!
Blinded and binded.
Here’s a cool twist, one of you can take of his/her blindfold now… and use it to tie the other to the bed. So, let’s say she was the one who gave up her blindfold, imagine this: you cannot see her and all your hairs are on end because of the deliriously fantastic blowjob she’s giving. HOWEVER, you cannot touch her or grab her head because your hands are tied with the blindfold against the bed post.
Hmmm, I guess you just have to grin and bear the pleasure…
SIX Foreplay Ideas for You to Try
Why does it seem like when it comes to foreplay, NOTHING is new? And this is a sad thought because foreplay is an important part of our sex lives! So, to spice your foreplay repertoire a bit, I have few ideas for you to try on your lover tonight. Read on!
X-rated notes still do the trick. Stick a note that says something like “Sex @ 8 PM” on her date planner or even her grocery shopping notebook! If you want to dirty, say something like “This throbbing guy will penetrate – HARD – @ 8 PM tonight”.
Lick her under there. By this I mean, under her arms. Yes, her armpits! The armpits have sensitive skin and it can darn arousing to have this area kissed, licked and caressed. Of course, this assumes that she has just shaved and is not currently wearing any antiperspirant or deodorant. If this is a concern, here’s the solution: take a shower together and shave her too!
Whisper against her skin. Start nibbling and kissing the back of her neck and whisper naughty words in between. Your hot breath will make her hair rise (but in a sensual way!). Do the same behind her ears, on her shoulder blades, and down the front side of her neck.
Grind against her with your clothes on. Also known as ‘dry humping’, this is a great way to increase sexual tension especially if you are in public and can’t exactly do it yet. It’s like foreplay on steroids!
Look lusty without trying. Well, actually you are trying but the point is to make it look natural. Foreplay is really anything that builds sexual tension, right? So start making her want to have sex right now by making yourself HOT-looking. For example, take a shower, touch yourself just a bit. Just enough for a slight erection and then go out of the bathroom butt-naked, making darn sure she sees your hot, throbbing member!
For the ladies, here’s my tip. Take off your bra, tweak your nipples and put a white shirt on. Your hard nipples will make him want to jump you!
Here’s a neat trick I actually learned from my own lover(!): touch yourself in a sort of absent-minded way. Don’t go a-grabbing down there, that’s not sexy. Think of it like touching a sore or strained muscle. You glide your hand over it; gentle but firm.
Make her BEG for it. Drag on the foreplay for as long as you can. Oftentimes, men give in easily the minute she indicates she wants intercourse. This time prolong the foreplay until she begs you to penetrate her. I guarantee her climax will be rocking her body long after the last orgasmic spasm.
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5 French Kissing Tips
French kissing is a right of passage for many teenagers, and it is during this time that many men learn to French kiss. With expert advice from your buddies, you perfected the art of the kiss, or so you thought. Kissing is actually a skill that consists of more then checking out a woman’s tonsils with your tongue.
Women’s lips are very sensitive, and it’s one of their most sensitive erogenous zones. Any man who can deliver a really good French kiss is likely to live in a woman’s memory forever. Surprising news to many men, a kiss does not just involve the mouth, rather it involves the entire body.
The position of your heads, hands and bodies are all important components of any kiss. Cradling her face in your hands while you deliver your kiss creates an entirely different sensation for her than wrapping your hands around her waist while you are kissing her. So consider what your hands are doing while you are kissing your girl, because they can either be supporting the kiss or detracting from it.
Your Kiss is Your Opening Line
Kissing a woman is almost always the opening line leading to sex, so it is important to deliver your line with conviction. As your tongue gently enters her mouth, relax your lips and your tongue. Wait to feel her tongue, and then interact with it. Remind yourself throughout the kissing process to relax, and this may not be an easy feat because the rest of you is getting very excited. But a memorable kiss needs to feel like it is melting on your lips, and for that to happen you need to be relaxed.
Now that you are kissing pay close attention to what her lips, tongue, mouth, hands and body are doing. Is she offering you a playful nibble or is her tongue dancing with yours. By being attuned to how your woman kisses, you can get an idea of what she prefers, and that is exactly what you can give her for the most memorable kiss of her life.
When you are kissing, take your time. If you are lucky enough to move along to the next level, you will get there soon enough, but a rushed, sloppily executed kiss is almost certain to take you out of the game. If you linger in the kiss, taking care to relax you lips and tongue, your woman will literally melt in your arms.
A French Kiss is the Ultimate in Foreplay
A French kiss is especially sensual because it is the ultimate in foreplay. Everything about the kiss mimics oral sex. Exploring with your tongue, your gentle sucking motion and your soft lips all foretell of pleasures yet to come. For her gently finding your tongue and sucking on it makes you glassy eyed with anticipation. So learning the art of a French kiss is really more than just a simple kiss.
With this in mind, lick her upper lip and lower lip in a light playful fashion. Once her lips are soft and wet, you can rub your lips on hers for a sensual sensation for both of you. Then try gently sucking on her lips, first the top and then the bottom. Again, remind yourself to relax and take your time.
Once you have fully explored her mouth you can take off for parts unknown. The French kiss is a prelude to making love, and as you move from her lips to her cheek to her chin, take your time and enjoy the journey.
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