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Foreplay Tips for Adults
There’s no doubt about it; foreplay is an extremely important part of any relationship. Sadly, as our relationships ‘age’, we seem to focus on foreplay less and less and are just bent on reaching our orgasmic destinations.
Although there are a lot of tips that are given these days to bring back foreplay big time in your relationships, let’s face it, a lot of these tips are corny and impractical.
For instance, sex on the backseat of a car? That’ so uncomfortable!
French kissing? A tad boring.
Feeling her up down there? You do that already!
So read on below where I list some REAL foreplay tips for you to try.
Adult Literature. Yes, don’t hide those adult reading materials anymore. Bring them all out and stack them beside your bed! When you guys tuck in for the night, grab one of them and start glancing through the pages. Sooner or later, one or both of you will be itching to start playing with each other too!
Sex Toys. Sex gadgets are great ways to engage in foreplay. For one, they enable you to learn more about your own bodies and what turns you on best. Some also enable you to please each other without necessarily pushing each other to a climax.
Try this tonight: ask her to show you how to operate her vibrator. (If she doesn’t have one, take this as an opportunity for you to give her a spectacular gift!) As you apply different speeds, pressure and try different angles on her clitoris, keep a mental note of which moves produced the horniest of groans from her and then do the same thing with your tongue.
You can just stash the information away in your head and retrieve it again for the next between the sheets session or do it now! Use the vibrator and your tongue on her alternately.
As for you, there are a lot of sex toys for men too. For instance, try a penis ring. It can be used to delay an orgasm giving you both more time for foreplay.
Sexual Massages. This is by far my personal favorite. Sexual massages can last for hours or be a quick 10 to 15 minute foreplay session. You can easily adjust it to how long you want foreplay to last or how much time you have on your hands.
A sexual massage is pretty much like any other massage except that focus eventually goes to your or your lover’s erogenous zones. The great thing about a sexual massage is that it serves to relax you the first few minutes.
I mean it does indeed start off as a ‘legit’ massage. This helps in relaxing your mind and body and helps in getting rid of stress, which in turn makes your mind and body more sensitive to whatever sexual stimuli.
Here’s a sexual massage move you can apply on her: as she lies down on her back, cover her eyes with a warm, damp cloth to relax her eyes. Now spread her legs and kneel in front of her. Remove her undergarments. Put massage oil on your hands and gently knead her thighs. When you feel that she’s relaxed and succumbing to the pleasures your massage strokes are giving, bend your head slowly and dip a very hot and wet tongue on her genitals!
This move can be done on you too. When she dips her head forward, she can nuzzle your family jewels with her nose and mouth, lick your balls, or run the hardened tip of her tongue on the underside of your penis.
Phone Sex. Have you ever engaged in phone sex? If not, you must try now because it’s extremely exhilarating. You see, we all have that ‘dirty mind’ inside of us but we don’t let it go for many reasons. For instance, you may be afraid to offend your girlfriend/wife with just how ‘harsh’ you can be. I mean, if she’s not used to hearing you say dirty words and then all of a sudden you shout ‘f. me you b.” then yeah, you’ll scare her.
However, most women do want a little roughness but most are ‘shy’ in bed, afraid you would think differently (in a negative way) of her afterwards. The solution is thus to engage in phone sex.
With phone sex you get to role play and ‘test the waters’ more freely. You’ll be surprised at how not seeing each other – and maybe a shot or two of alcohol – can really loosen the tongue.
And who says phone sex should be done when you’re out of town? Hello mobile phones! Call your woman while she’s downstairs and you’re in the garage or in the attic. Talk dirty and talk wild… and then meet in the bedroom!
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Top 10 Things Women Wish Men Do Before, During and After Sex
Before sex, a woman wants her man to…
1. Take a Shower – Going caveman on her is a turn on only if the man smells and tastes good. She would definitely volunteer to give her partner a rim job and a blow job if he comes out of the shower smelling fresh and clean. Hairy men need to pay particular attention to their hygiene as hairiness will always mean more deep seated dirt that could cause odor when mingled with sweat.
2. Woo her to bed – Even if she has been dating him for a long time, a girl wants to be seduced, enticed and tempted. During the day, a man should drop subtle signs that he wants to do it with her that night. It could be a tiny pinch on the hand while she’s fixing dinner or a playful butt slap when she passes by with the laundry. Catching her eye and giving her the “sex me up” look makes her feel sexy and excited to do just that.
3. Give her a massage – Texture play is as much a woman’s thing as it is a man’s. There’s nothing more sensual than feeling his hand all over her body before sex. A massage is completely one way, and a woman loves to feel pampered. There’s a good chance that a man can get her to agree to anything he wants during sex if he gives her a good backrub first.
During sex, a woman wants her man to…
4. Take the leader role – Girls are traditionally submissive and even the women who want to take charge during sex need to be told the direction to take. It is the man’s job to set the pace of the love making, and this includes telling her how he wants it, asking her to try new things and suggesting the best way for her to achieve the best orgasm.
5. Prolong foreplay – There are men who jump a woman as soon as she’s naked and with legs spread wide. Make no mistake of it, a woman loves to feel her man’s hard penis inside her, but foreplay is a way to get her comfortable and prepped for orgasm. Experimenting with different pleasure spots will go a long way in keeping her wet during actual penetration. Make her want to go on top by prolonging foreplay enough to increase her urge to a feverish pitch.
6. Eat her out – the feel of a man’s tongue on a woman’s clitoris is both mentally and physically gratifying. If a man takes the time to pay proper homage to a woman’s portal of love, he will make her want to return the favor.
After sex, a woman wants her man to…
7. Cuddle – A woman feels like basking in the aftermath of love making by cuddling with her partner. There are some women who feel emotional after sex, and a few ‘happy’ tears could be shed. Making her feel special after sex will make her consider a second round.
8. Be ready for another round – Older guys may find the request for another round immediately after the first as unreasonable. But we are talking about what women want here, and she definitely wants another round when the first one was so intense.
9. Fall asleep with her – There is nothing more romantic than falling asleep (or more appropriately, passing out) together after sex. She will feel very sleepy after a wonderful love making session, and a man has to wait only a few minutes before he can stand up to pee.
Lastly, a woman wants a guy to…
10. Stay erect before and during sex! A rock hard erection will convey the message of desire and willingness to have the best night of love ever.
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Five Fool-Proof Ways to Get Her in the Mood
Guys don’t need to be geniuses when it comes to getting us girls in the mood. They do need to make an effort in one particular direction and, once they get onto the right path, it can really be quite simple. The key to getting started in the right direction is not to act or say things solely for the purpose of getting some sex. If you can’t manage that, try pretending for a while! Here are 5 fool-proof ways to get you on the right track.
Number One is Appreciation
Show your appreciation for her by noticing specific things and expressing your gratitude for your special lady. It’s the specifics that we girls really love to hear the most. When you compliment a girl for specific things like what is most beautiful about her and her character, the sexier she will start to feel around you. Once the relationship becomes truly serious, let her know she is the most important person in your life. A girl will always respond best when she feels that she is the most important woman in your life.
There are also specific things you can do to show her you care such as taking her shopping and buying her something. Bring her flowers once a month and lean over in the car and kiss her at the red light. A really appreciative man can make dinner for his girl and even volunteer to clean up afterward! Sticking romantic notes in her wallet or calling her at midday are also great ways to show her she’s on your mind. Ask her to tell you about herself and show her that you can sincerely listen.
Number Two is Her Name
It has been said that the most beautiful sound a human being can hear is the sound of their own name. If you want to be important to your lady, remember to use her name. Too many couples fall into the habit of using casual endearments such as “honey” or “baby”. Use her name more often as if it were the key to her heart. Roll it off your tongue when you are laying next to her as if it were a juicy, forbidden fruit. Say it slowly and softly as you take her hand and guide her to the bedroom. Then say it while you’re making slow, sweet love to her.
Number Three is the VCR.
Once things have started to heat up, the VCR becomes one of the best tools a man can use to get a girl in the mood. Even if your girl isn’t a big fan of blatant adult erotica, you can get her excited with a movie. Many romantic films also have some soft porn scenes that contains sensual, erotic components. Try to think of the kind of movies she likes when you are browsing through the aisles. This cold be the difference between a night of pure passion or a night spent in different beds entirely.
Number Four is Paying Attention
Once things have really gotten into high gear, it is extremely important to keep your attention on her. Sex is about joining together in mind and body. It involves emotions for a girl more than a guy but the manner in which a man can pay attention to his girl will tell her that her emotions are in good hands. Even when the sex gets wild, a girl will still be affected emotionally. By remaining truly present, you can forge a genuine bond and keep her excited as the sex grows in intensity. Gaze deeply into her eyes and give her that electric connection that she craves.
Number Five is Mechanics
The physical mechanics are also important to a woman but only after the emotional factors have been set into motion. Save the most physical act for last and then it will increase her pleasure tenfold. Once this is happening, you can explore what is known as a woman’s “genital web.”
It isn’t just the clitoris that is important in sex. There is a much larger, wishbone-shaped area outside her genitals that extends down both sides. This very delicate web of nerve fibers makes up the entire genital area and should be rubbed ad caressed in its entirety so as to make a woman more responsive. Take your time to explore this whole area before you decide to penetrate her. Learn all the subtleties of this area before you focus on the clitoris. Here you will awaken a whole new world of pleasure in your lady.
