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The G-Spot FAQ

Every day I get TONS of questions about the elusive g-spot. So today I decided to enlighten you with some facts about it and of course some tips on how you can bring your lover to a ‘Big O’ via the ‘Elusive G’.

What is the G-Spot?

The g-spot is actually named after German gynecologist Ernst Grafenberg, who is the one credited for having discovered this sweet area in women in the 1950’s. Since then a lot of debated has come up as to whether this spot even exists. This is because research on the subject has been limited because, well, I guess there are not a lot of volunteers!

However, recent studies (based on MRI scans and biopsies) have revealed that the g-spot does in fact exist so now, more than ever, is the time to really have fun in the bedroom!

Find the gspot.

How Big is the G-Spot?

Women vary so there is no single diameter we can affix the gspot. There is, however, a guideline of sorts. It’s said to be about one fourth of an inch to about two inches.

What’s the Texture of the G-spot?

The g-spot is reputed to be soft but a bit rough. It has the softness of a woman’s clitoris but it has a ridge-like texture. Many say it’s just like the upper wall of your mouth so run your tongue over that area for an idea.

Why is Foreplay Important in the Quest to Find the Gspot?

Foreplay is important because the gspot, just like the clitoris, gets puffed up when aroused. So the more foreplay you guys engage in, the more titillated she will be and the bigger her g-spot will be. This will make it extremely easy for you to find it. Also, being fully aroused means she’s very wet which prevents any pain as you go in and try to find that sweet nub of hers.

WHERE is the G-Spot Located?

Again, keep in mind that all women are different so there’s no exact area. However, here are the guidelines. The g-spot is located at the front of her vaginal wall, about 2-3 inches from her ‘opening’. Think of her navel as positioned at 12 o’clock; between 11 o’clock and 1 11 o’clock is her g-spot.

What’s the Best Way to Find the G-Spot?

I suggest that your woman tries to find her g-spot alone first. A woman’s body has many secrets, nooks & crannies, and each one of us has a unique way of becoming really aroused. So it’s important that SHE gets to know her body first before you join the picture.

The benefits of her engaging in self-pleasure are two-fold: (1) she becomes better at being able to guide you more during sex regarding what techniques really bring her pleasure, which in turn (2) removes any frustration or even pain that may occur as you try and find her gspot.

Trust me, finding and stimulating the g-spot to its fullest does not happen overnight. A lot of ‘trial and error’ can be prevented if your woman engages in self-love first.

Now, as for the mechanics on how to locate the spot, read on. (Instructions below are for her.)

- Lie down on your back and place small pillow on your lower back to elevate your hips.
- Think erotic thoughts so you start to get wet.
- Play with your clitoris.
- As you become really wet and aroused, insert a finger or two (palm facing upwards) inside you. Keep in mind the general location and texture described above.
- Once you find your g-spot, apply various speeds and techniques to stimulate it. Enjoy!
- After reaching your Big O, think about what you really liked and what really turned you on so you can let your lover know what you want.

Once your woman has done the above steps, feel free to join her for the next session!

She Needs to Pee?!?

Oftentimes, as the g-spot is stimulated, your woman will have this burning desire to take a leak. This is because the g-spot is located near her bladder and stimulating it induces this sensation to urinate. However, don’t stop what you’re doing. The feeling will soon subside and she really won’t pee.

What are the Best Positions for a G-spot Orgasm?

The best positions for g-spot climaxes are woman-on-top and ‘flat doggie-style’. For the former, this is great because she can easily angle her body to whatever position so your penis gets to reach her gspot better.

For the latter position, she should lie down on her belly and only spread her legs slightly. You enter her from behind, while also keeping yourself in a horizontal position. She should then bring her legs together tighter. This produces more friction as you thrust and positions your penis to thrust with a slightly upward angle, which is great for hitting her gspot.

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Teach Her to Find YOUR G-spot

There are a few little details that need to be addressed before asking your partner to lube up and send her finger on the hunt for your manly love bud. But as always, the right approach, mental preparation and instructions are the keys. Read on for all you need to know to getting her to your money spot.

how to find the male gspot

The Male G-Spot – Getting Started…

Naturally you need to make sure that this is something she actually wants to do. Most of us have been raised to think that the anus is about as nasty as can be as far as our body goes, so some women especially may be really uptight about it and the last thing you need is a reluctant or bitter participant anywhere near your behind!

To make her understand why you’d like her to give it a go, explain how incredible it’ll make you feel and make sure she knows that you’re more than happy to reciprocate later. Once you’ve got that out of the way, it’s time to prep for play. Here’s what you should do.

Take a bath or shower together. You want to make sure that things are as clean as can be—especially if either of you is squeamish about that part of the body and what its function is! This can also help to relax you which will make things a lot easier on the tension front, if you know what I mean.

Make sure her nails are trimmed and her hands are clean. Since she will be venturing into extremely sensitive and likely unchartered territory, these are a must to avoid scarring you physically and emotionally! You want to avoid scratches which could lead to infection if things get in there that shouldn’t thanks to dirty nails.

Have lots of lube on hand. You’ll need to use lots of lube for this to go well. Keep it close by so you can add more and help freshen up the supply if need be. (Trust me—you’ll know when it’s time to add more lube)

Get comfortable. Lying on your back and using a pillow under you to prop you up will be the best position for you. If she’s a little shy about having you watch—or vice versa—lying on your stomach is the best alternative.

On the Hunt She Goes…

Now that you’re both prepped and ready; it’s time to begin. Use these tips to help guide her to giving you exactly what you’re craving.

• Stroke your penis and have her use her lubed finger to tease and stimulate your anus at the same time. When it comes to backdoor play, the more aroused you are the better it will feel. It’ll help to loosen things up, if you know what I mean.

• Let her know when you’re ready for penetration and then have her slide her finger inside of you slowly until she reaches your prostate gland. Tell her that it feels like a small bulb of tissue the size of a walnut so she’ll know what to look for to avoid any unnecessary poking around.

• Tell her to use her finger to massage the sides of the gland over and over while gradually increasing pressure. You should be letting her know what feels good and what doesn’t so that she can adjust her moves accordingly.

• When you find what feels the best, tell her to keep at it since it’s the repetitive stimulation that will lead to the end result. Before you know it you’ll be coming like a champ and seeing stars!!

Male G-Spot Extra Tip

The center of the prostate is super sensitive because it is filled with nerve endings that make every touch incredibly intense—not necessarily in the good way! Playing with it could almost be painful, so make sure she sticks to the sides and the surrounding muscles while she’s massaging away to guarantee as little pain as possible.

And finally, since we’re on the subject of pain; this is a part of the body that you may not be used to having manipulated, so be prepared to possibly feel some pain at first. On a good note; the pain is usually minimal and a small price to pay for the pleasure that awaits!

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