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A Brief Sexual History Lesson
About the turn of the 20th century, Freud was generating his own revolution about the nature of sexuality. He said there were two kinds of orgasm: clitoral and vaginal, or in Tantric terms clio and yoni. Freud convinced many that clio (clitoral) orgasms were immature. According to him, it took a real woman to have a yoni orgasm.
In contrast, pioneering sex researchers, like Kinsey in the 50s and Masters & Johnson in the 60s, believed that only clio was responsible for women’s orgasms. The good news was that these findings spurred vibrator-wielding feminists to teach women that they could develop their orgasmic potential.
The bad news was that, depending on whom they listened to, many people ignored a valuable source of female sexual pleasure. (Don’t worry, I´m not going to take sides in this silly debate.)
Fortunately, the pendulum began to swing back in 1982. Public consciousness, fueled by scientific research and growing comfort with the sexual revolution, opened to other orgasmic triggers.
Make Love Not Controversy
Don’t expect your family doctor, or even your OB/GYN to know very much about sex. In most medical schools, the training devoted to sexuality is either non-existent or minimal. A few medical schools increased their emphasis on sexuality in the 70s and 80s, but many of them have cut back since then. So it’s no surprise that the controversies over the existence of the G-Spot, different kinds of orgasms, and female ejaculation continue to this day in the medical community.
It’s only been since the late 90s that medical research began to take seriously the notion that women’s sexuality operates differently than men’s. At last, serious investigation is underway into the unique sexual anatomy and physiology of the female that will ultimately support women in leading joyful sex lives. What you’ll read here is based on the most recent findings.
Women Are Different, Duh
We understand the frustration of male-dominated sciences being unable to describe female sexuality with simple linear models and reproducible formulas. The fundamental fact that keeps appearing in our reading, research, and client work is that each woman is different. Although there are some general commonalties, each woman will have her proclivities, her preferences, and her own kind of orgasms.
Her pleasure, her sensitivity, and her climaxes will differ based on factors within and without: her mood, her hormones, her level of arousal, her connection to her partner, her openness to passion, and her acceptance of her own sexuality.
Those of us who honor the Goddess and specialize in the study and practice of sex know without a doubt that the Sacred Gate exists. As does clio. It doesn’t take an expert to prove that they both can help you explode with passion if you want.
Never fear, your partner´s G-Spot is alive and well and living inside. When you discover exactly what it wants, it can shower you and your lover with delicious peaks of pleasure.
EXERCISE: History Discussion Questions
Here are some questions to journal, reflect on, or talk about…
- What kind of values did your family hold about sex?
- What role do you feel sexuality plays in a healthy life?
- What kinds of sexual repression have you personally experienced?
You may be asking yourself: “Why did Gabrielle gave me this sexual history lesson?”
ANSWER: Because I want you to be COMPLETELY prepared (with the basics), because in a few days (October 25, 2007) you and your lover will enjoy the hottest sex ever. You will finally enjoy a G-Spot orgasm!
So, mark your calendar! October 25, 2007.
Love and Kisses!
Gabrielle Moore
Training For A Great Orgasm!
One of the most interesting phenomenons I’ve witnessed in dealing with human sexuality is the ability of people to train themselves into having an orgasm. Any one who has ever masturbated has engaged in a self-training program which has taught them how to orgasm. Before we talk about female training, I’ll give you an example from male sexuality.
I worked with a male once who was a regular masturbator. During masturbation, he fantasized about having his partner bent over the edge of a couch and engaging in rear penetration, not anal sex. For months he used this same fantasy to help him reach orgasm during masturbation. This affected his sex life. When he was having sex with his partner, he found that he was losing his erection and finding it difficult to climax in any other position. The only way he was able to reach orgasm during actual sex was by imitating what he had been doing in his masturbation fantasies. Essentially, he had trained himself about how to get off.
Men are not the only ones who train themselves. In fact, the training men do usually does not interfere with their ability to reach an orgasm during actual intercourse. With women, it’s different.
Women train themselves in two ways. First, they train themselves to reach orgasm using specific techniques. Second, they train themselves for each orgasm using certain fantasies. Let’s talk about both of these.
When women begin masturbating, they do tend to try multiple ways of accomplishing the goal. Once they find something that works then they stick to it. Let me give you an example. One woman I worked with had been masturbating with a vibrator for about ten years. She had to use the same vibrator every time because she claimed no other vibrator could bring her to orgasm. With sexual partners, she would fake orgasm then excuse herself to the bathroom where she would reach a real orgasm using her vibrator. After a decade of relying on the same toy and the same technique to reach orgasm, this young woman had taught her body how to have an orgasm. Since her partner’s penis was not her vibrator, it was not capable of doing the job. To his credit, he did try a variety of things to help her but the problem really wasn’t his alone to fix. She had to re-train her body.
The second method of training often begins even before a woman ever masturbates. As soon as girls begin fantasizing about men, they are beginning to train their bodies about how to reach orgasm. I have another example to share which illustrates this fact as well. A woman I worked with had been relying on the same fantasies during masturbation for almost two decades. Her preference were rape fantasies in which she was the victim and was non-violently coerced into having intercourse with multiple partners. The fantasies involved different scenarios, locations, and men but the basics were all the same. Even when she tried to have other fantasies, they would always end up deteriorating into a rape fantasy before she was able to orgasm. The only time she was able to reach an orgasm with her husband was when they attempted to act out her fantasy. Like the other woman, she had to re-train her mind about what turned her on and what would lead her to an orgasm.
The reason I’m sharing these stories with you is because orgasm training is one of the biggest, yet most often unrecognized, reasons for women’s difficulties in reaching an orgasm. The only way to break free of that old training is through experimentation. The more the two of you try different things the more likely she is to find something else that can help her climax.
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Try These 2 Fun Sex Positions!
Hi! Today I want to share with you 2 fun positions you can enjoy tonight… 
Remember, my GOAL in life is to improve your sex life!
Enjoy!
Gabrielle Moore
Position: Head to Toe
Difficulty: Easy
Type of Intercourse: Vaginal
Description:
The man lies on his back on the bed with his legs apart. Initially, the woman sits on his penis as if she was going to do a traditional woman-on-top position, then she falls backward between his legs until she is as flat as possible without his penis slipping out of her vagina.
The man moves his pelvis in order to thrust his penis in and out of her.
Why It’s Hot:
If you’re looking for hot, deep penetration in a position, this won’t do it. However, if your female partner needs manual stimulation in order to climax or if either of you has a foot fetish, this could be a great position for you to try.
Because of the position of your bodies, the man can easily reach your vagina in order to stimulate your genitals and/or clitoris with his fingers or with your favorite sex toys. In fact, you might enjoy leaning up so you can watch him work hard to bring you to an orgasm.
If either of you love the idea of kissing, sucking on, or even licking your partner’s feet during intercourse, then this position is ideal because your feet will be beside their head. Of course, if one of you feels the opposite about feet, then you may want to avoid this position or do it with your socks on.
Position: Standing Upright
Difficulty: Moderate
Type of Intercourse: Vaginal
Description:
In this position, both partners are in a standing position facing each other. The woman is leaning back against the wall. He spreads her legs slightly in order to insert his penis. Both the man and the woman remind standing as they “get it on.”
Why It’s Hot:
For some reason, having sex standing up is a huge turn-on and a big fantasy for many couples. Maybe because it seems so spontaneous. That’s the biggest reason why it’s hot.
To be honest, you’re not going to get very good penetration this way, and you may have trouble keeping the penis in the right position. If you’re looking for a climatic fireworks display, then this is going to do the trick.
However, if you’re looking for a hot way to start your next sex session, then this is an amazing beginning to kick off a long period of bedroom fun.
Incidentally, this position is actually hotter when both you have your clothes ON, not off. For example, if you’re wearing a skirt and no panties and he simply lowers his pants enough to get the job done, it increases the fun factor immensely. Try doing this position some place naughty like a bathroom at a friend’s house or while leaning against the privacy fence in your backyard. You might find it more rewarding than you thought.
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