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How to Bring Back… Kissing with Fireworks
Remember those times when just the feel of her mouth on yours made your whole body tingle? It felt like any moment now you will reach your climax with just that one exhilarating kiss! Fast forward to today, now all that you and your partner do is ‘peck’ each other on the mouth.
I personally feel sad when I see couples not kissing enough. Well, I don’t mean that people should make out in public but seriously, you can tell when a couple has lost their ‘fire’. For me, it’s when they hardly touch each other in public or hardly look at each other’s eyes and smile at each other. When this is the case, it usually means that behind closed doors, couples are no longer very passionate with each other.
In fact, many of the couples I come across in my practice flat out tell me that kissing is sometimes boring or even corny. Imagine that! If you’re in this situation, read on and discover how to bring that fire back when you kiss each other.
A little ambiance will help. When you were first dating each other, everything was new and exciting so it didn’t matter when or where you kissed. That may not be the case today so why not make the effort of making sure you are under the right ambiance? For instance, have a romantic dinner –alone – at home. Even if it’s takeout Chinese food, set the table, light some candles, open a bottle of wine and put on some music!
EMBRACE each other. Most couples kiss on the mouth and that’s the only contact between them! This time, kiss your partner with your whole body too. Put your arms completely around her body – toe to toe, thigh to thigh and groin to groin! – close your eyes, and kiss her deeply.
French kissing is always hot! While you’re in the above position, angle your head and French kiss her. If she pulls away a bit in shock, trudge on! More likely, she’s pulling away not because she doesn’t like it but because you haven’t done it in a long time.
If she breaks off the kiss (trust me, this happens often; many of the couples I talk to say the kissing ends because the other keeps breaking off the kiss), don’t stop and pursue that kiss! Here’s one tip that always works: GROAN. That’s right, make groaning noises as you kiss her and that will keep her kissing you back!
Go ahead, be naughty. Well, since you already have her attention, go for gold! As you French kiss her, back her up against a wall or piece of sturdy furniture and slowly start to grind yourself against her. When she lets out a moan, you know she’s yours.
Of course, kissing need not always end in sex but the tips above will hopefully bring back passionate kissing into your life again. Too many couples let their kissing deteriorate to just ‘mouth to mouth touching’ and that should not be the case if you want to keep your sex life truly alive.
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5 French Kissing Tips
French kissing is a right of passage for many teenagers, and it is during this time that many men learn to French kiss. With expert advice from your buddies, you perfected the art of the kiss, or so you thought. Kissing is actually a skill that consists of more then checking out a woman’s tonsils with your tongue.
Women’s lips are very sensitive, and it’s one of their most sensitive erogenous zones. Any man who can deliver a really good French kiss is likely to live in a woman’s memory forever. Surprising news to many men, a kiss does not just involve the mouth, rather it involves the entire body.
The position of your heads, hands and bodies are all important components of any kiss. Cradling her face in your hands while you deliver your kiss creates an entirely different sensation for her than wrapping your hands around her waist while you are kissing her. So consider what your hands are doing while you are kissing your girl, because they can either be supporting the kiss or detracting from it.
Your Kiss is Your Opening Line
Kissing a woman is almost always the opening line leading to sex, so it is important to deliver your line with conviction. As your tongue gently enters her mouth, relax your lips and your tongue. Wait to feel her tongue, and then interact with it. Remind yourself throughout the kissing process to relax, and this may not be an easy feat because the rest of you is getting very excited. But a memorable kiss needs to feel like it is melting on your lips, and for that to happen you need to be relaxed.
Now that you are kissing pay close attention to what her lips, tongue, mouth, hands and body are doing. Is she offering you a playful nibble or is her tongue dancing with yours. By being attuned to how your woman kisses, you can get an idea of what she prefers, and that is exactly what you can give her for the most memorable kiss of her life.
When you are kissing, take your time. If you are lucky enough to move along to the next level, you will get there soon enough, but a rushed, sloppily executed kiss is almost certain to take you out of the game. If you linger in the kiss, taking care to relax you lips and tongue, your woman will literally melt in your arms.
A French Kiss is the Ultimate in Foreplay
A French kiss is especially sensual because it is the ultimate in foreplay. Everything about the kiss mimics oral sex. Exploring with your tongue, your gentle sucking motion and your soft lips all foretell of pleasures yet to come. For her gently finding your tongue and sucking on it makes you glassy eyed with anticipation. So learning the art of a French kiss is really more than just a simple kiss.
With this in mind, lick her upper lip and lower lip in a light playful fashion. Once her lips are soft and wet, you can rub your lips on hers for a sensual sensation for both of you. Then try gently sucking on her lips, first the top and then the bottom. Again, remind yourself to relax and take your time.
Once you have fully explored her mouth you can take off for parts unknown. The French kiss is a prelude to making love, and as you move from her lips to her cheek to her chin, take your time and enjoy the journey.
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Six Ways Guaranteed to Get Her Turned On!
If your woman says she’s tired or has a headache and isn’t in the mood for sex, don’t question her. The worst thing you can do is question that she’s’ not feeling well or just too tired to get frisky.
The best thing you can do, by contrast, is to have some sympathy, some compassion. But you can mix that compassion with a desire to get her turned on. Sometimes women are tired and just think that having sex is too much effort, but once they begin to get turned on, they forget they’re tired, they forget the headache.
So, how can you turn your woman on when she’s convinced that she can’t be turned on?
Top 6 Tips to Turn Your Woman On…
1. Take some of the workload away.
Argue all you want, but the truth is women carry more of the workload at home. Most women do the bulk of the cooking, the cleaning and the child rearing. Often they pay the bills, handle the social calendar and oversee home renovations and decorating. Hey, we’re busy!
If you want to help your woman relax, offer to do some of the work for her one night. Offer to cook, or bring dinner home. If you have children, tell her you’ll be the one to give them baths and get them in bed. She can rest and read a magazine.
Not only will you help her with her fatigue if you do these things, but you’ll make her appreciate you, which often puts women in the mood to show you how much she appreciates it?
2. Run a bath for her.
You’re horny as can be, but she’s saying she’s tired, has a backache, and a headache. Run her a bath, complete with bubbles and perhaps even some soothing, sexy music. Then leave her alone. Let her relax and soak up the pleasure of the bath. Not only will she appreciate you for doing this for her, but the bath will help her to relax and it might even rid her of her headache.
If she’s amenable, you might want to offer to wash her back or wash her hair. Both can be sensual and sexy. You might turn her on just through the sheer pleasure of either activity, which can lead from a relaxing massage to a sexual massage. Hey, you never know.
3. Offer her a drink.
You might do this while she’s in the tub, but the idea here is to help her relax. Now, we don’t suggest using alcohol as a crutch, but if she has a healthy (non-addictive) relationship with alcohol, then by all means, offer her a cocktail or a glass of wine.
The alcohol will help her relax, forget problems and focus on other things (which, you hope, will be lovemaking).
4. Give her a massage.
Again, just offering this will give her some appreciation for your generous nature, but you can turn this into a sensual massage by using oils, or just by giving her a slow, full body massage. Don’t be obvious (such as constantly having your hands and fingers foray into ‘sensitive’ areas on her body), but you can use gentle strokes to remind her that you’re there.
Also, don’t ask for a massage in return! This is about a non-reciprocal arrangement designed to help her relax, to get her in the mood for lovemaking.
5. Offer to cuddle with her.
Sometimes when women are feeling tired, or they are in the midst of a killer headache, they forget how therapeutic the human touch can be.
But if you know how to cuddle her correctly, you can help her forget those concerns and focus on you. Offer to let her lay on you while you watch TV or a movie she likes. Gently caress her head (not so much, though, that she falls asleep) and gently fondle her breasts. Don’t do it like you intend for that fondling to go further, but rather do it because you enjoy it. If you are gentle, you’ll soon notice that her body will automatically react to you.
6. Watch an adult-rated movie.
Yes, this is the most obvious of all the tips I’m offering to get her in the mood, but hear me out – the right x-rated movie can make a woman want to make love sooner than you think.
If you choose the movie wisely (tip: we’re suckers for romantic, adult-rated movies), you create an environment where she can realize and say, “Oh, yeah, sex IS fun. Let’s do it.” It might sound simplistic, but you’d be surprised at how effective this method can be.
One caveat about this tip, however – be sure that it’s OK with her to watch a romantic, yet adult movie tonight. If you just turn it on, you run the risk of completely turning her off. This has to be something you talk to her about first.
Alright! Use these tips the next time your woman says she’s just too tired, or has too much of a headache to make love. You could do all six of our tips in one night (which will surely lead to some fun) or you might incorporate only one or two, holding the others for another time. Either way there’s a good chance your woman will respond favorably.
