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6 Hot Tips to Last All Night
So you’ve got a hottie spending the night and you wanna make sure that you can really rock her world multiple times throughout the course of the night, but how are you going to last that length of time?
What you’re about to read may make you laugh and some of it may even make you cry, but it’s all good and true and definitely worth trying out! These 6 surefire tips will help you keep going and going and going…
1. Self-love. Yes, that’s right. Ben Stiller was on the right track in that infamous scene in There’s Something About Mary. By masturbating before hand and releasing all of your pent up tension, you won’t be quite so ‘eager to seek release’ later. Plus, the more you masturbate, the longer you’ll be able to last every time and really impress her!
2. Try a cockring. If you’re not exactly the cockring type and don’t want to be seen wearing one of those studded numbers that make frequent appearances in cheesy 80’s adult films, you can always try one of the ‘couples’ cockrings that have a clit stimulator on it made for her. This way you get the restricted blood flow that a ring provides while looking like the unselfish lover who got a toy with her pleasure in mind!
3. Pullout and go south. When you’re having sex and feel like you may be getting close a little sooner than you wanted, pullout and move onto other things like giving her oral. It’ll definitely prolong things on your end and you’ll blow her mind in the meantime; making you look like the most giving and skilled lover since Don Juan…or Ron Jeremy.
4. Wear a condom. Technically, this is something that you should already be doing, but if you’re not, then roll one on! A condom can help you last longer because if tight enough, it works similar to how a cockring does, plus the extra barrier between your member and her juicy loveliness will help decrease sensation if you use one of the thicker kinds that most people usually try to stay away from.
5. Control your breathing. Sounds almost poetic, doesn’t it? If you focus on your breathing and concentrate on slowing it down while you’re having sex, it can help you last longer by not only dividing your attention so you’re just distracted enough to not ‘come’ but it also naturally helps to control your excitement level. If you want more tips on the breathing thing then have a look at books or sites about Tantric sex. If it helps Sting and Trudy make love for more than 8 hours at a time, then it’ll work for you too!
6. Think of something unsexy. Yeah, it may seem like a joke but this tip actually works wonders! Think about something that turns you off like nothin’ else; your mom or your boss or that ugly girl with yellow teeth that works in the next cubicle. If all else fails; try to picture having sex with a big, hairy guy. If you’re straight then that should definitely do the trick!
Pssst…
If you’ve tried all of these and you find that no matter what, you’re still coming too fast—by fast I mean in 2 minutes or under—then you may have to consider the fact that you could be a premature ejaculator.
These tips, over time, are known to help a guy get his timing under control, but to really get to the source of the problem, you may want to consider talking to your doctor for some extra help to rule out any other underlying issues and to get advice on the different medical treatments available.
And just a note on premature ejaculation: up to 40% of men are premature ejaculators. Premature ejaculation is actually THE most common sexual problem that men face. It is definitely manageable so don’t let it get you down. Sorry, bad choice of words. Anyway, I just thought you should know.
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The Worst Enemy in Bed: Performance Anxiety
Performance anxiety is commonly misinterpreted as “stage fright”, but there is a reason for it. It has been stated, that “the whole world is a stage” and we are willing or unwilling participants in it. Performing artists like musicians, singers, actors and speakers have faced this enemy during their careers and braved them one way or another.
But this enemy is very common in human relationships too and particularly ferocious when it comes to sex. Men face this enemy every time they are about to have sex and there is one reason which makes this anxiety almost unbearable: will I last long enough to satisfy my partner?
How to Make Sure You Don’t Orgasm Before She Does
1. Prolong the foreplay.
Instead of plowing away once the sex really gets going, take your time to caress your partner and explore her body with your other extremities. While the male organ seems to be the only arousal point on a man’s body, women have these sensitive areas all over the place.
Her reaction to your probing will give you a fairly good idea where they are. While she approaches ecstasy with your every successful exploration, you not only learn your partner’s secret areas, but also preserve your own stamina for the final battle.
2. Encourage her to speak up and tell you what turns her on.
Conversation is a very important part of the whole sexual experience. This time though, you want to encourage her to tell you what REALLY turns her on. Clever sexual innuendos during pre-sex time and gentle inquiries during sex not only give you vital information, but stimulate your partner’s fantasy, which makes her hornier, which makes her reach her orgasm faster! Just before you reach your own…
3. Oral sex
Spicing things up by pleasuring or “heating up” your partner with oral stimulation gives you time to breath. While orally satisfying a woman is requiring a keen ear to your partner’s needs and leads, it may be the last resort for your premature curtain call. It is not a solution to “take a break” during sex. While it may help you, you probably will have to start with your partner from square one. Switching to oral sex gives you the needed break without interrupting your partner’s pleasure cruise.
4. Know your own body.
Japanese Geisha’s are known to be able to bring a man to ecstasy without having him prematurely end the fun. If they can do that, you can too IF you know your own body.
Knowing your body’s primary arousal points can help you last longer if you avoid… for now. Another trick is to squeeze the base of your shaft right before the Big Ben strikes ten on the top and the bottom side. If you do it right, it stops you cold.
A good physical condition is also helpful in enduring the physical task of keeping it up longer; do not underestimate your muscles’ participation in your endurance quest. Ask your partner to assist you in this self-discovery and sex will never get boring.
5. An honest and open relationship.
Tell your partner about your anxiety and let her know that you want to last longer to give her more pleasure. While this is most of the time not possible when you are in bed for the first time with a new partner, once you are an item and sex gets to be a somewhat regular pastime, honesty is the way to go.
6. If it all fails, do it again!
Leonardo Da Vinci’s first painting was not the Mona Lisa and even when he was painting the masterpiece he did not get it right the first time. Multiple layers have been discovered by x-ray technology procedures, documenting that even the Master himself needed several tries to get it right.
By exploring your own limits and practicing as often as you both feel like will lead to more confidence, more pleasure, more mutual acceptance and trust, and ultimately more endurance and better sex for both of you.
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The Art of VOLUNTARY Cumming
I know you don’t need convincing that lasting longer in bed is a great idea. But please be aware that you can’t experience the kind of ecstatic wave you´ve always wanted if you rush headlong towards orgasm or try to hold yourself back.
You have to learn to RELAX into intense pleasure in order to go higher and higher.
Guys argue all the time about their confused idea that Tantra means not cumming. It doesn’t have to be that way or any way.
When you learn to go higher and higher, the simultaneous orgasm with your partner will be incredible. More importantly, when the ecstasy of the ride is greater than the brief spurt at the end, you may never want to cum again.
But won’t it be nice when it’s YOUR choice and you can decide to squirt or not as the mood strikes you?
The Disadvantages of When Your Penis is the Boss
Maybe it’s not needed anymore. Maybe the mere idea of lasting longer in bed and experiencing the pleasures of sex for HOURS and not mere minutes is enough to convince you that ‘cumming on command’ is better than cumming involuntarily.
But in the slight chance that you’re still not convinced, here’s what you LOSE cumming too quickly…
- Many women are multi-orgasmic because their energy isn’t depleted by orgasm. You don’t want to cum and be ‘finished’ and leave her yearning for more do you?
- Many men’s erections don’t spring back to life after cumming. For older men, it sometimes takes a couple days to recover their ability to stay hard for long. Sex therapists call this the “refractory period”. So having an orgasm without ejaculating lets you repeat lovemaking as quickly and often as you want.
- Many men release lots of energy when they cum which makes them distant, sleepy, and exhausted. Don’t cum and you stay energetic throughout the night!
- Many men lose the desire to continue making love when they blow their wad, suddenly losing that closeness and intimacy women crave. Some describe it as if a power switch was turned off.
- Many men shut down not just physically, but emotionally and mentally as well, cutting off the communion at multiple levels that this e-course can help you achieve.
The Benefits of ‘Cumming-on-Command’
And just to leave you with the positive aspects, by not cumming you can…
- Experience HOURS of orgasmic pleasure instead of just a few seconds of intense release.
- Undergo continuous ecstasy at its peak throughout your whole body.
- Stay connected with your partner longer, deeper, and at various levels.
- Keep your entire body energized. (The Taoists believe that retaining your semen is highly nourishing and the key to longevity!)
- Fully satisfy your partner’s often unfulfilled sexual desires.
- Satisfy multiple partners one after the other without a break.
- Promote health, vigor, and mental clarity by retaining your energy.
- Achieve bigger, stronger, longer-lasting orgasms when you finally choose to cum.
Wow! Just going over the list turns me on!
Remember, on February 6th, 2008 at 6:00 pm CST I will launch my advanced course “Last All Night” to teach you how to last longer and literally cum “on command”.
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