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5 Reasons Why Self-Love Is Good For You
Almost everyone does it; almost no one admits it. We are talking of self-love or masturbation, also famously called various slang terms such as wanking or jerking off. But whatever name you call it with, it boils down to the same thing. It is the stimulation of your genitals with your own hand (or sometimes, hands), most times to the point of orgasm.
The truth is that both men and women engage in this self-pleasing activity. However, very few people will mention it openly. Men may speak about it among themselves, but often in a taunting or teasing manner rather than seriously. Women will never even breathe about it (in general, any way).
So, what’s the problem here? The main problem is the social taboo surrounding masturbation that we have grown up with. This is probably the taboo that has the largest number of practitioners in the world! But the fact is – masturbation can actually be very good for you and your relationship!
Here Are At Least Five Ways Why Masturbation Is Good For You
1. The best thing about masturbation is that it is a readily available method of sexual gratification. If you feel ‘in the mood’, just go into a room alone and love yourself! You do not need to pursue anyone here. You don’t have to wait for her to get in the mood or… yikes! to be beg for some loving from your partner.
2. One more very significant thing is that there are no performance issues connected with self-love. When you are masturbating, the only person involved is you. Because of that, you do it much better since there is no excess baggage involved. You do not feel guilty about it later either!
3. The next great advantage is that there are no health risk involved whatsoever. Yes, there are some old wives’ tales about masturbation leading to blindness or may make you grow hair on your palm or drains off all your energies, but there is no nonsense more nonsensical than that stuff! You can masturbate as much as you please and not get a single health problem ever. In fact, studies show that masturbation is actually good for you! As you climax and ejaculate, you are in way ‘cleaning your tubes’. As such, many now believe that masturbation can help fight against prostate cancer.
4. Self-love is a great stress reliever. If you are stressed, you are highly recommended to try out some self-love. You will find a recharge of your mental energies after your masturbatory orgasm. Similarly, if you are an insomniac, masturbation could be a wonderful way to put you to sleep. Try this when you are tossing and turning in your bed. You will see that once you have an orgasm, you will be lulled to sleep almost instantly.
5. Self-pleasuring helps make you last longer in bed! Here’s a simple fact: if you make love excitedly, chances are you’ll ejaculate soon. Now consider the fact that women take much longer than men to really get excited to the point of climax and you have a situation where you’re ready to explode and she’s not. However, by masturbating before the ‘main event’, then you prolong your own climax, leading to more satisfying lovemaking event for you and your partner.
Now these are the benefits of masturbation that you definitely needed to know. However, you must also know that there are several misconceptions about masturbation. Let us debunk some of these myths here.
1. Masturbation does not drain your physical energy. The ejaculate contains seminal fluid. The seminal fluid is not what produces energy in your body. That’s your diet. So if the fluid is ejaculated, there is certainly no energy loss. In any case, the seminal fluid that you discharge is completely rebuilt within three days in the testes.
2. Masturbation does not make you a social outcast. Since most people are doing it still or have done it, they will understand anyone who is found out to be masturbating.
3. Masturbation does not come in the way of an intimate relationship. In fact, it helps it. Couples can try masturbating each other, which is a good way of keeping your sex lives exciting.
The first thing you need to remember is that self-love is not as taboo as you think it is. Several people that you know will be probably engaged in this activity. There are even Masturbate-a-thons being organized in various parts of the world so that people can overcome their inhibitions and enjoy the best form of relaxation in the world so… just do it!
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Sensual Stroking – Why Don’t You Give Her a ‘Hand’ Tonight?
We all know that a good hand job can do the trick for guys, so why not try it on your girl and see what it can do for her? For the most part, men need only a few good strokes to get them to the end result, but women need a little more than that. Check out how to give her the sensual stroking of her life.
Some Do’s and Don’ts Before You Get Started
Do remember that this is not a race! Be prepared to spend some time down there if you really want to make her climax like never before.
Don’t go straight for her clitoris! Yeah, that may be where most of her pleasure-hungry nerves are, but if you get there too quick, your touch will feel more annoying than hot!
Do listen and make sure that your in touch (pun intended) with what’s working or not for her.
Don’t stop until you’re finished—or she’s finished rather.
The Hand Moves that Will Max Her Pleasure
• Start by having her lie on her back naked and begin with things like kissing and caressing her lips, face, neck, breasts, etc., and then SLOWLY make your way south. Once you’re down below the waist, take the time to rub and caress her all around her sweet spot until it seems that she can’t take the teasing anymore.
• When you’re ready to move to her womanhood, use your entire hand. With your palm down, rub the area lightly at first and then add a little more pressure.
• She should be getting wet by now, but if not, take some lube or massage oil and pour a little on just above her pubic bone and massage it down and around her vagina.
• Now you can move onto using your fingers. With your index finger; run it gently up and down along her slit and then around the sides of her ‘lips’. The point of this is to tease her and make her crave your finger inside of her. The teasing and anticipation will send her through the roof.
• Next, let your finger graze her clitoris for a second and tease the rest of her womanhood with it. Each time you pass her clitoris, let your finger linger a little longer until you can see that it’s swollen with excitement and rock hard. (Yes, women get ‘boners’ too!)
• Now that she’s really turned on; run your finger in a couple of tiny circles over her clitoris and then slide it down her slit and slowly push it inside of her and push it in and out slowly a few times before puling it back out.
• Now it’s time to focus even more attention on her clitoris. Use your index and middle fingers and put them on each side of her nub so you’re holding it between your fingers. Now start to move it up and down. This move is basically like jerking her off, only instead of your manhood, you’re jerking off a hard little nub! Keep at it until you can see that she’s getting close to climaxing.
• When she’s writhing around all over the bed and almost there; slide two fingers inside of her and use your thumb to start rubbing her nub as your fingers pump in and out of her. Imagine that you’re trying to get the pad of your thumb to meet and work in unison with the pads of the two fingers that are inside of her, the same way that you would to snap your fingers.
• Continue this move and add more pressure and speed as you go along. She’ll make it clear when you’ve found the ideal tempo and if not, then just ask her if it feels good. When you know you’ve got the right amount of speed and pressure then keep at it and don’t stop until she orgasms!
Extra Tips
• Pay attention to her body and her voice so you know when what you’re doing feels right. It can be a little hard to know if she’s loving it if she’s one of those shy girls who isn’t too comfortable making noise in bed, in which case you need to ask. A simple “You like that baby?” or “how does that feel?” should suffice.
• Keep the lube handy since some brands tend to dry up quickly and become a little sticky. You want stuff to be slick and smooth but not so lubed that she can’t feel your fingers!
• Try to use your other free hand on the rest of her body while you’re working your magic down below.
• Be patient!! Sensual stroking is about getting her off and that can take some time, so don’t start something that you’re not willing to finish!
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