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Oral Sex – Smell and Taste the Difference
Do you know that Sex and the City scene where Samantha no longer wanted to perform fellatio on her lover because he didn’t taste so nice? Well, that REALLY opened up a lot sex discussions because truly, what do you do if you don’t like the way your lover smells and tastes down there?
Well, good communication is extremely important here as you can easily hurt each other’s feelings. However, keep in mind that it’s always better to address an issue like this. As you probably know, most women love oral sex so if you avoid this, it’s not beneficial to your sexual relationship at all.
How to Make Oral Sex Pleasurable for Both of You
If ‘smell’ is the issue it can all be just a matter of timing. For instance, if your girlfriend / wife normally takes her bath in the morning, then by the time you make love at night, things can be not so fresh.
You can remedy this by making love in the mornings every now and then. Not a morning person? Do this instead: engage in some very passionate kissing and then lead your lover to the bathroom for a quick shower. This will ensure that things are clean and fresh down there!
If ‘taste’ is the issue, this requires a bit more finesse in addressing. I guess it comes as no surprise that FOOD plays an important role in how one’s bodily fluids taste. As such, whatever the taste down there, this can be positively influenced by simply making a few food intake changes.
1. Do you or your lover drink tons of coffee? Some speculate that drinking too much coffee gives bodily fluids a bitter taste. If this is the case with you and/or your lover, cut down on caffeine!
2. Love garlic in your food? Well, I’m sure you know that eating garlic-laden food is never a good idea for a first date to avoid garlic breath so imagine what constantly eating garlic can do to the taste of your ‘body juices’. Apart from garlic, you may also want to cut down on onions, cauliflower and pretty much any type of food that have high sulphur content.
3. Smoking can also contribute to bad taste down there. Personally, I hate the smell of smoke on a man and find that he tends to smell ‘smoky’ – not in a good way – down there too when he smokes. So if you have this issue with your lover, perhaps you can influence her to cut down on smoking too.
If you’re after a SWEET taste then load up your lover with fruits! Pineapples, melons and mangoes are said to be great at affecting at how women taste down there. Cinnamon is said to be great too.
Lastly, DRINK A LOT OF WATER. Water helps flush out toxins in the body and this of course helps to ‘clear’ the smell and taste of bodily fluids too.
SIX Tips to Extended Oral Fun
Oral sex is perhaps one of the most deliriously delicious things for women during lovemaking. Tonight, you want to pleasure your lover to the hilt and have vowed to give her an orgasm with your tongue. There’s only one problem: how do you ensure you don’t get tired (locked jaw, anyone?) before she climaxes?
6 Hot Ways to Oral Power!
Foreplay is your best friend.
I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again, women need to be mentally sexed up first. Foreplay works on so many levels for women: it gets the ‘juices’ flowing even if they are not keen to have sex to begin with, and it greatly helps them reach an orgasm!
So engage in heavy foreplay before you go down on her. This way you shorten the time it takes for her to reach her climax.
Hey, what’s the rush?
A lot of men think that that the faster and harder they lick, the better. Wrong. If you do this all the time, we women feel what is called ‘clit burn’. Yes, that sensitive spot of ours feels like it’s slowly on fire and it can be really uncomfortable and even downright painful for some.
So take it SLOW at different times. Vary the speed, motion and position of your tongue and your partner will be mush under you!
Blow.
Lift your head and slowly blow hot breath on her down there. It’s a great break for your tongue and introduces a whole new sensation for her.
Liquid chocolate.
Ah, the many wonders of liquid chocolate. Take a step back and squirt liquid chocolate on her down there. Squeeze the thick syrup right at the top and let it slowly and agonizingly drip down the length of her. It will driver her nuts!
You have fingers, use them.
It doesn’t always have to be your tongue doing the work; use your fingers too. Use your index finger to graze up and down her inner and outer labia (vaginal folds) and then rub lazy circles around her C-spot. As her clitoris is visibly engorged, you can even use your fingers to GENTLY squeeze or tug at it. You can also use your thumb to gently flick her clitoris back and forth.
Let modern technology help you.
Go ahead bring out her vibrator and use it on her C-spot while you take a much needed break. It doesn’t need to be set on the highest vibrating power at all. Remember, it’s just to keep things going. So put it on ‘gentle mode’ so that she just gets a slight buzz… and then let your tongue do the real thing!
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REAL LIFE ISSUE: What to Do if Your Member is Too Small
Do you think that your member is too small? If so, that can be a challenge because nearly everything in our culture tells you that your manhood is directly proportional to the size of your penis.
Thankfully, if you ask most women, they are more interested in what you are going to do with it than how large it is. Even if you are well under the six-inch average, you can still have a perfectly satisfying sex life, and there are plenty of choices on what to do if your member is too small.
Remember the Foreplay
Like anything, do the best with what you have got. Here is the thing. There is a whole lot that you can do to establish yourself as a fantastic lover before you get anywhere near needing to use your penis in your love making. If you remember that having sex starts with foreplay, you are golden. Women will love the fact that you drive them right to the edge of ecstasy before you even enter them, and they will brand you a generous lover.
Build Sexual Expertise in Other Areas…
You might want to take it upon yourself to build skills in areas where you are not below average. For example, there is nothing keeping you from being the most amazing lover when it comes to oral sex.
Oral sex begins with the mouth, continues to the ear, travels to the neck, descends to the breasts and lingers there a while. You can explore all of the erogenous zones of a woman’s body on your way to your orgasm destination, the clitoris.
By taking your time to get to her hot button, you allow anticipation to build, which further excites. You can even bring your partner to orgasm before you even enter her, and then she can take a turn in the oral department. At this point your woman is probably pretty thrilled that you are not too huge, and you should be too. You will fit into her mouth more easily for a swirl than if you were over endowed. Glance skyward and be grateful for the small blessings (pun intended) in life.
Just about when you cannot stand it any more give yourself a break and switch positions. Now you can bring up her excitement level and you may even be able to work in another orgasm for good measure. However, you do not want to go overboard here. While some women can go crazy with orgasms, others are exhausted after several. So know your woman before you get too carried away here.
Then when you are ready to slip inside her you have an additional arsenal at your disposal. Different sexual positions place you deeper in your partner than other positions, while other positions allow for amazing clitoris stimulation. Either way, your partner will have no complaints.
Be ready to experiment with different positions to see which ones work the best for both of you. Whether it is doggie style, standing, sitting, with her on top or plain old missionary style, you will find the positions that are the most effective for you and your partner if you take the time to try them.
So, while our world may talk the talk about the importance of being well endowed, if you develop your skills as a caring and sensitive lover, you may be surprised to find out, that you are actually a very well endowed lover yourself.
