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Get Her To Give You Oral Sex
“Anybody who believes that the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach flunked geography.” – Robert Byrne
It’s one of the biggest complaints I hear from guys who are in long-term relationships: “I miss blow jobs.” Giving a guy a BJ is something we do to sexually impress a man, but there are a lot of girls who don’t really like doing this oral deed – they’re uncomfortable having something in their mouth, they’re scared of being “surprised” by an unexpected (and unannounced) mouthful of you-know-what, they’re self-conscious of their skills, or it’s just been too long since they did it and they’ve lost interest. There are plenty of reasons as to why your partner may dismiss oral sex altogether. But there are ways to reignite that oral fixation…
If you want to get her to give you oral sex, heed my advice below.
Ease her into it
If your wife hasn’t suckled on your manhood in some time, don’t think you can get her interested in BJs again but stuffing your over-sized member into her mouth… you need to take baby steps. Begin by asking her to kiss or gently blow on your penis. Then maybe she’ll be comfortable enough to move onto a little suckling of the tip. Let her work her way up gradually to full-on mouth-on-peen contact.
Keep it clean
Nothing is more of a turn-off than an overgrown, stinky mess, so keep everything neat, tidy, and clean. Be sure to trim back the pubes as well as wash with water and soap thoroughly before asking her to go down on you. You’d appreciate the same etiquette, wouldn’t you?
I hooked up with a guy once who had obviously not manscaped in years… let’s just say he missed out on some of the most incredible blow-job skills he’d ever been lucky enough to come close to!
Return the favor
You can’t expect your spouse to give you oral sex if you’re not willing to return the favor. Engage her in a little mouth-on-nether-region action, make her toes curl, and make her want to pleasure you right back. Nothing is sexier than seesawing back and forth orally or, better yet, exploring some 69 excitement. Hey, you scratch my back and I’ll scratch yours (literally)…
No surprises please
As I already mentioned, we ladies hate when you cum in our mouths without any forewarning. Don’t pretend you didn’t see it coming – that’s the oldest (and lamest) excuse in the book. If you want oral sex to be an ongoing component of your sex life, then you have to be courteous – please tell us when you’re about to blow so we can decide whether or not we want to take the impact or not.
Add some flavor
Sometimes women are squeamish about giving blow jobs because they just can’t get past the fact that they’re sucking on a penis. So, disguise it with some flavored oils or creams – cover your member with some sweet cherry lube or warm chocolate to make it all the more appetizing for your other half.
Always yours,
Gabrielle Moore
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Oral Sex – Smell and Taste the Difference
Do you know that Sex and the City scene where Samantha no longer wanted to perform fellatio on her lover because he didn’t taste so nice? Well, that REALLY opened up a lot sex discussions because truly, what do you do if you don’t like the way your lover smells and tastes down there?
Well, good communication is extremely important here as you can easily hurt each other’s feelings. However, keep in mind that it’s always better to address an issue like this. As you probably know, most women love oral sex so if you avoid this, it’s not beneficial to your sexual relationship at all.
How to Make Oral Sex Pleasurable for Both of You
If ‘smell’ is the issue it can all be just a matter of timing. For instance, if your girlfriend / wife normally takes her bath in the morning, then by the time you make love at night, things can be not so fresh.
You can remedy this by making love in the mornings every now and then. Not a morning person? Do this instead: engage in some very passionate kissing and then lead your lover to the bathroom for a quick shower. This will ensure that things are clean and fresh down there!
If ‘taste’ is the issue, this requires a bit more finesse in addressing. I guess it comes as no surprise that FOOD plays an important role in how one’s bodily fluids taste. As such, whatever the taste down there, this can be positively influenced by simply making a few food intake changes.
1. Do you or your lover drink tons of coffee? Some speculate that drinking too much coffee gives bodily fluids a bitter taste. If this is the case with you and/or your lover, cut down on caffeine!
2. Love garlic in your food? Well, I’m sure you know that eating garlic-laden food is never a good idea for a first date to avoid garlic breath so imagine what constantly eating garlic can do to the taste of your ‘body juices’. Apart from garlic, you may also want to cut down on onions, cauliflower and pretty much any type of food that have high sulphur content.
3. Smoking can also contribute to bad taste down there. Personally, I hate the smell of smoke on a man and find that he tends to smell ‘smoky’ – not in a good way – down there too when he smokes. So if you have this issue with your lover, perhaps you can influence her to cut down on smoking too.
If you’re after a SWEET taste then load up your lover with fruits! Pineapples, melons and mangoes are said to be great at affecting at how women taste down there. Cinnamon is said to be great too.
Lastly, DRINK A LOT OF WATER. Water helps flush out toxins in the body and this of course helps to ‘clear’ the smell and taste of bodily fluids too.
SIX Tips to Extended Oral Fun
Oral sex is perhaps one of the most deliriously delicious things for women during lovemaking. Tonight, you want to pleasure your lover to the hilt and have vowed to give her an orgasm with your tongue. There’s only one problem: how do you ensure you don’t get tired (locked jaw, anyone?) before she climaxes?
6 Hot Ways to Oral Power!
Foreplay is your best friend.
I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again, women need to be mentally sexed up first. Foreplay works on so many levels for women: it gets the ‘juices’ flowing even if they are not keen to have sex to begin with, and it greatly helps them reach an orgasm!
So engage in heavy foreplay before you go down on her. This way you shorten the time it takes for her to reach her climax.
Hey, what’s the rush?
A lot of men think that that the faster and harder they lick, the better. Wrong. If you do this all the time, we women feel what is called ‘clit burn’. Yes, that sensitive spot of ours feels like it’s slowly on fire and it can be really uncomfortable and even downright painful for some.
So take it SLOW at different times. Vary the speed, motion and position of your tongue and your partner will be mush under you!
Blow.
Lift your head and slowly blow hot breath on her down there. It’s a great break for your tongue and introduces a whole new sensation for her.
Liquid chocolate.
Ah, the many wonders of liquid chocolate. Take a step back and squirt liquid chocolate on her down there. Squeeze the thick syrup right at the top and let it slowly and agonizingly drip down the length of her. It will driver her nuts!
You have fingers, use them.
It doesn’t always have to be your tongue doing the work; use your fingers too. Use your index finger to graze up and down her inner and outer labia (vaginal folds) and then rub lazy circles around her C-spot. As her clitoris is visibly engorged, you can even use your fingers to GENTLY squeeze or tug at it. You can also use your thumb to gently flick her clitoris back and forth.
Let modern technology help you.
Go ahead bring out her vibrator and use it on her C-spot while you take a much needed break. It doesn’t need to be set on the highest vibrating power at all. Remember, it’s just to keep things going. So put it on ‘gentle mode’ so that she just gets a slight buzz… and then let your tongue do the real thing!
For more oral tips for the most MIND-NUMBING sex ever, click here!
