It’s one of the biggest complaints I hear from guys who are in long-term relationships: “I miss blow jobs.” Giving a guy a BJ is something we do to sexually impress a man, but there are a lot of girls who don’t really like doing this oral deed – they’re uncomfortable having something in their mouth, they’re scared of being “surprised” by an unexpected (and unannounced) mouthful of you-know-what, they’re self-conscious of their skills, or it’s just been too long since they did it and they’ve lost interest. There are plenty of reasons as to why your partner may dismiss oral sex altogether. But there are ways to reignite that oral fixation…

If you want to get her to give you oral sex, heed my advice below.

Ease her into it
If your wife hasn’t suckled on your manhood in some time, don’t think you can get her interested in BJs again but stuffing your over-sized member into her mouth… you need to take baby steps. Begin by asking her to kiss or gently blow on your penis. Then maybe she’ll be comfortable enough to move onto a little suckling of the tip. Let her work her way up gradually to full-on mouth-on-peen contact.

Keep it clean
Nothing is more of a turn-off than an overgrown, stinky mess, so keep everything neat, tidy, and clean. Be sure to trim back the pubes as well as wash with water and soap thoroughly before asking her to go down on you. You’d appreciate the same etiquette, wouldn’t you?

I hooked up with a guy once who had obviously not manscaped in years… let’s just say he missed out on some of the most incredible blow-job skills he’d ever been lucky enough to come close to!

Return the favor
You can’t expect your spouse to give you oral sex if you’re not willing to return the favor. Engage her in a little mouth-on-nether-region action, make her toes curl, and make her want to pleasure you right back. Nothing is sexier than seesawing back and forth orally or, better yet, exploring some 69 excitement. Hey, you scratch my back and I’ll scratch yours (literally)…

No surprises please
As I already mentioned, we ladies hate when you cum in our mouths without any forewarning. Don’t pretend you didn’t see it coming – that’s the oldest (and lamest) excuse in the book. If you want oral sex to be an ongoing component of your sex life, then you have to be courteous – please tell us when you’re about to blow so we can decide whether or not we want to take the impact or not.

Add some flavor
Sometimes women are squeamish about giving blow jobs because they just can’t get past the fact that they’re sucking on a penis. So, disguise it with some flavored oils or creams – cover your member with some sweet cherry lube or warm chocolate to make it all the more appetizing for your other half.

Always yours,

Gabrielle Moore

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Well, good communication is extremely important here as you can easily hurt each other’s feelings. However, keep in mind that it’s always better to address an issue like this. As you probably know, most women love oral sex so if you avoid this, it’s not beneficial to your sexual relationship at all.

How to Make Oral Sex Pleasurable for Both of You

If ‘smell’ is the issue it can all be just a matter of timing. For instance, if your girlfriend / wife normally takes her bath in the morning, then by the time you make love at night, things can be not so fresh.

You can remedy this by making love in the mornings every now and then. Not a morning person? Do this instead: engage in some very passionate kissing and then lead your lover to the bathroom for a quick shower. This will ensure that things are clean and fresh down there!

If ‘taste’ is the issue, this requires a bit more finesse in addressing. I guess it comes as no surprise that FOOD plays an important role in how one’s bodily fluids taste. As such, whatever the taste down there, this can be positively influenced by simply making a few food intake changes.

1. Do you or your lover drink tons of coffee? Some speculate that drinking too much coffee gives bodily fluids a bitter taste. If this is the case with you and/or your lover, cut down on caffeine!
2. Love garlic in your food? Well, I’m sure you know that eating garlic-laden food is never a good idea for a first date to avoid garlic breath so imagine what constantly eating garlic can do to the taste of your ‘body juices’. Apart from garlic, you may also want to cut down on onions, cauliflower and pretty much any type of food that have high sulphur content.
3. Smoking can also contribute to bad taste down there. Personally, I hate the smell of smoke on a man and find that he tends to smell ‘smoky’ – not in a good way – down there too when he smokes. So if you have this issue with your lover, perhaps you can influence her to cut down on smoking too.

If you’re after a SWEET taste then load up your lover with fruits! Pineapples, melons and mangoes are said to be great at affecting at how women taste down there. Cinnamon is said to be great too.

Lastly, DRINK A LOT OF WATER. Water helps flush out toxins in the body and this of course helps to ‘clear’ the smell and taste of bodily fluids too.

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6 Hot Ways to Oral Power!

Foreplay is your best friend.
I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again, women need to be mentally sexed up first. Foreplay works on so many levels for women: it gets the ‘juices’ flowing even if they are not keen to have sex to begin with, and it greatly helps them reach an orgasm!

So engage in heavy foreplay before you go down on her. This way you shorten the time it takes for her to reach her climax.

Hey, what’s the rush?
A lot of men think that that the faster and harder they lick, the better. Wrong. If you do this all the time, we women feel what is called ‘clit burn’. Yes, that sensitive spot of ours feels like it’s slowly on fire and it can be really uncomfortable and even downright painful for some.

So take it SLOW at different times. Vary the speed, motion and position of your tongue and your partner will be mush under you!

Blow.
Lift your head and slowly blow hot breath on her down there. It’s a great break for your tongue and introduces a whole new sensation for her.

Liquid chocolate.
Ah, the many wonders of liquid chocolate. Take a step back and squirt liquid chocolate on her down there. Squeeze the thick syrup right at the top and let it slowly and agonizingly drip down the length of her. It will driver her nuts!

You have fingers, use them.
It doesn’t always have to be your tongue doing the work; use your fingers too. Use your index finger to graze up and down her inner and outer labia (vaginal folds) and then rub lazy circles around her C-spot. As her clitoris is visibly engorged, you can even use your fingers to GENTLY squeeze or tug at it. You can also use your thumb to gently flick her clitoris back and forth.

Let modern technology help you.
Go ahead bring out her vibrator and use it on her C-spot while you take a much needed break. It doesn’t need to be set on the highest vibrating power at all. Remember, it’s just to keep things going. So put it on ‘gentle mode’ so that she just gets a slight buzz… and then let your tongue do the real thing!

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Thankfully, if you ask most women, they are more interested in what you are going to do with it than how large it is. Even if you are well under the six-inch average, you can still have a perfectly satisfying sex life, and there are plenty of choices on what to do if your member is too small.

Remember the Foreplay

Like anything, do the best with what you have got. Here is the thing. There is a whole lot that you can do to establish yourself as a fantastic lover before you get anywhere near needing to use your penis in your love making. If you remember that having sex starts with foreplay, you are golden. Women will love the fact that you drive them right to the edge of ecstasy before you even enter them, and they will brand you a generous lover.

Build Sexual Expertise in Other Areas…

You might want to take it upon yourself to build skills in areas where you are not below average. For example, there is nothing keeping you from being the most amazing lover when it comes to oral sex.

Oral sex begins with the mouth, continues to the ear, travels to the neck, descends to the breasts and lingers there a while. You can explore all of the erogenous zones of a woman’s body on your way to your orgasm destination, the clitoris.

By taking your time to get to her hot button, you allow anticipation to build, which further excites. You can even bring your partner to orgasm before you even enter her, and then she can take a turn in the oral department. At this point your woman is probably pretty thrilled that you are not too huge, and you should be too. You will fit into her mouth more easily for a swirl than if you were over endowed. Glance skyward and be grateful for the small blessings (pun intended) in life.

Just about when you cannot stand it any more give yourself a break and switch positions. Now you can bring up her excitement level and you may even be able to work in another orgasm for good measure. However, you do not want to go overboard here. While some women can go crazy with orgasms, others are exhausted after several. So know your woman before you get too carried away here.

Then when you are ready to slip inside her you have an additional arsenal at your disposal. Different sexual positions place you deeper in your partner than other positions, while other positions allow for amazing clitoris stimulation. Either way, your partner will have no complaints.

Be ready to experiment with different positions to see which ones work the best for both of you. Whether it is doggie style, standing, sitting, with her on top or plain old missionary style, you will find the positions that are the most effective for you and your partner if you take the time to try them.

So, while our world may talk the talk about the importance of being well endowed, if you develop your skills as a caring and sensitive lover, you may be surprised to find out, that you are actually a very well endowed lover yourself.

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There are many ways of communicating, and one of our most powerful ways to communicate is through sex. So you may have to discover by trial and error the things she secretly wants in bed but wouldn’t dare ask you. Yes it’s a tough job, but somebody’s got to do it!

When It Comes to Sex She Wants… She Will Tell You One Way or Another

Here are some tools that will come in handy when you are doing your ‘job’.

She Needs a Skilled Tongue.
Of course you went down there, but this skill is actually something much simpler: compliment her. Tell her that she is beautiful or sexy and make it personal. Zero in on traits that are uniquely hers like, “You have the biggest, most beautiful eyes (or whatever else you want to insert here)”. And a little compliment on her performance would not hurt either like, “It feels so good when you . . .” or “I love the way you . . .” By referring to her you make this sexual act extremely intimate.

She Wants You to ‘Listen and Lead’.
Most women want you to take the lead in lovemaking. While she wants you to satisfy her, it is equally important for her to know that you enjoyed the experience also. So notice what she likes. She may like being dominated or she may like to move around a lot, but as she gives you signals, be aware that she is taking your lead and responding to it. So you can amp up the action or tone it down and measure her response to each to understand what she prefers in bed. While she may never be able to verbalize what really turns her on in bed, if you are paying attention, she will tell you loud and clear.

She Wants You to Love Her COMPLETELY.
Make love to ALL of her. Take the time to set a romantic tone for the evening. Set a sexy mood and romance your woman by having something for all of the senses: gentle lighting, scented candles, soft music and lush bedding. By giving a woman time to shift gears and settle into a romantic state, you are assured that she will enjoy this experience as much as you do. As she becomes aroused, of course you can join in. Explore her entire body from the nape of her neck right down to her toes. Use your tongue to explore all of the sensitive parts of her body and work your way to her pleasure points.

She Wants to Reach a Mind-Blowing Orgasm!
Shockingly, many women do not reach a climax during sexual intercourse… but that doesn’t mean that they don’t want to! So tonight, bring on you’re sexual A-game and give each of her erogenous zones the time of its life!

Yes, She Wants You to Connect.
You always hear about women wanting to snuggle and talk immediately after sex. Consider that this is their way of finding a connection with you after sharing such an intensely private experience. If you like to talk and snuggle then you are all set, but if you prefer silence or a quick catnap after having sex, then this can work for both of you as well. Remember that it is all in the delivery. So rather than rolling over and settling into a snoring session, simply scoop her up in your arms, whisper to her how amazing she is, and settle in to catch forty winks. She will melt into your arms feeling safe and loved and… probably be asleep before you are.

So if you simply remember to pay attention to all the unspoken cues that your woman is offering you throughout your lovemaking session, you will always be able to tell what things she secretly wants in bed, and you can be her hero by always delivering them to her.

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10 Reasons Why We Love Men…

1. You fix what’s broken at home.
We do love handymen! Sure, we’re all supportive of women power and all that stuff but deep inside nothing says “I’ll take care of you” more than a man who knows how to fix the roof… or plumbing… or the broken fence… etc.

2. You cook every now and then OR get take out on your own once in a while.
In most homes, women are the ones who cook and ensure that the family is fed. However, cooking 365 days a year can be taxing! So once in a while, surprise us and cook something. Really, it doesn’t have to be a 5-course meal. It can even just be take out. Just something that tells us that today is our ‘day off’ from the kitchen.

3. You put your socks and underwear in the right places.
Little things irritate us and little things make us happy. And putting your dirty laundry in the right place is one of those things that make us happy! We know it’s small thing to do but whenever you don’t do it here’s the message we get… ‘he’s not listening!’ or ‘he’s soooo insentsitive!’.

4. You realize when there’s no more toilet paper… and do something about it!
Screw leaving the toilet seat up! Women can also be called upon always leaving the seat down, right? But when you see the toilet paper gone and never re-fill it? Dude, that’s just insensitive.

5. You lift her bag of groceries for her.
No, we don’t want chivalry to be dead.

6. You bring home flowers.
When men bring home flowers, it just literally brightens our day! It shows that you’re thinking of us and want to make us happy.

7. You make us laugh!
We just love men with a good sense of humor! The ability to laugh at things is just what we need to lift us up from our drama episodes. And sometimes, when we’re extremely mad, just the right joke or funny face is all we need to banish all those frustrations aside.

8. Foot massages! Bliss…
Sitting on the coach together, watching TV. You reach out and draw our legs up and on your lap. You remove our shoes/slippers/socks/stockings and you give a nice foot massage. Ah, we’re yours forever!

9. You take foreplay seriously!
It’s really ironic that during the times we need attention most, that’s when you stop and move to the next stage. STAY exactly where you are for a while! We like enjoying the journey just as much as the destination. And, truth be told, we actually reach our destination better when the journey is good!

10. You give great oral action.
Few men know how to conquer us with their tongues. But once we find the guy who can make us moan, groan and thrash about simply by using that small muscle inside his mouth, we’re soooo sold!

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How to Make Her LOVE Giving You Oral Sex

Be Clean
For the most part, if a woman does not like giving oral sex then it’s a hygiene issue. Hold on! Before you start protesting, consider this. Sure, you bathe every morning but by the time you come home to your lover, surely you have visited the men’s room a couple of times at least and maybe even perspired a bit. Even those ‘little’ things can be conducive to your aroma down there. Keep in mind that your manhood has been ‘locked up’ all day and the exact minute you pull down your drawers may not be the best time for her to go down on you. So what to do?

Take a shower! It’s the easiest and cheapest way to ensure you smell clean and fresh down there. If you’re right smack in the middle of foreplay then simply suggest taking a sensual bath together!

You Are What You Eat
In the TV show Sex and the City, there’s this very popular episode where one of the characters has an issue swallowing her lover’s cum because it was ‘funky’.

Now, you may say that you are not at all forcing your woman to swallow your cum but you do emit some wetness of your own during oral sex you know. It’s called pre-cum and if it’s funky too you can bet that your lover will not be too enthusiastic to give you oral.

Also, come on, you KNOW you want her to at least try and swallow it even once so it’s in your best interest to make everything easy for her to choose to do just that.

So, if your cum is funky, why is that? Most likely it’s your diet. If you love to eat food with a lot of spices in it or like garlicky food, then chances are your cum will be ‘funky’. If you chug down cups of coffee, then your cum may have a bitter taste too. To change all this, simple change your diet.

Try to incorporate more fruits like kiwis, berries and pineapple into your food intake to change your cum from ‘funky’ to ‘sweet nectar’.

Of course, you can also incorporate certain edible things during oral sex to sort of disguise the taste of your cum; for this purpose, liquid chocolate, whipped cream, edible lube, and other come to mind.

Avoid Making Oral a ‘Movie Sex’ Moment
Contrary to what you see in adult movies, most women do NOT actually like it if you shove your manhood down her throat. It can be quite painful you know! So be gentle and let HER be in control of just how far down she wants you to go.

Think of Her Comfort Too
If women take their time to reach a climax, men can sometimes take forever too though oral sex. And although your lover may be willing to see it through till you reach your orgasm, she might not do so simply because she’s uncomfortable!

For instance, Jean (real name withheld for privacy) once told me that she and her lover like to have showers together which of course ends in her kneeling down and giving him oral. She loves doing it but she can’t do it long because it hurts her knees!

Anyway, her lover thought she just doesn’t like to give him oral and really wanted to experience that with her. Suffice it to say that after this issue was cleared out, they found out together that the best – and most pleasurable – position for them was to have him lying in bed while she lies on her stomach and gives him oral. For ‘variation’ they do the 69 too every now and then!

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#1: Start out with great foreplay.

Begin by doing those things that turn her wild. Nibble her ears and neck, gently and slowly suck her tits, and then proceed to licking her breasts. You could use your fingers to tickle her abdomen while sucking her tits and then proceed slowly to her inner thighs. Spend serious time on foreplay and don’t be quick to dive into her privates. She’ll be the one to lead you when she’s ready.

#2: The lick.

Before using your tongue at all, it’s important that IT is at room temperature – not too hot or cold. Begin by gently licking her from her vaginal entrance to her clitoris, following the outer edges of her vagina and on both sides. Repeat this technique slowly from top to bottom. Use the flat area of your tongue for this lick for maximum effect.

#3: The labia tickle.

Now slowly use the tip of your tongue to trace the margin of her labia minora on both sides. Then re-position your head and gently suck her labia minora on one side – slowly, gently and lovingly. With the labia in your mouth, use your tongue to gently caress it. Do the same on the other side.

#4: Slowly take the clitoris.

Take her clitoris softly into your warm mouth and suck on it slowly. You probably have her moaning wildly at this point. You want to remain creative by applying different strokes as well – top to bottom, bottom to top and circular. Basically, you should combine repeated sucking with strokes and intermittently go down to the labia minora.

While sucking her clitoris, don’t let your fingers stay idle, use them to fondle her breasts and tits and tickle her at those erogenous zones. Don’t overdo this as the game is just about to begin.

Some women also love it when you gently nibble their clitoris between your teeth. This requires so much gentleness. Let your imagination run wild people.

#5: The tongue tube.

Next, roll your tongue into a tube and slowly insert it into her – thrusting it slowly. This turns several women wild with pleasure. If you can’t roll your tongue, too bad – you’ll just have to skip this step. If you do roll your tongue, you need to train your tongue because this move isn’t as easy as it sounds – it’s a tad strenuous initially but you’ll get used to it in time.

#6: Let those fingers work like magic.

Give her clitoris a break for now; with your palms facing up slowly insert two fingers into her vagina and feel for her G-spot. Just in case you’re wondering, the G-spot is the round ball of skin an inch or two inside her vagina. Stroke this area with your fingers with gentle pressure. With each stroke, you’ll feel the G-spot get firmer. Stimulate the G-spot for a few seconds and keep working on her clitoris with your tongue.

#7: And finally…

It can’t be much longer before she has an orgasm and squirts all over you. Before she ejaculates, she may feel like urinating. Ask her to let go – it’s not urine. The ejaculate varies in quantity. Whatever happens, don’t act weird when it does come out. The more comfortable you are about it, the more intimate the sexual union. She’ll love you for it!

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The condom application follows the same pattern – someone rips open the condom package, pulls out the condom and rolls it down your manhood. Further sexual activity commences.

But what if you could make all this a part of the sex act? Instead of stopping your sexual activity to put on the condom, wouldn’t it be great if you could make that part of your lovemaking? It might seem a bit counterintuitive, but in fact, putting on a condom can be a highly erotic act… if she puts the condom on for you with her mouth.

How She Can Seductively Put ‘Protection’ On You

This is a delicate procedure, so it’s important that you guys understand the rules of engagement. The first and most important rule is NO TEETH. Tell her this again and again. Not only can this hurt you (as you well know) but it could damage the condom and then all that effort you expended to put the condom on will be for naught.

So, how is this technique performed? Read the steps below, and then share with your lady. You can guide her through it the first time.

First, have more than one condom handy. The first one might not be usable, or she might damage it on her first try. Not having a condom can vastly change the sexual experience, so make sure you are well prepared.

Next, consider having flavored condoms handy. A condom is not the tastiest thing in the world and you might have a hard time convincing your lady to do this if she’s tasting latex flavor in her mouth. But something that tastes like strawberries, chocolate, or (sexy) cherries? Now, that’s worth popping in your mouth.

Ok, onto technique. Here’s how it’s done:

1. Your woman should first check each condom for a hole by gently blowing into the condom. If there’s even a pin-size hole, she’ll know (the condom will deflate quickly after air is blown into it). Discard any bad condoms. And not that we’re implying you should get it on more often or anything but make sure the condom is not expired. Condoms do break down over time and will lose their effectiveness.
2. After that dull stuff is out of the way, she should put the condom in her mouth with the rolled part right on her lips and the tip placed so it’s right against her tongue.
3. She should lubricate your manhood. She might do this before she puts the condom in her mouth. She can use her mouth, or a store-bought lube, but you should be well lubricated first.
4. Next, she should lower her head so it’s right over your manhood and she should gently place her mouth around the tip of the penis so that the condom starts to cup the tip of it. (You could tell her that at this point, a little tip-of-the-penis play with her tongue might be fun.)
5. Now she should let go of the condom from her mouth so that it drops over your manhood. With just her lips, she should then begin to unroll the condom down. It’s important that she use just her lips and not her teeth. The motion is much like when she gives you a blow job – she likely doesn’t use her teeth then, either.
6. She should unroll the condom with her lips as far as she can. If she needs to, she can finish the job with her fingers, but with practice, she’ll likely be able to do the job completely with her mouth.

Now, keep in mind that this is an art form. It can make sex vastly more exciting, but it is not something that most women will master the first time she tries it. And the first few times, it might take a few minutes as she gets accustomed to this decidedly awkward activity. But after a few tries, it really takes not much longer than putting a condom on by hand… but it’s oh so much more fun!

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