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REAL LIFE ISSUE: What to Do if Your Member is Too Small
Do you think that your member is too small? If so, that can be a challenge because nearly everything in our culture tells you that your manhood is directly proportional to the size of your penis.
Thankfully, if you ask most women, they are more interested in what you are going to do with it than how large it is. Even if you are well under the six-inch average, you can still have a perfectly satisfying sex life, and there are plenty of choices on what to do if your member is too small.
Remember the Foreplay
Like anything, do the best with what you have got. Here is the thing. There is a whole lot that you can do to establish yourself as a fantastic lover before you get anywhere near needing to use your penis in your love making. If you remember that having sex starts with foreplay, you are golden. Women will love the fact that you drive them right to the edge of ecstasy before you even enter them, and they will brand you a generous lover.
Build Sexual Expertise in Other Areas…
You might want to take it upon yourself to build skills in areas where you are not below average. For example, there is nothing keeping you from being the most amazing lover when it comes to oral sex.
Oral sex begins with the mouth, continues to the ear, travels to the neck, descends to the breasts and lingers there a while. You can explore all of the erogenous zones of a woman’s body on your way to your orgasm destination, the clitoris.
By taking your time to get to her hot button, you allow anticipation to build, which further excites. You can even bring your partner to orgasm before you even enter her, and then she can take a turn in the oral department. At this point your woman is probably pretty thrilled that you are not too huge, and you should be too. You will fit into her mouth more easily for a swirl than if you were over endowed. Glance skyward and be grateful for the small blessings (pun intended) in life.
Just about when you cannot stand it any more give yourself a break and switch positions. Now you can bring up her excitement level and you may even be able to work in another orgasm for good measure. However, you do not want to go overboard here. While some women can go crazy with orgasms, others are exhausted after several. So know your woman before you get too carried away here.
Then when you are ready to slip inside her you have an additional arsenal at your disposal. Different sexual positions place you deeper in your partner than other positions, while other positions allow for amazing clitoris stimulation. Either way, your partner will have no complaints.
Be ready to experiment with different positions to see which ones work the best for both of you. Whether it is doggie style, standing, sitting, with her on top or plain old missionary style, you will find the positions that are the most effective for you and your partner if you take the time to try them.
So, while our world may talk the talk about the importance of being well endowed, if you develop your skills as a caring and sensitive lover, you may be surprised to find out, that you are actually a very well endowed lover yourself.
5 Things She Secretly Wants in Bed
Sometimes even the most experienced lovers have trouble determining what a woman really wants. That is why it is so important for you to be attuned to your partner’s responses as you are making love. As you begin to understand the things that your woman wants in bed, you will actually grow closer and build an even stronger relationship with her.
There are many ways of communicating, and one of our most powerful ways to communicate is through sex. So you may have to discover by trial and error the things she secretly wants in bed but wouldn’t dare ask you. Yes it’s a tough job, but somebody’s got to do it!
When It Comes to Sex She Wants… She Will Tell You One Way or Another
Here are some tools that will come in handy when you are doing your ‘job’.
She Needs a Skilled Tongue.
Of course you went down there, but this skill is actually something much simpler: compliment her. Tell her that she is beautiful or sexy and make it personal. Zero in on traits that are uniquely hers like, “You have the biggest, most beautiful eyes (or whatever else you want to insert here)”. And a little compliment on her performance would not hurt either like, “It feels so good when you . . .” or “I love the way you . . .” By referring to her you make this sexual act extremely intimate.
She Wants You to ‘Listen and Lead’.
Most women want you to take the lead in lovemaking. While she wants you to satisfy her, it is equally important for her to know that you enjoyed the experience also. So notice what she likes. She may like being dominated or she may like to move around a lot, but as she gives you signals, be aware that she is taking your lead and responding to it. So you can amp up the action or tone it down and measure her response to each to understand what she prefers in bed. While she may never be able to verbalize what really turns her on in bed, if you are paying attention, she will tell you loud and clear.
She Wants You to Love Her COMPLETELY.
Make love to ALL of her. Take the time to set a romantic tone for the evening. Set a sexy mood and romance your woman by having something for all of the senses: gentle lighting, scented candles, soft music and lush bedding. By giving a woman time to shift gears and settle into a romantic state, you are assured that she will enjoy this experience as much as you do. As she becomes aroused, of course you can join in. Explore her entire body from the nape of her neck right down to her toes. Use your tongue to explore all of the sensitive parts of her body and work your way to her pleasure points.
She Wants to Reach a Mind-Blowing Orgasm!
Shockingly, many women do not reach a climax during sexual intercourse… but that doesn’t mean that they don’t want to! So tonight, bring on you’re sexual A-game and give each of her erogenous zones the time of its life!
Yes, She Wants You to Connect.
You always hear about women wanting to snuggle and talk immediately after sex. Consider that this is their way of finding a connection with you after sharing such an intensely private experience. If you like to talk and snuggle then you are all set, but if you prefer silence or a quick catnap after having sex, then this can work for both of you as well. Remember that it is all in the delivery. So rather than rolling over and settling into a snoring session, simply scoop her up in your arms, whisper to her how amazing she is, and settle in to catch forty winks. She will melt into your arms feeling safe and loved and… probably be asleep before you are.
So if you simply remember to pay attention to all the unspoken cues that your woman is offering you throughout your lovemaking session, you will always be able to tell what things she secretly wants in bed, and you can be her hero by always delivering them to her.
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10 Little Things You Can Do To Get On Her Good Side Forever
True, we women have 101 things that irritate us about the men in our lives but the truth is… we also find it hard to live without you! Men often say they’re clueless when it comes to women because admit it ladies, we CAN be hot and then cold in a matter of minutes! However, there are things that make our hearts melt almost instantly. So if you want to get on her good side all the time, then read on!
10 Reasons Why We Love Men…
1. You fix what’s broken at home.
We do love handymen! Sure, we’re all supportive of women power and all that stuff but deep inside nothing says “I’ll take care of you” more than a man who knows how to fix the roof… or plumbing… or the broken fence… etc.
2. You cook every now and then OR get take out on your own once in a while.
In most homes, women are the ones who cook and ensure that the family is fed. However, cooking 365 days a year can be taxing! So once in a while, surprise us and cook something. Really, it doesn’t have to be a 5-course meal. It can even just be take out. Just something that tells us that today is our ‘day off’ from the kitchen.
3. You put your socks and underwear in the right places.
Little things irritate us and little things make us happy. And putting your dirty laundry in the right place is one of those things that make us happy! We know it’s small thing to do but whenever you don’t do it here’s the message we get… ‘he’s not listening!’ or ‘he’s soooo insentsitive!’.
4. You realize when there’s no more toilet paper… and do something about it!
Screw leaving the toilet seat up! Women can also be called upon always leaving the seat down, right? But when you see the toilet paper gone and never re-fill it? Dude, that’s just insensitive.
5. You lift her bag of groceries for her.
No, we don’t want chivalry to be dead.
6. You bring home flowers.
When men bring home flowers, it just literally brightens our day! It shows that you’re thinking of us and want to make us happy.
7. You make us laugh!
We just love men with a good sense of humor! The ability to laugh at things is just what we need to lift us up from our drama episodes. And sometimes, when we’re extremely mad, just the right joke or funny face is all we need to banish all those frustrations aside.
8. Foot massages! Bliss…
Sitting on the coach together, watching TV. You reach out and draw our legs up and on your lap. You remove our shoes/slippers/socks/stockings and you give a nice foot massage. Ah, we’re yours forever!
9. You take foreplay seriously!
It’s really ironic that during the times we need attention most, that’s when you stop and move to the next stage. STAY exactly where you are for a while! We like enjoying the journey just as much as the destination. And, truth be told, we actually reach our destination better when the journey is good!
10. You give great oral action.
Few men know how to conquer us with their tongues. But once we find the guy who can make us moan, groan and thrash about simply by using that small muscle inside his mouth, we’re soooo sold!
