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Give Her a Touchless Orgasm Tonight
Have you heard of a touch-less orgasm? It’s when you can bring yourself and/or your lover to a roaring climax even without laying a finger on each other. If you think it’s impossible. Think again. It’s actually the very same thing you’re trying to achieve when you engage in phone sex, right?
The main thing to ensure when you’re trying to achieve a touch-less orgasm is to be focused. Don’t fool around or joke while already in that situation. Otherwise, it would throw you both off. The secret is that once you start the ball rolling, follow it through to the end!
No-Touch Orgasm 101
No touch orgasms all depend on the timing, the mood of the people involved, and their powers of imagination.
For instance, when it comes to timing, it’s best to try this at night when you’re both alone and there’s a low chance that either of you would be called on or need to do something. As for the right mood, dim lights always works for me? If you have time to prepare you can make sure you have a few scented candles around and maybe change the décor of the room to dark rich fabrics. Otherwise, a darkened room is good enough. As for the ‘powers of imagination’ part that really all depends on what you talk about or do. Try following these tips:
One: Relax each other by giving each other a sensual massage or maybe even drinking some wine first. Liquor has this thing of loosening you up so a sip or two may just be what you and your lady needs. Now sit down on opposite ends of the room or anywhere where you can see each other. (Preferably, you are facing each other.)
Two: Don’t jump into sexual conversation; lead into it. For instance, talk about your day first and how you missed each other. Next, comment about her hot lingerie. If you’re both still fully clothed, then comment on how warm it is and that maybe you guess should ditch some of your clothes. Reach a stage where you are both nearly completely naked.
Three: Start to comment on how much you love her breasts and how much you would give to be able to lick them now. Tell her explicitly how you want to lick them. Talk as you visualize yourself licking her breasts. If you where touching her, you’d probably head down south now and lick there too. Tell her that. Again, tell her explicitly how you want to lick her down there. As you discuss how you’re tasting her, ask her to please let her fingers do what you imaging your tongue to be doing.
Note: Be sure that you use language that turn your woman on. Some women may get excited by the use of dirty language, while others may find it a big turn off. So be sure to use the right words. Even the tone of your voice may make a difference so see how this goes.
Also it’s perfectly normal to simply turn off the lights or close your eyes at the point. For most people, this makes imagining the sexual scenario a lot better.
Four: Complete your story. Once you get her to touch herself as you tell her what you want to do to her, there’s no looking back now! Be sure you go on and on and on till you talk about intercourse.
Five: Be sure you adapt to what you sense in her too. For instance, you may notice that she particularly likes the part when you talk about licking her so dwell on this for quite a while to really get her into a frenzy! And once she reaches that stage, be sure to egg her on by talking huskier and/or faster. It’s your way of assisting her reach her orgasm without touching her.
In the above scenario, you can take turns (you talk her up and the after she comes, she talks you up) or you can both have a ‘verbal intercourse’. That’s right; just start talking about what you guys see yourselves doing to each other. Here’s a sample script:
You: Do you feel my tongue now? It’s going in and out of you.
She: How fast? How fast?
You: How fast do you want it? Better yet, why don’t you sit on my face?
You can take it from here…
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Here’s Why… Women Can’t Seem to Reach their Orgasms!
We’ve all been there before one time or the other. We want to give her pleasure as much as she gives us and so we do everything we can for her in bed… and yet, she STILL won’t come! What are you doing wrong?
Well, actually you may not be doing anything wrong at all! But rather, SHE has some issues that are preventing her from reaching her climax. But that does not mean that there’s no hope. As always, knowledge is power! And so if you know what it is that’s stopping her from reaching her orgasm, then make it your duty to get rid of that obstacle!
HER Climax… What’s In It for HIM?
Now, you may be thinking ‘hey, if she’s predisposed to NOT reach an orgasm and she’s ok with it, why bother’? The answer to that question is this: you have absolutely NO idea how much more pleasurable sex is with a woman who can reach a climax!
You see, a sexually satisfied woman is a more-than-willing sexual partner. Put yourself in HER shoes. Really, how excited will YOU be about sex if you never ejaculate? On the other hand if she comes each and every time you touch her, then she’ll surely be more eager to have sex more often with you!
Also, a sexually satisfied woman is more likely to be more ‘adventurous’ in bed. Now that you’ve shown her just how truly mind-blowing sex can be, all the more she’ll be open to sex ideas from you! So you see? It’s a win-win situation.
Top 3 Reasons She Can’t Climax
It might shock you to know that around 70% of women DO NOT reach their orgasms during sexual intercourse. And there are really a number of reasons for this so read on!
She has body issues.
Most women have body issues that seem to occupy their minds especially when they should be focused on something else! For instance, if your lover hates her belly then you can bet she’ll be more focused on that during lovemaking that on the sex act itself.
This is easy enough to get around with. For example, if you know she has body issues, then make love with the lights OFF. From here you can move to having just the bedside lamp on and then drape her lingerie or silk scarf over it. This way, she’s not exposed but you’re already trying to get her used to the fact that lights can be on.
And of course, nothing beats you telling her how sexy and wonderful she looks! Really, most body issues are confidence issues so if you make it a point to tell her how turned on you are by her body, she’ll start seeing herself as the sex goddess you see her to be!
You’re not giving her enough foreplay.
Sex with women begins with their minds. Unlike what you see in adult movies, FEW women will be hot, wet, panting, and ready to climax the minute you touch them. In reality, women need to be mentally sexed up and the best way to do this is to spend enough time on foreplay. Really get her into the right sexual frame of mind and sex will be more pleasurable for you both!
She’s unconsciously preventing herself from reaching an orgasm.
This reason is also known as the “she can’t let herself go” syndrome. This is a true story: a couple has approached me for sex counseling because in the first two years of their marriage, she has NEVER reached an orgasm. Luckily, she was married to a man who really wanted her to experience just how much more pleasure she can get out of sex and so they called on me.
Well, as it turned out there were TWO reasons why she wasn’t reaching an orgasm. The first reason was that each time she felt something strange ‘down there’, she instinctively would just… stop. She would literally move to change positions or ‘overthink’ about the sensations that she’s feeling, which of course kind of kills the growing momentum to reach an orgasm!
To help her through this, she had to realize that she needed to just LET GO. The message was clear: Don’t think. Just let your body lead.
Now you can help your woman do exactly by doing this: goad her!
When you feel that she’s getting really excited, talk dirty. Whisper lewd words or flat out tell her something so hot that it’ll push her over the edge and you’ll see that that’s just exactly what she needs to reach her orgasm.
Good luck!
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28 Advanced Kama Sutra Positions!
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Kisses!
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