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How to Have Great Fun with Blindfolds
Have you tried using blindfolds during lovemaking? It’s exhilarating! It’s amazing how your other senses are heightened by taking away the sense of sight. It makes for VERY powerful orgasms for sure.
However, it always seems to be a tad scary whenever someone suddenly pulls out a blindfold during sex. So read on for a few tips on how to get used to the idea of using blindfolds.
Blindfold Bliss
As always, start by discussing with your partner the benefits of trying on blindfolds for sex and reassure her that it should be a fun process if you guys do the following.
Eat with your mouth.
Well, you do eat with your mouth but eating is a visual experience too. So what would happen if you guys ate blindfolded? (By the way, did you know that there are restaurants now in some parts of the world where it’s VERY dark so that when you eat, you hardly see your food? The purpose is of course to heighten the sense of smell and taste.)
So that you don’t harm yourselves in this effort, ensure you have something easy to handle for dinner. (How do fried chicken drumsticks sound? This way, you don’t end up really blinding yourself by accidentally sticking a fork in your eye!) Anyway, you get my meaning.
Eating blindfolded can be a really sense heightening experience so if you start the night this way, you pave the way for a very exhilarating experience in bed.
Blinded by foreplay.
After dinner, fool around on the sofa or in the bedroom, with the blindfolds left on of course. You’ll be amazed at how daring you may even become with the blindfold on. Further, everything will seem like 10 times more erotic! This is because you hardly know what’s next because you cannot see where the other is headed.
Also, can you just imagine how erotic things are when you only rely on your sense of sound? You cannot see her face but all of a sudden those ooohs and ahhhs are a tremendous turn on for you!
Blinded and binded.
Here’s a cool twist, one of you can take of his/her blindfold now… and use it to tie the other to the bed. So, let’s say she was the one who gave up her blindfold, imagine this: you cannot see her and all your hairs are on end because of the deliriously fantastic blowjob she’s giving. HOWEVER, you cannot touch her or grab her head because your hands are tied with the blindfold against the bed post.
Hmmm, I guess you just have to grin and bear the pleasure…
6 Tips for a Sexed Up Halloween
With Halloween just around the corner, have you given any thought to a hosting or attending a sexy Halloween party? If not, then you should because it can be the HOTTEST thing you do all year!
How to Sex Up Your Halloween Festivities
Send a dirty Halloween e-card.
During Halloween, a lot of people send e-cards in lieu of the traditional card you send by post. This year, why not send a special x-rated Halloween e-card to your lover? A lot of e-cards are highly customizable anyway so who’s to say you can’t send a generic adult e-card and simply put a Halloween message to it?
If you want something that shows a Halloween theme, then pick that and then just put a really hot and sizzling message. For instance, choose an e-card that shows Dracula’s fangs and say “I can’t wait to sink my teeth into you.”
Send a picture of yourself wearing only a Halloween mask.
What can be hotter than sending a picture of you with NOTHING but a Halloween mask on? You can send it to your lover’s mobile phone so she has something to fantasize about all day. You can also put the picture in her bag as an invitation for romantic and sexy dinner for two on Halloween night.
Attend a ‘swinging party’.
Halloween tends to bring out the ‘dark side’ of us and with loud music, booze, and everyone in masks, it’s easy to let yourself go and flirt and cavort with others during a Halloween costume party (you know, where everybody’s face is hidden!). So, maybe this is the time you and your partner can try swinging? In fact, during Halloween, there are a lot of parties specifically for swingers or swinging couples so be on the lookout for one near you if you and your lover are interested.
Since you’re already in costume… role-playing time!
If swinging is not for you, don’t let your Halloween costumes go to waste! Instead, use them for sexual role-playing. A few ideas for you: Dracula and the to-be-ravaged damsel, the super sexy witch and her minion, traffic cop and violator (hey, this last one is season-less!).
Play adult trick or treat!
You or your lover can pretend to be a young, horny teen out for some trick-or-treat time. Knock on the door and she either gives you her special treat (wink, wink) or you treat her to your naughty, sexy trick.
Have sex in a haunted house.
If you and your partner are REALLY adventurous, adrenaline junkies, then you can try to make love in an alleged haunted house. Now mind you, some haunted places are still private property so you CAN get busted for this so know the risks. However, this does not mean that you cannot book for a night in some out-of-the-way, scary, and reportedly haunted hotel, motel or bed-and-breakfast, right?
If the thought is a bit overboard for you, then decorate your home to have a haunted house motif and make sure there’s a dark, scary place somewhere where you can ravage your woman! (Preferably, where her ‘screams’ cannot be heard by neighbors and passing kids out for trick-or-treat.)
That’s it… have a Happy, Horny Halloween everyone!
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Phone Sex 101
Phone sex may have a notorious name in the world, but it is something that can really be put to great use. Imagine you are living away from your loved one because of a professional or some other reason. Or, simply imagine that you and your partner are just too busy to have real physical sex as much as you want. Probably when you get home from a hectic day of work, you are physically too exhausted to do anything even though you want so much to be with each other. In such situations, phone sex can work marvelously.
In fact, some couples who practice phone sex regularly have claimed that it has helped to bring them closer. They maintain that they can tell each other on the phone what they would not feel comfortable to tell each other when they are face to face. Also, when apart, phone sex has helped them to rekindle their passions and reassure each other that they really miss each other and are faithful. So, phone sex has its uses!
Of course, let’s not forget that phone sex can help keep your sex lives exciting. It’s natural that after a while, sex becomes a routine for a couple. If you inject some naughtiness now and then, it makes everything ‘titillating’.
How to Engage in Phone Sex with Your Partner
1. When you plan out a phone sex session, you have to make sure you are free from all your mental wrangles and worries. Keep at least half an hour for the activity. See that you do not get disturbed in any way. Remove all distractions and see that no ungainly noises will disturb you. Check that your phone is in good working condition too!
2. Some people find it quite difficult to get into the groove. If this is your problem too, you can try perking up the ambience of the room a little. Dim the lights, put on some mood music, spray some good perfume… such things work. Put on clean sexy clothes too. They really help set the mood.
3. Now is the time to make the call. It is best if you and your partner have pre-decided about the call because that makes sure they are ready too. Relax, take a deep breath and make the call.
4. When you call, do not let the excitement get the better of you. Start with small talk then gradually get naughtier and naughtier. For instance, start with the standard “So tell me babe, what are you wearing?” If she doesn’t bite and reply naughtily, simply tell her you are naked because you’ve been feeling ‘hot’. Be sure that you don’t get carried away and go on a whole speech here. Keep your phone sex talk going on like a conversation and not like a one-dimensional fantasy trip at your own end.
5. Slowly get down to dirtier talk. Talk about stripping. Talk about your partner’s private parts and what you would like to do with them. Let them talk dirty too. Slowly increase the pace.
6. Punctuate your talks with adequate sounds. Use moans and groans to effect. This is very important in phone sex because you cannot see each other’s faces.
7. Gradually lead your partner to fantasize and even encourage her to engage in self-love. Do that yourself. Tell your partner what you are doing. This will get you both really heated up and you’ll both end with a shuddering orgasm. Finish with some lovely after-sex talk.
It is not difficult to have phone sex with your partner. The only thing you need is the determination to do it! Even if you’re both at home, simply go to another room, call her cell phone and start some naughty talking!
