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Spanking for Beginners

Spanking isn’t quite what we see in our porn collections my friend. You know what I’m talking about; the girl with the big bosoms receiving smacks on her behind from her hunky man. There’s a lot more to spanking than just belting her once and hoping for the best! There are things that you need to consider before you lay a hand on her if you want to get the most out of the experience. Find out how to do it right with the following tips.

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Tips for Spanking Newbies

• First things first… talk to your partner and make sure that they’re into the idea because without consent; it quickly goes from sexy spanking to abuse! (Try explaining to a cop that you were just spanking her for fun and see where that gets you!)

• Start off with the hands. There are all kinds of neat paddles and gadgets for spanking out there, but the best way to get a feel for spanking—literally—is to use your hands to do the spanking because it’s a lot easier to gage the intensity this way. Starting off too hard or intense could put an end to your spanking fun before it’s even had a chance to really get started.

• Pick a comfortable position and by this I mean comfortable for you both, but more so for her—atleast at first! The most popular positions are with the ‘spankee’ lying across your lap while you work away at her bottom or she can be on all fours or bent over a chair for her spanking. For most, it’s the vulnerability of being spanked that is the true turn on, so any one of these positions, where she feels that she is being ‘taken’, will be best for the full effect.

• Use common sense and just remember that you’re doing this for pleasure. A swift, forceful blow is NOT pleasurable! Start off lightly and slowly and limit the spanking to the fleshy part of her buttocks as any other spots may prove too painful and quickly put an end to your fun.

• Every spank should be followed by a caress or lick or other form of foreplay. The area will be super sensitive and maybe even stinging after a couple of spanks so the feel of your light caress will really up the pleasure factor. Anything more than that will send her through the roof with arousal!

• Be aware of your partner’s reaction to each spank. Watch how they react and feel their movement under your hand. If she’s trying to get away, then she may not be digging it. If you’re having trouble knowing whether or not her whimper is one of pleasure or torture, then you should stop and ask.

• If you both are really into it and want to explore more, consider using a paddle for a more intense sensation. You don’t even need to go to a sex toy shop for one. Think ping-pong, table tennis or any other paddle-using game that you may even already have at home.

• Agree on a ‘safe word’ which you will know really means ‘stop’ should she use it. Getting carried away in the role of the discipliner is easy since you’re in a position of power AND sexually aroused. The word ‘no’ may not seem as powerful when you’re in the throes of your role as punisher, so agreeing on a code word will help to know when she really wants you to stop or when she’s moaning a ‘no’ that is actually a ‘yesssssss!’.

Now that you know the basics, the rest is really up to you. You can start off light and before you know it be in the throws of all-out corporal punishment if that’s what you both fancy.

It’s all about whatever turns you and her on. And as long as it is feeling good for both of you, then you’re on the right track. If you keep it light and fun and watch that backhand, then you should be just fine.

Happy Spankin’!

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Sexual Fantasies: How to Make Them a Reality and When Not To

Sexual fantasies are normal for all of us no matter how much the term may make your eyes roll back into your head! We all do it, so why keep denying it?

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Top 10 Sexual Fantasies of Men

You may think that you’re the only guy in the world who fantasizes about getting’ it on with your friend’s mom or getting spanked by her, but the truth is; you’re not! You’d be surprised to know what some of the most common fantasies are.

Your sexual fantasies don’t decide whether or not you’re some sick sexual deviant! They’re normal and healthy and something that really is enjoyed by everyone regardless of sex or age. If you’re curious to know what others are fantasizing about, then check out this list of the known Top 10 fantasies of men. Now you can really see how ‘normal’ you actually are!

1. Sex with your current partner.
2. Sex with a woman other than your girlfriend or wife.
3. Oral sex –giving and/or receiving.
4. A Threesome, foursome or moresome.
5. Being watched while having sex or watching someone else have sex.
6. Having your girl masturbate in front of you.
7. Anal sex.
8. Bondage or BDSM.
9. Taking someone by force (ravaging or raping).
10. Forcing someone else to have sex with your wife or girlfriend (in front of you)

Making Your Sexual Fantasies Happen

Not all fantasies make good real life experiences. As hot as having a threesome may be, you need to consider your partner and weigh the pros and cons of reality, like the fact that convincing her to go along with it may be fun while you’re having the three-way but could also lead to the end of your relationship since the jealousy factor is almost always a possibility no matter how into it you may both be.

And while we’re on the subject of threesomes; trying to get your girl to go along with it also comes with the risk of her requesting to have a threesome with you, her and some other guy. Is that something that you’re prepared for? Tit for tat could very well be expected if she agrees to be a part of YOUR fantasy come-true.

If you want to make some of your fantasies a reality, then you’ll also need to consider a few other things, like: your partner’s feelings if you’re in a relationship, who will willingly participate and what risks might be involved.

You may think the idea of group sex is hot, but do you have a group of people that you can go experiment with while being discreet and safe? You may get all hard at the idea of bondage, but BDSM can be scary for some people and a real turn-off so you’ll need to really talk to your partner and make sure that your trust is in tact before giving it a go.

As for sex in public or taking someone by force; you really need to consider the legal ramifications! Yeah, I said legal! Sex in front of an unwilling audience could lead to a public indecency or misdemeanor charge and as for living out a rape fantasy with the wrong person; you could wind up in jail for a long time! (‘No’ may really mean ‘no’ when you’re in the midst of what YOU think is some hot role-playing!)

Pick your fantasies and participants very carefully before you head off to make them a reality. Don’t get me wrong; sexual fantasies can be great in real life too, but there are some that may be best left in your head for you to enjoy during a self-pleasure fest, sex or on the commute to work. You just never know when one may come back and bite you in the ass after the orgasm-induced daze has worn off, so tread carefully my friend.

Now my friend… it’s your turn. Will you share your naughtiest fantasies with me? Just complete the form below (the one that says “Leave a Comment”) and share with me the FANTASIES that you have never shared with anyone.