Archive for the ‘sensual ideas’ Category
How To Get Her To Be Interested In Sex Again
What Happened?
It happens in the best of relationships. Everything is going along fine and suddenly you wake up one morning and realize that you haven’t made love to your significant other in a week or more. You try to remember where the days and nights have gone. You wonder how this could have happened. Like any attentive man, you set out to rectify the situation only to find that your attempts are not exactly appreciated. The woman in your life just isn’t all that interested in intimacy. What’s a guy to do?
Don’t panic. Seriously. If you panic, you might do something stupid. So take some time and breathe deeply. There are a lot of reasons that women lose interest in intimacy. It’s not the end of the world… There are ways for you to help her regain her desire. With a little patience and creativity, you can help your lovely lady regain her interest.
Assuming there is no physical cause for her waning desire (something she would need to discuss with her doctor), it’s time to consider her emotional state and needs. Women must have their minds seduced first, their bodies later. Quite honestly, the anticipation will make it great for both of you.
Tips for Seducing her Mind
Talk to her. Be honest about how you’re feeling. Be careful not to assign blame, but instead express concern over the loss of intimacy. This will open the door to the discussion. Talk openly about your desires and encourage her to do so as well. Maybe there’s something she needs that you haven’t been giving her. Encourage her to tell-all and let her know that you want to make her feel good. This might be difficult, but be sure to listen to her and try not to feel criticized or defensive. This is information that will ultimately lead to more satisfying intimate moments for both of you.
Help her. How often has she told you that she’s exhausted? Whether she works, stays home with kids, or both, if the end of the day is met with dirty dishes and housework, how can she feel sexy? Give her a hand. Vacuum the rugs, wash some dishes, or pick up the clutter. This attention not only lessens her workload, it shows her that you care about her and want to help.
Touch her often. This is simple, but effective. When you walk past her, run your hand across her back. Trace your finger along her collarbone when she’s sitting and reading. Take her hand as you walk to the car. These are little signals that you want to touch her in nonsexual situations and make the transition to intimacy much less abrupt.
Send her texts. During the day, send her text messages that start tame in the morning and become more suggestive as the day wears on. You might want to start with something like, “I can’t wait to be with you tonight” and work up to something along the lines of “I’m going to lick the alphabet in your most sensitive places”. Be aware of your lady’s tolerance for vulgarity. Some women might get turned on by a down and dirty text, but it’s not for everyone. And don’t make any promises that you don’t intend to keep!
Plan a date. Make the date special. Take her somewhere quiet and intimate where you can you talk. Show interest in her description of her day and let her know how much you love and appreciate her. Compliment her so that she knows that you find her attractive.
Tips for Seducing her Body
Let’s talk about foreplay. Assuming you have shown her how lovely you think she is, held her hand, done the dishes, planned a date and teased her all day about it, you might just get lucky. Don’t mess it up by rushing! Physically and emotionally, women need time. You may just want to get laid, but she wants more. Guess what? You’ve probably already started. Those naughty texts? Yup, foreplay. Telling her how much you care about her? Foreplay. See? Easy. Now it’s time for foreplay in the bedroom… or the living room… or the sexy venue of your choice.
Start with slow, passionate kissing. Don’t rush! Undress her slowly, kissing each newly exposed inch of skin. When she is nude, admire her as you undress yourself. Oh, and a helpful hint: Take off your socks first. That eliminates the awkward no-pants-with-socks look that isn’t especially sexy.
Every move you make should be slow and teasing. Caress her breasts softly, kissing and licking your way to her nipples. Taking things slowly allows her passion to build. The same is true during cunnilingus. Don’t dive straight for her clit! Work your way slowly to her sensitive bud, no matter how she begs. Oh, and that tip about licking the alphabet? This is a good time to use it. Let the heat and passion build.
Not Just Sex
Make love to her. Pay attention to her verbal and nonverbal cues so that every thrust is pure pleasure for your lady. Some women aren’t comfortable telling men verbally what they need. Listen to her moans, her breathing, and pay attention to how her body reacts. All of these are clues to what she needs. When in doubt, pull her on top of you so she has more control over the speed and depth of penetration.
Cuddle
After the extended foreplay and hopefully mind-blowing sex, resist the urge to roll over and go to sleep. Hold her, kiss her, and tell her how amazing the experience was. This is a positive reinforcement that will stick in her mind. If she knows you enjoyed and appreciated the intimacy, she will be more receptive in the future.
What are You Waiting for?
Don’t put it off! If your relationship is lacking intimacy, do something about it. Today.
Kisses,
Gabrielle Moore
CLICK HERE To Have Instant Access To 100 Hot Sex Games To Turn Her On
6 Sexy Things to Do with a Condom
When you think of a condom immediately your mind goes ugh! Your thoughts go directly to safety, and utilitarian, and there is nothing very romantic about that. So why not incorporate condoms throughout the process of making love and make them a much-anticipated part of having sex with your partner? If you put your mind to it any guy can find at least several sexy things to do with a condom that enhance the process of making love to your woman.
Build a Sundae – As you are discovering all of the curves and crevices of each other’s physiques with liquid chocolate or whipped cream, add to the sensation by choosing a cherry, vanilla, strawberry or mint flavored condom! You can even add more to the fun by mixing and matching your condom and lube flavors as you build your condom sundae.
Total Experience – You can work your condoms into an exciting role-play date. Meet at an out of the way drugstore, and make up whatever scenario excites you. Perhaps you met for the first time at the store, and now you are going to choose the perfect condom together for your secret tryst later that evening, and who knows where that will lead? Not to worry though, because your glow-in-the-dark condoms will light the way!
Flirt – You can use a condom to flirt. Slip a condom into her purse as a sign of the evening’s possibilities. Ask her what her favorite color is and use that color condom. By adding a little thought to the process a condom can actually become another opportunity to enhance your sexual experience.
Anticipation – Incorporate condoms into your foreplay. Let your woman slip the condom on for you. She can take her time and apply it seductively and slowly. Using a water-based lubricant the condom will sensually slide right on. And as long as the lube is in her hand, she does not need to stop there . . .
Grab Bag – You can build a grab bag of many different styles, textures, tastes and colors of condoms and let your partner choose whichever condom suites her mood that day. Or she can blindfold you, and have you pick your poison. You can even assign a different role play scenario to each condom to add a little surprise and adventure to your love making session.
No Hands – You can have your partner apply the condom with no hands. To do this unwrap a flavored, non-lubricated condom and have her place it in her cheek with the reservoir tip pointed in. Be careful not to bite it. She can actually talk with the condom in her mouth this way. Then have her work the condom around to the front of her mouth. This might be quite seductive, or it may be hilariously funny, and either way it is a good time. Then have her put her mouth on your penis and begin rolling it down, oh so slowly, with her lips and tongue. And there you have it – no hands!
So rather then look at a condom with disdain wishing that it would just go away, simply incorporate it into your love making session by using one of these sexy things to do with a condom.
For more SEXY and EROTIC ideas to enjoy the WILDEST SEX ever, click here!
3 Sexy Things to Do with Liquid Chocolate
Liquid chocolate, a loving woman, and hot sex… the recipe for a perfect evening! Recent studies have shown that women who eat chocolate on a regular basis have an increased sex drive. Women who indulge in chocolate are more easily aroused and have a stronger desire for sex. So while chocolate does not have the same effect on men as it does on women, it might be a great tool for a man to have in his love making arsenal, and it can never hurt for him to know various sexy things to do with liquid chocolate.
Chocolate can be an intimate part of bringing your partner to an orgasm. Incorporating chocolate into your bedroom activities can be deliciously exciting. Whether you choose chocolate syrup or chocolate body paint, you are certainly going to look good enough to eat with a little chocolate drizzled across your chest.
Everything is Better with Chocolate On It
Follow these three simple steps to make your woman fall in lust with you all over again.
Chocolate Foreplay – A kiss is just a kiss, until it is a chocolate kiss. Start your lovemaking session with a simple kiss. Then your partner can slowly paint the path that she will travel as she kisses her way across your body. She can choose to linger at a destination or continue following her chocolate map. As then when you just cannot stand it any more, it is your turn. You can paint a map on her and follow it, or you can go freestyle if chocolate does not appeal to you. Either way will work, because your woman is basking in the afterglow of chocolate with the anticipation of sumptuous sex right in front of her. In a woman’s world, life does not get much better than this.
Chocolate Drizzle – Now you can drizzle chocolate directions for your partner to follow. Choose where she should begin; then drizzle your way over to where you want her to linger, and drizzle your way home. Then of course you want to return the favor. You can drizzle slowly to increase the sexual tension, and you can linger. You can even surprise her a little and go “off course” for a little side adventure. While your chocolate adventure will be tasty, above all it should be fun.
Chocolate Toes – Chocolate is a wonderful way to get a sensual hand or foot massage. Of course you want to start with really clean feet, but after your chocolate manicure, you will be melting just like the chocolate. Whether she does your feet or you do her feet, there is plenty of chocolate to go around. After generously painting fingers or toes, make sure that you slurp up every last drop of chocolate. Really get into all of the little nooks and crannies, and if you find a little spot that is ticklish, so much the better. After you are done with hands or feet, remember that you can always follow the chocolate trail wherever you wish for a full session of passionate sex.
By adding chocolate to your sex play, you can completely change the tone of your lovemaking. A word of caution though, while eating chocolate is synonymous with dying and going to heaven for most women, you can still only consume so much of a good thing before you get a little ill. So pace yourselves, as you are painting and drizzling yourselves into ecstasy while discovering lots of sexy things to do with liquid chocolate.
For more sticky, erotic tips to enjoy the HOTTEST sex ever, click here!
