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A Brief Sexual History Lesson
About the turn of the 20th century, Freud was generating his own revolution about the nature of sexuality. He said there were two kinds of orgasm: clitoral and vaginal, or in Tantric terms clio and yoni. Freud convinced many that clio (clitoral) orgasms were immature. According to him, it took a real woman to have a yoni orgasm.
In contrast, pioneering sex researchers, like Kinsey in the 50s and Masters & Johnson in the 60s, believed that only clio was responsible for women’s orgasms. The good news was that these findings spurred vibrator-wielding feminists to teach women that they could develop their orgasmic potential.
The bad news was that, depending on whom they listened to, many people ignored a valuable source of female sexual pleasure. (Don’t worry, I´m not going to take sides in this silly debate.)
Fortunately, the pendulum began to swing back in 1982. Public consciousness, fueled by scientific research and growing comfort with the sexual revolution, opened to other orgasmic triggers.
Make Love Not Controversy
Don’t expect your family doctor, or even your OB/GYN to know very much about sex. In most medical schools, the training devoted to sexuality is either non-existent or minimal. A few medical schools increased their emphasis on sexuality in the 70s and 80s, but many of them have cut back since then. So it’s no surprise that the controversies over the existence of the G-Spot, different kinds of orgasms, and female ejaculation continue to this day in the medical community.
It’s only been since the late 90s that medical research began to take seriously the notion that women’s sexuality operates differently than men’s. At last, serious investigation is underway into the unique sexual anatomy and physiology of the female that will ultimately support women in leading joyful sex lives. What you’ll read here is based on the most recent findings.
Women Are Different, Duh
We understand the frustration of male-dominated sciences being unable to describe female sexuality with simple linear models and reproducible formulas. The fundamental fact that keeps appearing in our reading, research, and client work is that each woman is different. Although there are some general commonalties, each woman will have her proclivities, her preferences, and her own kind of orgasms.
Her pleasure, her sensitivity, and her climaxes will differ based on factors within and without: her mood, her hormones, her level of arousal, her connection to her partner, her openness to passion, and her acceptance of her own sexuality.
Those of us who honor the Goddess and specialize in the study and practice of sex know without a doubt that the Sacred Gate exists. As does clio. It doesn’t take an expert to prove that they both can help you explode with passion if you want.
Never fear, your partner´s G-Spot is alive and well and living inside. When you discover exactly what it wants, it can shower you and your lover with delicious peaks of pleasure.
EXERCISE: History Discussion Questions
Here are some questions to journal, reflect on, or talk about…
- What kind of values did your family hold about sex?
- What role do you feel sexuality plays in a healthy life?
- What kinds of sexual repression have you personally experienced?
You may be asking yourself: “Why did Gabrielle gave me this sexual history lesson?”
ANSWER: Because I want you to be COMPLETELY prepared (with the basics), because in a few days (October 25, 2007) you and your lover will enjoy the hottest sex ever. You will finally enjoy a G-Spot orgasm!
So, mark your calendar! October 25, 2007.
Love and Kisses!
Gabrielle Moore
The G-Spot - “The Sacred Gate”…
The G-Spot is a highly sensitive area on the front or upper wall of the yoni (Tantric for vagina). G-Spot a modern term, coined by Ladas, Whipple, & Perry in their 1982 book The G-Spot And other Discoveries About Human Sexuality. They named it after Ernst Gräfenberg M.D. who first wrote about this “new” orgasmic trigger in a scientific journal in 1950.
By the way, Gräfenberg didn’t call it a spot and rightly so. It’s an area in different places in different women. And it moves.
In Tantric sex it´s called the G-Spot the Sacred Gate, partly because all of sex is sacred to a Tantrika (a Tantra adept) and partly because it truly is a doorway to profound love, deep emotional intimacy, and sexual ecstasy. The Sacred Gate contains the power to unleash hidden emotions, generate deep orgasms, and trigger ejaculation when aroused enough.
Before you’re done reading the G-Spot course you´ll have access to in a few weeks - and doing its many juicy practices, I can assure you that you’ll be able to find and excite your beloved’s Sacred Gate. You’ll learn anatomy, massage strokes, and more pathways to G-Spot orgasm than you can imagine.
I expect that some of you have had negative experiences with G-Spot stimulation. You may have felt little, nothing, burning, or other discomfort. Let us assure you that, by following my program to awaken your Sacred Gate, this will never be the case again.
A Brief Sexual History Lesson
Though G-Spot is a modern term, undoubtedly the ancients were aware of the super sensitive parts inside yoni (vagina). They were certainly aware of one the Sacred Gate’s primary sexual functions, female ejaculation. There are references to the female expulsion of fluid with orgasm as early as Aristotle in ancient Greece. The Kama Sutra mentions in clearly. Shakespeare called it “the water of my love.”
It wasn’t until about 400 years ago that a Dutch anatomist, Regnier De Graaf, clearly defined the glands and ducts that make up the Sacred Gate. He said they were analogous to the male prostate. This started a scientific trend of referring to the G-Spot as the female prostate.
In 1880 Alexander Skene, M.D., extensively studied and illustrated the glands and ducts that comprise the female prostate. To this day, some refer to this part of a woman’s anatomy as Skene’s glands. It wasn’t until 1953 that a urologist named Samuel Berkow concluded that this tissue was erectile.
More current research beginning in the 80s concluded that the Skene’s glands are small, functional organs that produce female prostatic secretion and possess cells comparable to the male prostate.
When you feel the G-Spot, or Sacred Gate, you’re feeling these glands beneath the skin of yoni’s upper wall.
In the next few days you´ll receive more interesting articles about the G-Spot… Enjoy!
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