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Try These Four Women-On-Top Positions!
Warning – reading this article may cause untold erotic excitement!
After a long, demanding week, most women enjoy nothing more than to spend a little downtime with their boyfriend or husband to unwind. Whether you are painting the town red or spending a quiet evening at home, a night of lovemaking always makes for a great nightcap.
With hundreds of sexual positions in existence, one position is almost always a winner for females: woman on top. For men, the full frontal view of their partner’s breasts or bottom (depending on the position) makes for quite a satisfying experience. It is also a chance for the man to get a bit of rest and let the woman do the work. For women, the dominance and increased likelihood of orgasm makes this sexual position a clear favorite. Luckily, there are several variations from which to choose.
Woman on Top Position One – Lean Forward
This position is basic – the man lies on his back while the woman straddles him leaning forward. This carnal tango allows the woman to glide back and forth as deep as she desires. The stimulation of her clitoris is enhanced by the motion exerted against the base of the penis. The same pleasure is likely to occur if performed anally. Both partners will enjoy this position as they will be able to caress and stroke each other and exchange deep kisses. Nothing says fun like the Big O.
Woman on Top Position Two – Squatting
Similar to position number one, this variation differs in the position of the woman’s legs. The woman straddles the man, while he is lying on his back, but rather than sitting down leaning forward, she assumes a squatting position while upright. The up and down motion allows the man to get a better glimpse of his partner’s vagina, stomach and breasts. She may lean back and grab her partner’s thighs or legs for extra support. The sexiness of her arched back and shallow thrusts makes for an amazing visual turn-on for the man.
Woman on Top Position Three – Seated Position
This next position involves the man sitting upright (likely in a chair, on a couch, or in a car) with the woman straddling him while facing him. This may be more desirable for men as they have the woman’s breasts directly in front of them. Depending on the piece of furniture or location, this position allows a woman to get a better grip on their partners’ love muscle. She has the ability to gyrate from her knees or rotate her hips while seated on her partner.
Woman on Top Position Four – Reverse Cowgirl
Fellas, just imagine your hot girlfriend naked in leather chaps. This next position is a take on that sensual fantasy. Men who love their partners’ bottom will relish the reverse cowgirl position.
The reverse cowgirl allows you to see her derrière in motion and up close. While you are lying down, she sits on top of you facing away from you. The penile and vaginal stimulation may take a bit of maneuvering, but the ride is sure to be enjoyable!
Guys can help women in this position by grabbing her hips or thighs for maximum depth as well as providing vaginal stimulation with the use of his fingers. It is important for ladies to be gentle in this position as bending the penis in this slightly abnormal position can be uncomfortable for the man. Reverse cowgirl can be performed while the man is lying down or sitting in a chair or on a couch.
The variety of positions with a woman on top is a great treat for both partners. Women favor being on top as it feels unbelievably satisfying, pleases their partner and allows women to exert a little control in the bedroom. Men, on the other hand, love it for all the visual treats it brings!
So take it from a woman, if you want your lady happy, let her straddle you! Some men find it hard (no pun intended) to relinquish control in the bedroom, but it is a healthy balance to share in the act of lovemaking.
Consider this tip – unlike other positions, the responsibility of the man to bring his partner to orgasm is diminished because the woman is controlling the speed and depth of penetration. Relinquishing the power position can take the pressure off you to bring her to an orgasm and she is very likely to love being in control of this delicious pleasure!
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Using Handcuffs for Wild Sex!
Sex Toy/Accessory: Handcuffs
Description:
Most of us are familiar with those two cold metal bracelets carried by the police around the country. Even if we’ve never worn them, we’ve certainly seen them at least on television and in the movies.
While some of the handcuffs available in erotic retail stores do closely resemble the police models, you can also find other types to play with as well. Leather handcuffs, furry handcuffs, different colored handcuffs – if you search around you can find almost anything you’d like to use.
How to Use It:
The best way to use handcuffs is to either trap your willing partner to the bed or to make sure he or she keeps their hands behind their back while you do whatever you want (within reason, of course) to them.
You can add in a blindfold for even more intense effects.
Why to Use It:
Losing control over what is going on can be a huge turn-on for some people. When they are handcuffed, their partner gets complete control over their pleasure, and this can lead to some amazing results. Imagine performing oral sex on your female partner while she’s handcuffed to the bed or handcuffing your man’s hands behind his back while you have sex with him. In fact, a pair of handcuffs can heat up even the most boring sexual positions in a flash.
Not to mention, if you or your partner even has a slight bondage fetish, a pair of handcuffs is a good way to begin exploring that world a little.
Purchasing Suggestions:
Avoid purchasing real metal handcuffs. Although some sex toys do sell these type of handcuffs or similar ones, they are not designed for comfort. The metal can also be very cold against the skin. You don’t want something to interfere with your or your partner’s pleasure.
Better choices are leather or fur handcuffs, particularly the ones which have comfortable lining. These feel more comfortable. Of course, these usually cost a little more, too.
Important Tip: Before using handcuffs or other types of bondage equipment, you should make sure you and your partner have agreed to do this. Have a code word ready that your partner can say in case things get uncomfortable and they want the game to stop.
