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A Look at Some of Today’s ‘Love Toys’
Just for fun, I looked at what sex toys are out there from the ‘simple and cute’, to the ‘downright bizarre’! Read on and see which one you and your lover would like to try.
Sex Toys – The Fun Category
I guess you can consider these the old-time favorites. They are really toys that will never go away because they are also the easiest to try and introduce into your relationship.
- Blindfolds
- Candy-flavored condoms.
- Sex coupons.
- Adult deck of cards, adult dice, adult game boards, etc.
Sex Toys – The More Daring Category
In essence, vibrators are not new at all. However, earlier versions were only for clitoral stimulation. Today, we have vibrators that pretty titillate anything and everything! For instance, the Jack Rabbit vibrator is perhaps the most popular one today. It’s even considered a ‘classic’ by some. This vibrator has an end that serves as a penis (to penetrate the vagina) and another that stimulates the clitoris. This latter part is in the form of ‘bunny ears’ that are situated on either side of her clitoris.
Modern twists to this Jack Rabbit-type of vibrators now include thrusting motions and even rotating motions on the penile part of the vibrator.
Modern technology has made contributions too. There are now electric and wireless vibrators (as opposed to just having the battery-operated ones).
Other sex toys I personally classify under the ‘daring’ category are the following.
- Door swings. This sex toy comes with all the equipment and attachments you need to basically create a swing at the back of any door. The ‘swing’ comes with a sort of harness, through which your girlfriend / wife can put her legs through, spreading them apart for errr…, your easy access. There are loops too through which she can put her arms so she can support her weight. See? No strain for her and you!
- Cock rings. These sex toys are generally known to extend a man’s erection. Hey, I’m all for hours-long lovemaking but I consider this ‘daring’ because a lot of men do not want anything applied on their members apart from the ‘real thing’ because they feel it lessens their manhood.
Sex Toys – The ‘Bizarre’ Category
Ok, the following may not be bizarre to others but they are a bit to me so please don’t take offense!
- Penis extensions. They are as the name suggests; things to be attached or connected at the end of your penis to increase its length. I find this a bit bizarre simply because I am more a supporter of better sex positions! Seriously, for many women it’s not the size at all, it’s what you can do with it. (wink* wink*)
- Anal beads. These sex toys are composed of a series of beads on a string (or flexible wand) , which is then inserted on one’s backdoor and taken out as slowly or as quickly as one wants. I personally find this bizarre because I find it a tad demeaning somehow. Don’t get me wrong, I’m all for backdoor stimulation and backdoor sex but somehow the use of this sex toy does not come across as ‘sexy’ to me.
- Artificial vaginas. Okay, as a highly-sexual and erotic female I am against any fake or imitation vagina for sex. Period.
FIVE Impromptu Sex Moves to Boost Your Lovemaking
Most of the time, when we engage in lovemaking, we rely on the same routines. After all, why change something that clearly works, right? However, doing this over and over simply reduces the thrill factor and so one day you guys wake up and nothing seems to be exciting anymore!
So, try to make things exciting all the time in your relationship whether you are inside or outside the bedroom. Read on to find out how.
Spontaneous Sex Moves
#1 – Be cold. By this, I mean play with ice instead of fire, literally. Get a small bowl of ice chips and pop one in your mouth during sex. Then you can lick her nipples or lick her down there; blow cold breath against her nipples, or blow cold air down there; you can French kiss and treat her warm tongue to your cold one; you can run a small ice chip down her spine and let the ice ‘melt’ just above the crack of her ass. See? There’s so many things you can do with ice!
#2 – Sex games. Be fun and naughty! One of my favorite things to do is keep a small glass bowl of ‘treats’ inside the bedroom. This can be anything from a sachet of liquid chocolate to small envelopes that contain a naughty deed like ‘lick her 3x on her B’, with ‘B’ meaning any part of her body that starts with the letter ‘b’. For naughtier games, why not keep small box of sex positions? This way, just one of you reaches into the box, pulls out a position, and you guys have to do that for that night’s lovemaking session.
#3 – X-rated sensual massages. Sensual massages are really meant to be just that: sensual. This is because a lot of people do want it to be simply a means to help each other relax. That’s of course all well and good but why not heat things up a little every now and then. For instance, as you massage her long legs, spread them wide, dip your head and ‘massage’ her vagina with long, powerful strokes of that muscle of yours called your ‘tongue’.
#4 – Throw her off. If you’ve always treated your lady love with ‘respect’ in bed, this time don’t be afraid to be a little rough. Banish the gentleman and be the secret stud who makes love to someone else’s wife! Of course, I don’t mean manhandling your lover. Just go a level or two that you normally do when it comes to roughness. For instance, don’t just assume the missionary position like you always do. This time, grab her ankles; pull her towards you across the bed and enter her from the edge of the bed! Unleash a little more of your animalistic side and chances are… she will too.
#5 – Mirror, mirror on the wall. Here’s a very easy, yet very erotic thing to do. If you have a big bedroom mirror, position it so that you see your bodies (or parts of it) while having sex. If you don’t have such a mirror, invest and buy one of those long, stand alone, inexpensive ones that you can easily put from one corner of the room to the other. Trust me. The view of you going at each other will sort of transport you out of your bodies. The result? It’s like watching this OTHER hot couple making wild, erotic, mad love.
As you can see, it doesn’t take much to add spice into your sex life. Keep things hot and new all the time and you will never find sex boring or a routine again. Good luck!
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What You Can Learn from Her Sex Toy
It’s pretty common for a guy to be a little put off at first by his girl’s big, monster sex toy. A lot of men think that the vibrator or sex toy is there to replace them or because he isn’t quite delivering just right.
But you know what? You need to get over that feeling and pronto! Her sex toy will surprise you – in a pleasant way! – if you give it a chance and you’ll be amazed at how easily you can learn to like them just as much as she does.
3 Lessons You Can Discover from Your Girl’s Vibrator
• You can discover a whole new sensation by turning the vibe on and holding it to different parts of your body. Sure, her mouth feels good on your genitals, but a light vibration may feel even better! Don’t forget to try out the different speeds and intensities too.
• You can find erogenous zones that you never knew existed. You may have wondered what all the hype is about the perineum or ‘taint’. Using a vibrator on it may show you! And since some of you may be scratching your heads right now, here’s a little ‘Perineum 101’ for you: it refers to the little space between your balls and your backdoor.
• You may realize that something in your behind does actually feel good! Depending on the size/girth of the toy, you may be so inclined as to experiment with a little backdoor play while alone and away from possible judgment and learn that a finger or toy up the ass is NOT gross, DOES feel awesome and DOES NOT MAKE YOU GAY!!!
Some Pluses about Using Sex Toys in Your Relationship
Once you and your ego have gotten over the ridiculous fear of being replaced by the scary plastic adult toy, there are a few hot things that you can do with sex toys in your relationship that could really make it worth considering.
Here are some bonuses that come from bringing sex toys into your relationship.
They make her a more sexual person. Why would you want to stop her from expressing or enjoying her sexuality with a toy or anything else for that matter?? Her using sex toys help to keep her sexual and who reaps the rewards of that? YOU, right?
They make for a great show. Watching your partner use her sex toy on herself is totally hot! Think of the X-rated display that you can have right there in front of you that doesn’t cost you $20 per 10 minutes and isn’t limited to the 15.4 small inches of your computer screen!
You can use it on her. Maybe it’s a power thing, but lots of men are turned on by inserting things into their partners and really taking their partner’s pleasure into their own hands—literally. Imagine how hot it’ll be to use it on her and watch as she writhes around in ecstasy!
It can heat things up. Let’s face it, sex can get a little routine or stale when you’ve been with the same person for a long time. Bringing sex toys into the bedroom can really help to spice things up for both of you. There’s a reason why they’re also referred to as ‘marital aids’, and that’s because they are proven to add a little something that doesn’t involve straying, when things are stuck in a rut. Check out toys made for couples or for guys too. You’ll be amazed at what you can find to help you both get off electronically!
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