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Virtual Sex with Your Partner
In our quest to always come up with news ways to prevent making your sex life a routine, why not try having virtual sex with your partner? This not hard at all to do nowadays since most of us travel with a laptop or have access to one in the privacy of our hotel rooms (or any other room) while we’re away.
To engage in virtual sex with your lover brings many things together really. It’s like engaging in voyeurism, phone sex, and maybe even role play at any given time! So why not try it? You’re not harming anyone, you’re doing it in private AND you’re doing it with your own partner. I say… turn those webcams on!
Virtual Sex 101
From the comforts of your hotel room (or wherever you’re staying) connect online can ask your lover to get online too. Ask her to chat with your for a while.
Now, tell her you miss her and that her voice is not enough so will she please turn on her webcam so you can see her. (By the way, be sure you’re casually dressed or have your shirt open or something to turn HER on.)
Now slowly ease the conversation to sexy stuff like what she’s wearing. Ask her if she’s game and if so, ask her to change into a new outfit… in front of you! Tell her you’ll do the same so she doesn’t feel awkward.
After the outfit changing, move onto discuss each other sexual fantasies. Ask her to be as descriptive as possible and then do the same. The goal of course is to both reach state where you are both extremely aroused.
Now, tell her that you want to see her topless. If she obliges, then the rest really depends on your ‘script’! And believe me, a script is more or less needed because it’s important to keep on talking to encourage the other to continue.
Also, keep in mind that this does not have to be a one-way peep show. Not at all! The best virtual sex is actually one where you both get to act and watch each other at the same time!
A virtual sex twist: play a virtual sex game! Seriously, this can be really fun and hot at the same time. Use some sex dice or give each other sex notes to be read and acted out only in front of each other online.
A few notes to ensure great virtual sex with your lover:
Ensure you have good internet connection. It would be such a bummer if the line keeps getting cut. That can be VERY sexually frustrating. Make sure too that your webcams are fully functioning.
Make the experience a mutual thing. Don’t just command what she should do, engage and communicate. Ask her what SHE wants to do. Ask her what she wants YOU to do in return.
Lastly, never bully. Only go so far as what you’re both comfortable with. This way there will be no regrets and no one will feel that he/she did something they really didn’t want to do.
Apart from the above, go ahead and enjoy yourselves!
Happy 4th of July!
Hi! Gabrielle Moore here…
I want to wish you a happy 4th of July!
(If you don´t live in the U.S. I ALSO want to wish you a terrific day honey!)
Just a quick video I found to wish you an amazing day… Enjoy it!
