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The Truth About Partner Swapping

Have you ever been tempted to try partner swapping? This is when you exchange partners for a while with someone else. The others can be another couple you’re long friends with or a couple you just met. Swapping does not always mean both you and your lover doing it. It could also just be you having sex with another with your partner’s consent, and vice versa.

Do you really want to try swapping?

A lot of couples claim that partner swapping is healthy for their relationship because like it or not, routine and boredom always settles in any long-term relationship. By engaging in ‘swapping with consent’ there’s always spice in the relationship. Many couples also claim it prevents ‘infidelity’, which is technically defined as a ‘breach of shared relationship values’.

With the above explanation, infidelity only occurs because one does NOT want the other to have sex with others. With partner swapping or swapping with consent, there is no rule or boundary breached so it’s ok.

Swapping vs. Threesomes

Partner swapping is different from threesomes because the latter usually indicates a couple taking in a 3rd party. With swapping, you (or your partner) is solely out there having sex with another person.

Swapping Benefits

If it’s truly a mutual decision, partner swapping can pose many benefits to your relationship. For one, if you and your partner are bi-curious, swapping enables you to explore these sides of your personalities without having to ‘expose’ the other to it.

Another benefit is the fact that you be more sexually adventurous. For example, say that you really want to try backdoor sex and your partner is equally adamant NOT to try it, swapping enables you to go ahead and try this without forcing your girlfriend / wife to engage in it.

Swapping is also a sex education experience. With the above example, it’s about trying something you really want but what about trying things you may never have even considered? For example, you and your partner NEVER watch adult movies together or do any form of role-playing. You engage in partner swapping and this other sexual partner introduces you to the joys of role-playing. Now you can go home to your partner and introduce a new sexual spice into your relationship!

Swapping Considerations

If you’re thinking of swapping, do take the following into consideration because while I’m all for sexual experimentation, I only advocate it if it’s something that furthers or enhances your relationship with your lover. And swapping is something that can seriously harm your relationship, than do it good.

Realize that something is lacking. Whatever way you look at it, agreeing to partner swapping is accepting the fact that something is missing in your relationship as it stands today. Think long and hard if swapping will indeed fill that hole.

Detachment. Sex is a very intimate activity. You must consider that swapping may in fact pull you and your partner apart from each other (and into the arms of your new partner) instead of you coming home with something that will bring you closer together.

Mull it over and be sure to make an informed and mutual decision!

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