Well, you’ve come to the right place. Shaving a woman is very different from shaving yourself. Women are built differently; their skin generally more sensitive and so shaving her mound is very different from shaving your face.

So, what’s it all about? It’s about comfort, safety and sexiness. Yes, there’s a real element of sex when you shave a woman, and the two of you might enjoy some of your best sex ever after she’s shaved… and you’re undoubtedly turned on.

Genital Shaving 101

First, don’t take your razor to her privates and assume that’s going to be just fine. You should have the following items handy at your side.

1. A woman’s razor (non electric);
2. women’s shaving cream (something that’s formulated for sensitive skin);
3. a light moisturizer.

Now, it’s best to do this in the shower or bathtub. Let her soak in the bath water, or get nice and wet under the shower. This helps to open her pores and makes it less likely that you’ll cut her or she’ll experience any discomfort afterwards.

Of course, taking a shower or bath together can also lead to things other than shaving, so enjoy that. I sure won’t mind if you put off the shaving for another time!

If you don’t want to do this in the tub or shower, you can shave her while she’s lying on the bed. Be sure to place a blanket or towel down first, and have a bowl of warm water nearby. This might be more comfortable for her, and it might be easier for you to really see what you’re doing (and enjoy the view at the same time).

Safety First

Remember that shaving her is not like shaving yourself. You are shaving her most private and sensitive area, so it’s critical that you remember to keep a light touch and shave first WITH the hair and then AGAINST the hair. This will ensure that you shave the hair right down to the quick, but you don’t irritate the area while doing it.

Although we’ll go into some step-by-step tips in a minute, it’s important to remind you that when you get near her lips, you must be very careful. That’s some of the most sensitive skin on a woman’s body and it can easily get nicked or cut.

Genital Shaving is Sexy!

For many couples, shaving is a form of foreplay and can lead to a fun time in bed afterwards so be sure to add some sexiness to the act of shaving her.

You might caress her before you begin shaving. Kiss her and finger her a bit. As you shave her, make meaningful eye contact and gently caress her legs, her behind, and her thighs. Tell her how beautiful she is.

Now, as to the actual shaving…

1. Make sure you have all your needed items at hand.
2. Decide where you want to do this – bathtub or shower, or on the bed.
3. If she hasn’t shaved in some time, use small scissors to first trim away the longer bits of hair before you begin shaving.
4. Apply a small amount of women’s shaving cream, being careful not to let any get into her vagina, where it could cause irritation or an infection.
5. Begin shaving with the growth of the hair first. Then go back and shave against the growth of the hair. You’ll get more hair when you shave against the growth, as you likely know, but it’s best to start by shaving with the growth of the hair, and then going against. This helps you adjust to the feel of shaving a woman’s mound and it gets rid of some hair right off the top. Keep alternating to get the cleanest shave.
6. Once you have cleaned the bulk of the area up, head inside her lips just a bit. A few stray hairs can remain, and to shave them you should be very gentle and detail-oriented. Just carefully shave them out so that her entire area is smooth and clean.
7. Put a small amount of moisturizing lotion on your hand and hold it there for a minute to get warm, and then gently slather this on your woman’s area.
8. From here, you can do whatever suits you. For many couples, a clean and smooth mound is a sexy mound, so have some fun with it!

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The best thing you can do, by contrast, is to have some sympathy, some compassion. But you can mix that compassion with a desire to get her turned on. Sometimes women are tired and just think that having sex is too much effort, but once they begin to get turned on, they forget they’re tired, they forget the headache.

So, how can you turn your woman on when she’s convinced that she can’t be turned on?

Top 6 Tips to Turn Your Woman On…

1. Take some of the workload away.

Argue all you want, but the truth is women carry more of the workload at home. Most women do the bulk of the cooking, the cleaning and the child rearing. Often they pay the bills, handle the social calendar and oversee home renovations and decorating. Hey, we’re busy!

If you want to help your woman relax, offer to do some of the work for her one night. Offer to cook, or bring dinner home. If you have children, tell her you’ll be the one to give them baths and get them in bed. She can rest and read a magazine.

Not only will you help her with her fatigue if you do these things, but you’ll make her appreciate you, which often puts women in the mood to show you how much she appreciates it?

2. Run a bath for her.

You’re horny as can be, but she’s saying she’s tired, has a backache, and a headache. Run her a bath, complete with bubbles and perhaps even some soothing, sexy music. Then leave her alone. Let her relax and soak up the pleasure of the bath. Not only will she appreciate you for doing this for her, but the bath will help her to relax and it might even rid her of her headache.

If she’s amenable, you might want to offer to wash her back or wash her hair. Both can be sensual and sexy. You might turn her on just through the sheer pleasure of either activity, which can lead from a relaxing massage to a sexual massage. Hey, you never know.

3. Offer her a drink.

You might do this while she’s in the tub, but the idea here is to help her relax. Now, we don’t suggest using alcohol as a crutch, but if she has a healthy (non-addictive) relationship with alcohol, then by all means, offer her a cocktail or a glass of wine.

The alcohol will help her relax, forget problems and focus on other things (which, you hope, will be lovemaking).

4. Give her a massage.

Again, just offering this will give her some appreciation for your generous nature, but you can turn this into a sensual massage by using oils, or just by giving her a slow, full body massage. Don’t be obvious (such as constantly having your hands and fingers foray into ‘sensitive’ areas on her body), but you can use gentle strokes to remind her that you’re there.

Also, don’t ask for a massage in return! This is about a non-reciprocal arrangement designed to help her relax, to get her in the mood for lovemaking.

5. Offer to cuddle with her.

Sometimes when women are feeling tired, or they are in the midst of a killer headache, they forget how therapeutic the human touch can be.

But if you know how to cuddle her correctly, you can help her forget those concerns and focus on you. Offer to let her lay on you while you watch TV or a movie she likes. Gently caress her head (not so much, though, that she falls asleep) and gently fondle her breasts. Don’t do it like you intend for that fondling to go further, but rather do it because you enjoy it. If you are gentle, you’ll soon notice that her body will automatically react to you.

6. Watch an adult-rated movie.

Yes, this is the most obvious of all the tips I’m offering to get her in the mood, but hear me out – the right x-rated movie can make a woman want to make love sooner than you think.

If you choose the movie wisely (tip: we’re suckers for romantic, adult-rated movies), you create an environment where she can realize and say, “Oh, yeah, sex IS fun. Let’s do it.” It might sound simplistic, but you’d be surprised at how effective this method can be.

One caveat about this tip, however – be sure that it’s OK with her to watch a romantic, yet adult movie tonight. If you just turn it on, you run the risk of completely turning her off. This has to be something you talk to her about first.

Alright! Use these tips the next time your woman says she’s just too tired, or has too much of a headache to make love. You could do all six of our tips in one night (which will surely lead to some fun) or you might incorporate only one or two, holding the others for another time. Either way there’s a good chance your woman will respond favorably.

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Common as part of tantric sex activities, genital massage is referred to as “yoni massage”. “Yoni” is the Sanskrit word for vagina or loosely defined, “sacred space”. Genital massage, then, is often called “yoni massage”.

Here’s how to give your partner a yoni massage. You don’t need to perform this perfectly. The idea here is to bring your lover pleasure, and if you are being gentle, loving and giving, you’ll also bring her that desired and deserved pleasure.

Comfort First!

First, make sure that she is comfortable. Place a large pillow behind her head. Ideally, she should be able to see you and make eye contact with you and also see her genitals.

Because the idea here is complete relaxation for her, make sure she’s completely comfortable. Often, there will be a soft blanket or towel placed under the hips. This will give her some comfort, especially if her legs are drawn up a bit. For her to fully enjoy a yoni massage, she must be totally relaxed and comfortable.

It should be a given that she’ll lie on her back with her genitals exposed. She should have her legs far enough apart that you can easily see her genitals and can have easy access to them.

Starting the Sensual Massage

Once she’s fully comfortable, begin massaging her body. Gently and lightly massage her breasts, her stomach, her legs and her feet. Do this gently and with a soft smile. There’s no need to be talking. This is about her relaxation and too much chatter will distract her from fully relaxing.

When you give a genital massage, you are only giving a massage and expecting nothing in return. That means you might not have the favor returned. This is useful in two ways – you are more likely to focus just on her and her pleasure if you know that your own pleasure isn’t at stake, and it allows her to fully relax knowing this is all about her.

Make solid and meaningful conversation with her as you begin and complete the massage. This isn’t chatter, but a ‘give and take conversation’ as she tells you what feels good. This is a way for the two of you to really connect, so take it seriously and enjoy the process.

It’s also important to know, as you begin the massage, that the goal of genital massage isn’t orgasm. Often that will be the end result, but it’s not a requirement.

Some women will simply soak up the attention and the good sensations without ever coming near orgasm; others will orgasm, perhaps more than once. Much depends on your woman’s personal threshold. Genital massage is often used for women who have a hard time reaching orgasm as it allows them to relax and learn to enjoy the sensations.

The Genital Massage

Now that your woman is relaxed, you can move more fully into the genital part of the massage. Here’s how:

Start by putting some lube on her. You can use some high-quality massage oil, or a lube you get from the drug store. The brand doesn’t matter. Don’t use too much; you just want to lightly lubricate the area. Now gently begin massaging her genital lips.

Watch her reactions. As she enjoys something, do it more and ask her to tell you what feels good. Again, avoid chatter for the sake of chatter, but do let her tell you how she’s feeling and what you can do more of.

After you have gently massaged the lips (even occasionally pinching them together, again lightly), you can move onto massaging the clitoris. This area of the woman’s body is extremely sensitive, so sensitive that most experts agree it’s three to four times more sensitive than the most sensitive part of a man’s anatomy, the glans.

Focus some attention here, but again, be gentle. Your objective here is to give her pleasure, but gentle pleasure. You’re not digging in looking for an orgasm. You’re looking to bring relaxation and pleasure.

Now insert one or two fingers in her and find her G spot. You can lightly massage it, flick it with your finger, or move your finger up and down on it. Continue massaging her outer parts as you do this.

Some women will tolerate a pinky finger in their ‘backdoor’. This, combined with the gentle yoni massage, is intensely pleasurable for some women. Again, let her guide you and be sure to respond appropriately to the clues she gives you.

Though, as we’ve said, the primary goal here isn’t orgasm, many women will find their orgasm during the process of genital massage. If yours does, let her enjoy that orgasm and then gently continue massaging her if she wants. Some women will have multiple orgasms this way, so give her time and space.

Once she has either had orgasm, or you both have relaxed and enjoyed the process, remain close to her. Cuddle or hold her if she wants.

And then pat yourself on the back! Giving a woman a genital massage is as much about her pleasure as your desire to give. Your generosity will be remembered and appreciated. Count on it!

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So perhaps you’ve wondered if your girl has faked it. Oh, you think she ALWAYS reaches a climax? Think again my friend because studies show that at least 60% to 70% of women admit to having faked it AT LEAST once.

So how can you tell if she’s faking it? Let’s look at five signs that she’s actually had an orgasm and four signs that might tell you she’s all about the act.

4 Fool-Proof Ways to Tell She’s Reached the Summit!

* She took her time. If you’re pass the early stages of your relationship then trust me, it would be extremely hard to make her reach her climax soon. So if you guys took your time with foreplay and she reaches a stage where she’s ‘in the zone’ then chances, her climax is real.

* Her nipples are REALLY hard. In men and women, the nipples will be hard when the body is aroused. If your woman is moaning in pleasure and indicating an orgasm is near, her nipples should be (almost) rock-hard. Now, there are some women for whom this won’t be true, but it is true for about 90% of women.

* She is ‘clutching’ you down there. During her orgasm, you should feel a twitching in her vagina, or you’ll feel it clenching. If you are stimulating her with your fingers pay attention to the vagina when she has an orgasm. If it’s a true orgasm, there will be activity there. You will notice if it you pay attention.

* She is spent! As you know, an orgasm can knock the wind out of you! So she will need some time to recover after an orgasm. If she hops out of bed, puts on her clothes and returns to previous activities, there’s a chance she faked it. Most women are like most men – they need at least a few minutes to come down from their climactic high and rest a bit. THEN they can return to normal activities.

And 4 Fool-Proof Ways to Tell She’s Faking It!

* She is coherent with her speech. If she’s allegedly having an orgasm and she’s talking to you in a coherent tone and without much inflection, she’s not having an orgasm. Sure, she might do the old, “Oh my god, my god, oh… (fill in your name here)” but she shouldn’t be able to talk in one tone or come out with a perfect grammatically-correct sentence. You see, oftentimes, the body and the mouth know not what they do during an orgasm, so she shouldn’t sound that ‘pulled together’ during an orgasm.

* Her skin is ‘normal’. Your woman should look flushed after an orgasm. Her skin should be a bit warm (or hot even) and sweaty. As a woman orgasms, blood flows through her skin. And no matter what her skin tone or coloring is, she will be flushed.

* She’s too noisy or talks too dirty. In the end, YOU should notice certain patterns in her lovemaking and how she reaches an orgasm. If your woman is the quiet type and all of a sudden she’s talking like a porn actress in a movie then she might be over compensating for something. You see most women do have their ‘orgasm trademarks’ so if all of a sudden goes completely out of character, chances are, she’s faking it.

* Her body is not ‘orgasmically synchronized’! An orgasm is an all-body experience. So if she’s shouting your name but not clenching her hands or curling her toes or shutting her eyes (or look like her eyes are bulging out of their sockets), the she’s faking it.

I hope these tips help you and if you do find out that she’s faking it… now what?

Well, don’t worry. Take it like a challenge and aim to be the best lover ever to walk the planet! In short, up your lovemaking game plan. Pretty soon, she’ll be the one wondering why she ever thought it necessary to fake an orgasm.

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mmm….

HOT.

There’s not better description, really!

Relax, and let these gorgeous women give you your “sex ed” class of the day.

Enjoy!

Gabrielle Moore

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Don’t think that your partner may be completely against this idea. You might be surprised to find out that she’s more than willing to put on a costume and ‘assume a role’. Why? Most women feel less inhibited if they take on another persona. For instance, she may feel shy talking dirty on film but give her a dominatrix costume and that may change in a minute!

If you want to help her find just the right costume (or you want to get it for her), consider these Top 7 outfits for the bedroom.

The French Maid

Yes, it’s been around forever, but for good reason. The French Maid is a costume that men enjoy looking at (which we’ll delve into in a minute) and that women enjoy because they can be flirty and sensual without being overly sexual (though there is room for that as well).

Men seem to enjoy the French Maid because she’s usually made up and she might have to bend over and pick something up. She’s sexy but not overly sexual.

That doesn’t mean this costume doesn’t scream sex though. From the fishnet stockings to the very short skirt to the garter, there’s much about this costume that says “come and get me”.

The Sexy Nurse

Need a little help there, sir? This nurse is sure to help. She’s professional, capable and self-assured. And if you look at her or touch her just right, she’s willing to make you feel ‘really good’.

Nurse costumes are extremely popular. There’s an element of danger there (she’s working, should you really be flirting with her?, etc.), and the sense that you will be well taken care of. Don’t forget to add the thigh-high stockings.

The Naughty & Innocent Schoolgirl

This costume is an easy one to fashion at home for those who don’t want to purchase a full-blown costume. The naughty schoolgirl is appealing for a few reasons: she should be off-limits, she might be extremely dirty if you give her a chance and she’s either grossly inexperienced, or she has much more experience than you anticipate.

Naughty schoolgirl costumes are big sellers at costume stores, but this costume can easily be put together at home with a short skirt, knee-high socks, a shirt tied to reveal a bare midriff and ponytails.

The Wench

That’s right; I said wench. You have always wanted a wench for your very own, haven’t you? The wench costume is popular largely for its message – she’s easy.

A wench is an easy, experienced and very naughty woman. Putting your woman in this costume lets both of you have some fun with the notion that she’s a very bad girl, in a good-in-the-bedroom kind of way.

The Stripper

You might argue that this one doesn’t need a costume, but all strippers start with something on them. It’s the taking off that’s interesting! This costume is always popular thanks to its accessibility. Any woman can put on some lingerie, makeup and very high heels and put themselves in the role of a stripper.

Men like the costume because it gives them the sense that they can sleep with that sexy, professional woman who would normally be off limits.

The Stewardess

Are you ready to join the Mile High Club? That’s what this costume represents. Having fun with this costume reminds you that you can have fun anywhere, including at 30,000 feet, or just a few feet off the floor in your own bed. And, best of all, you can have fun with the sexy stewardess who keeps winking at you.

The stewardess costume must include a tight dress (or skirt and jacket to create a suit) and high heels. It also should include a low cut top, perhaps a scarf around the neck and a lady wearing the costume who knows how to be professional, yet make you feel ultra comfortable!

The Playboy Bunny

It’s trite, but the Playboy bunny is still a hot seller among adult costumes. This costume is appealing to men because it finally places the bunny in a place where you can have her. You can touch her, and you can be the one to play with her tail, if you know what I mean. There is a sweet naughtiness to this costume that appeals to a wide range of men (and women).

So the next time you decide to film your erotic video, role-play with these sexy and popular costumes! You just never know what kind of lovemaking will ensue until you try.

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This sex game though can be a bit deceiving. It starts of more on the fun side but the consequences are extremely sensual, making it the perfect sex game for beginners. You know, those who are not yet fully comfortable getting naked in the bathroom with their lover there as well.

How to Play the Shower Cowboy and Cowgirl Sex Game

First off, you guys need water pistols! Get into the bathroom with your undergarments still on. Fill the water pistol with water and try as much as you can to drench your lover’s underwear with water. (It would be fantastic if she’s wearing translucent undies!) This would be a great voyeur-type of experience for you!

What about her then? She can of course do the same. In fact, you guys can try and ‘shoot’ at each other at the same time and after a given period (bring a timer inside the bathroom), check which one’s undergarments are more drenched in water. The one that’s more soaked loses and as such must remove all his/her clothes off!

The one who’s now completely naked should stand against the wall while the other one is on the opposite end of the bathroom. The one still with clothes should then try to ‘aim’ at his/her lover’s body. This time though, instead of using water, use diluted chocolate.

Use anything that has a bit of color and is EDIBLE. After, say 30 seconds or so of ‘shooting’, the shooter gets to lick off each and every part of the other’s body that was hit by the chocolate. Of course, the shooter should hit as many erogenous zones on his/her partner’s body possible.

Shower Cowboy and Cowgirl Sexual Playing Cards

A variation of this sex game is to make use of adult playing cards. Draw a card and see which body part you should aim for. If you hit the spot, then draw a card from the Kama Sutra set of playing cards (or any similar deck) and perform the deed on the card. On the other hand, if you miss the spot, your partner gets to draw from her ‘penalties box’ which can either be sexually related or a chore you have to do!

Another variation to this sex game is to make full use of that timer you brought along. Pick a card to see which body part you should aim for. If you hit the spot, then draw a card from the Kama Sutra set of playing cards (or any similar deck) and perform the deed on the card but this time, only for a specific period of time. You can have another deck of cards where you can pick out time or simply apply an ascending time period. So for example, you can start off the time period at 5 seconds, and then for the second deed, go for 10 seconds, and so on.

Shower Cowboy and Cowgirl Bull’s Eye Board

This time, instead of ‘shooting’ at each other, aim at a sexual dart board of some kind. Shoot at the board with your water pistol and see which sexual activity it lands on. You then of course need to do the deed so aim for sexual activities that you’d like to perform instead of receive. If you don’t hit anything on the board, then you completely miss your sexual treat and it’s your partner’s turn to aim at the board!

As mentioned above, a sex game involving shower pistols seems to be more fun than ‘serious’ and as such is a great way to encourage your partner to start engaging in sex games. Of course, as you can tell from the likely consequences that that’s quite deceiving. But don’t worry, once your lover is already into the game, it’s quite hard to back off from it because of the sexual pleasures it can bring.

Just remember that there’s really no ‘competition’ here. Don’t get annoyed if you miss treats or if your partner never seems to hit a target! Just think of all the practice you need to do to get this right.

Enjoy yourselves!

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Please relax and watch this video…

After you finished watching, I want you to answer this question:

Do you want MORE???

Well, that´s when you´ll understand the concept of “sexual tension”!

You need to make your partner WANT MORE. And sllooowly give it to her. That´s where “sexual tension” is created.

Please try it tonight. It works.

Enjoy the video!

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The shower sex game Amsterdam windows comes from this and for you to play the game, you seriously need some glass shower stalls!

Amsterdam Windows 101

This sex game is great for your relationship and has different elements in it. There’s the play on voyeurism (on your part), on self-pleasuring (on both your parts) and on role-playing (on her part) so let’s get started!

For this sex game, you can opt to engage in foreplay or not. Opting for foreplay means you can easily be on your way to playing the sex game but opting for the latter has some fun too. How? If you don’t engage in foreplay, then it’s up to your partner to bring you to a level of arousal without touching you!

Now for the mechanics of this sex game…

With the bathroom dimly set, your partner should stand behind the shower stall and turn on the shower. She should have a sexy, white t-shirt on so you can clearly see how her nipples get turned on by the blast of water running down her body.

As for you, you’re sitting on a chair on the OTHER side of the glass shower stall. Hello voyeurism!

Your partner should now put on all her charms and get you as turned on as much as possible. She can continue on to have her t-shirt on or she can proceed to take an achingly slow shower, making sure you can see all those suds slide down her body and how she touches herself all over. This part brings out the role-playing in her. She can pretend to be in an adult movie shower scene!

To increase the heat factor, she can then move on to more daring moves such as pushing her body against the glass for your torment or… start self-pleasuring yourself. At this stage, you may also want to do the same thing. Note that on this move, you are both fulfilling a sex fantasy that thousands of couples dream up everyday… the fantasy of watching your lover play with him/herself!

How the sex game Amsterdam Windows ends is totally up to you. Here are some scenarios.

You guys can stop as you both reach your climaxes apart. (Each behind his end of the shower stall glass, sexy!)

You can join each other under the shower and proceed to making love. (A personal favorite of mine!)

Or you guys can switch roles! This time, it’s YOUR turn to try and bring her to slow and sexy torment.

Note that through the duration of this sex game, there must be NO communication between the two of you whatsoever. Act like strangers, with the one sitting down getting turned on simply by what the other chooses to do from his/her end of the ‘window’.

As if this sex game is not steamy enough, there are other things you can add to modify the sex game to your further liking.

- Make the objective of the game the shortest time a partner can make the one sitting down reach a climax.

- Add music to the equation. You can pre-mix music that alternates between soft and sexy and rough and hard. With this element, the one behind the glass should coordinate his/her sexy movements to the music.

- Add video to the equation. If you guys know of a really hot shower scene in a movie, get a clip of it and play it. In this scenario the objective is to make the one behind the glass ‘act out’ the scene completely.

Be your own adult movie stars. Discuss if you want to videotape the whole sex game for your viewing pleasure later.

The sex game Amsterdam windows has a lot going for it. It brings in many sex fantasy elements that you guys can finally engage in without necessarily being too shy or coy about it. By simply adding the element of the steamy, glass shower stalls, it’s amazing how couples can be so ‘free’ and finally make their fantasies come to life.

Enjoy!

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I want you to watch this video with your partner. Trust me, I normally tell couples to watch sexy videos together before having sex. And it really works!

So please relax, and let this very sexy woman turn both of you on.

IMPORTANT: Make sure you’re by yourself or with your partner only. It’s very… sexy, let’s put it that way.

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