Female Hot Buttons 101

Do you really know what buttons to push to turn your girlfriend / wife from horny to slutty? Sometimes, men can be sooo clueless as to what turns us women on that I consider it my DUTY to inform you which parts of our bodies you should touch, kiss, lick and caress to get maximum response. Ready? Read on!

Female erogenous zones

Touch the back of my neck.
Push her hair to the side and run a finger down the middle of the back of neck all the way down her spine. Now kiss her neck as your arms circle forwards… and downwards.

Lick my breasts.
Oh, don’t get me wrong. I know you guys know that our breasts are very sensitive and that lavishing them with attention gets us really going in bed but there are still quite a few things you may now know.

For instance, did you know that licking the undersides of our breasts makes us tingle all over? Try this: pin your lover against the wall and slowly peel off her upper clothing. Remove her bra and don’t go for her nipples just yet. Lick the undersides of her breasts first, licking up AS IF you’re aiming for the nipple already and then pull back.

Touch my backdoor.
Tell your lover that tonight you’ll be giving her asexual massage. Now, put some warm oil on your hands and gently massage her buttocks. As she begins to relax, start to plant kisses on her behind. As he gets used to the kisses, start licking. And then just when she’s relaxed again, part her buttocks slightly and lick her along the length of her buttocks. This will send her a sexual charge like no other and before she can comment, plant a kiss directly on her anus. If she doesn’t tell you to stop, proceed to licking it until she can’t take it anymore and turns around.

Graze it.
Women love it when you guys are a bit subtle. It heightens our sexual tension. For example, one of the things my lover does that drives me crazy is when he starts to massage my legs, he slowly makes his way up my thighs and gently parts them, for better massage access he says. This will go on for a few minutes and then just when I least expect it, he dips his head and grazes my hair down there. No kissing. No licking. But it’s enough to send sexual charges throughout my body! He will do this on and off and then proceed to sticking his tongue to lick the length of me down there. That’s it… ONE LICK.

It drives me crazy that after 2-3 of these I BEG him for some oral action, which of course is exactly what he wants me to do.

If you really want to know what else you can do with those HOT BUTTONS of hers, click here!

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26 Responses to “Female Hot Buttons 101”

  1. DaleNo Gravatar Says:

    Like waking my GF in the morning by running my lips and finger tip across her butt and all over. In no time she has her butt in the air begging for me to fuck her.

  2. andy brinzeyNo Gravatar Says:

    How Gabrielle, I must tell you that you are right! I do this to my wife and she orgasms by the time I get to the back door!

  3. RodneyNo Gravatar Says:

    you should never have to apologize for the great articles you write just because some don’t approve. some people just need to grow up. keep them coming and uncensored. :-)

  4. MT GuyNo Gravatar Says:

    “Touch my backdoor”… is anybody else out there aware of just what it is that comes out of her backdoor?

    You may want to look up the e coli bacteria and what it’s capable of doing to you if it gets inside your body.

    Note: what comes out of her ‘backdoor’ is full of this little goodie.

  5. wolfNo Gravatar Says:

    its good to see the many sides to the art of love making be it here or ther the jugement is in each of us and should never reflect on a nohter ,keep up the good work,everthing in live hase two sideds, thanks till next time

  6. StacyNo Gravatar Says:

    I love your articles. Of course it’s not all for me. I pick and choose what I want to try. So I agree don’t be sorry. Some might think swapping can highten sex with their partner. Not for me but may be for some. Just like strapping on a dildo and doing my husband isn’t for me. Bu different strokes for different folks. I love to lick and have my ass licked. Although we know what comes out of there it’s still pretty hot :-) thanks for all the great tips.

  7. Robert H.No Gravatar Says:

    Wife swapping my wife and I tried it one night with some friends,it was exciting but when they left we were up for the next 4 hours. You have to be secure in your relationship. We enjoyed that night we r going to try it again with the same couple!! WOW set the rules before you start!!!

  8. Ed BrownNo Gravatar Says:

    Gabrielle love your topics everyone of them..some people just need to open their eyes an close their mouths….doesn’t matter what comes out,there are worse things that are in the mouth,more germs an bacteria than anywhere else…so keep up the good work an doing what you do best..being sweet wonderful you…love ya

  9. RobertNo Gravatar Says:

    MT GUY says that we should be aware of what comes out of the back door and I agree, BUT (no pun intended) I would like to point out to MT GUY that my woman spends a great deal of time making sure that she is always clean and if everyone that licked the BACK DOOR stopped to think about e coli then we all would have a screen name that is MT GUY or should I say EMPTY GUY. Think about it you will have alot more excitement in your life and so would your MT woman.

  10. ajayNo Gravatar Says:

    great,gabrial,pl keep informing such great hot buttons so that she can enjoy full journey of sex

  11. SandyNo Gravatar Says:

    Your articles are the best. I ALWAYS find something in them. I loved the swapping article as I have joined that lifestyle. Don’t worry about what you send out – people will either read or not – their choice. Keep them coming. Thanks

  12. debendraNo Gravatar Says:

    Dear gabby,
    u don;t have to say sorry to us.it was a different idea may be most of the people doesn’t like however a at least somethink different.once again u gave us beautiful article.
    thanx
    kissses

  13. jamesNo Gravatar Says:

    u certainly should not worry about your last article thats your perspective.

  14. jamesNo Gravatar Says:

    oh dear .which you explained is the key button of the pleasure and it works amazingly responce to me.thnkyou somuch. expeting more to learn from you.

  15. EwertNo Gravatar Says:

    What a great subject gabs thank you very much,my gf will love it

  16. TedNo Gravatar Says:

    I think most of us wants to know everything you share with us. How about a threesome? Some advices and descriptions will be fine. Hopefully both with one man and two women and with two men and one woman.
    Always wants to learn moore about sex.
    Thank you very much Gabrielle!

  17. charlesNo Gravatar Says:

    hi gaby, thanks for your efforts! keep on the good work!

  18. JennNo Gravatar Says:

    I don’t know what people are so up tight we followed the swapping thing and it was awsome our sex life had become a little ordenary so we went to a sex party and had alot of fun we didn’t go for the full swap we’ll save that for a special night you don’t have to appologize at all thanks you’ve really helped my husband he is now amazing in bed he hits my spot every time some time 3 times

  19. sbwrNo Gravatar Says:

    i enjoyed the swapping article – but it was not for me – i cannot share – which is why i am game for anything he wants to try – OMG i enjoy so very much having my backdoor stimulated – and i always make sure it is clean – safety first – but he has a problem with it – in our 13yrs – i have only been able to get him to touch me 3or4 different times over the years during foreplay – and my breast he doesn’t spend time there either maybe a nip or two while durring sex but not before – I am planning to sharing these articles with him when he gets home so keep them coming – TTFN

  20. OldloverNo Gravatar Says:

    Hi gal..
    I love all your tips.I’m just what my name implies..Old lover. Even tho I’ve been around for a very long time with tons of experience, I gain so much from your articles!The act of kissing my lovers backside has always been a delight for both of us We use our tongues and lips and you are 100% correct, so keep the advice coming!

  21. miltonNo Gravatar Says:

    Gabrielle, there is no need to apologise.I don’t think that you forced any of us to practice the so called “SWAPPING”. I believe in this saying, “let someone advise you but not to decide for you”. I picked interest in that article and i will soon try it.
    Otherwise,today’s article is fantastic.
    “BRAVO” GABRIELLE!!!!!!!!!.

  22. NGNo Gravatar Says:

    its really true

    especially the grazing one, I have tried it several times and it had worked miracles

    cheers

  23. DouglasNo Gravatar Says:

    You’ve got good tips. Advice to let there be godly touch in your articles so that all can benefit,nice work to keep relationship together.tanx

  24. etremeNo Gravatar Says:

    Hello gabrielle,

    First and foremost I must tell you that it was just a chanced rendevouz that I came to this excellent site of yours, and I quickly registered for ur emails.
    And without fail each and every day just like a medicine dose, I have received ur emails everyday.
    After reading through the emails my total thought towards sex has changed. Specially after going through this particuar topic of hot buttons.
    I tried everythinh on my girl friend and she was like ” God you have touched my very soul today”
    These words were enough to satisfy me and all the THANKS to u.
    Right now I am not in a position to order ur book but will suerly do it as and when possible
    Thanks a lot once again.
    Urs

  25. jamesNo Gravatar Says:

    gabby,, you’re anus simulations idea is great,, massage her bum ,then kiss d anus point followed by
    tougue wiping.. i did that 2 my neighbour – she’s
    30 yrs.. she ’s loved the pleasure and she force me
    to push tongue deep into her anus..

  26. i love itNo Gravatar Says:

    IT HAS BEEN GREAT KNOWING SUCH ,WE WILL ENJOY.THANKS

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