Get Her From “I’m Not in the Mood!” to “Let’s Get It On!”
Hi! Gabrielle Moore here.
Are you finding yourself in the mood for sex more often than your lady—a lot more often? If so, you’re not alone. Many men share this common complaint. But don’t worry! Just because your lady says she’s not in the mood doesn’t mean you can’t get her there!
All it takes is a few adjustments in your approach. And the following tips are three sure-fire techniques that are known to work!

Tip #1: Connect with her!
Remember—women are emotional creatures. Where men get turned on more by their physical senses, such as sight, sound and touch, women’s sexual buttons are linked directly to their hearts and minds. This means fondling your lady and asking her if she wants to have sex will only turn you on—not her! To push her sexual buttons, you need to connect to her emotional side. Talk to your lady. Tell her how much you appreciate all that she does. Tell her how beautiful she is and how just looking at her and thinking about her gets you going. Hug her, rub her feet, and do something nice and out of the ordinary for her.
At first, your lady might think you’ve lost your mind, especially if this is not something you do often (shame on you!). But if you continue your loving ways, your lady will soon want to love on you!
Tip #2: Create the mood!
Sometimes all a woman needs to be in the mood for sex is to know she’s loved. And you can let her know by creating a little romance! Set up a warm bubble bath for your lady and tell her there’s a foot massage waiting for her when she’s done, with no sexual strings attached. Let her know that you’re doing this for her and her only. Make her a special dinner or order a dish you know she likes from her favorite restaurant. Instead of eating it at the table by candlelight (boring!), set up a blanket on the floor by the fireplace, in the back yard, or in another location she would never expect. The more creative you are with your tactics, the better!
Although your lady might be a bit suspicious of your intentions at first, if you make the moment all about her instead of all about sex, she’ll soon let down her defenses. If she asks what’s gotten into you, just tell her you realized how lazy you’ve gotten when it comes to showing her how much she means to you and how much you love her. Eventually, your woman will let her guard down and “feel” all sorts of loving emotions, which is just the mood you want to create for her. Remember—her emotions are linked directly to her sexual buttons!
Tip #3: Mix it up!
If you and your lady have been together for quite awhile, chances are you’ve gotten into a sexual rut. Keep in mind that although you might be enjoying whatever sex you can get from her, for a woman, the same old sexual routine is a lot like watching her favorite movie over and over again. No matter how much she liked it in the beginning, it’s not as enjoyable now that she knows what’s going to happen next. This is the reason many women rely on the fake orgasm. It’s like a fast forward button that helps get them to the end a lot quicker!
To get out of your sexual rut, mix things up! Don’t just sit there like a dog waiting for his master to take him for a walk. Be the strong man that you are and take charge in the bedroom. Approach her in a way that’s completely different than how you normally approach her for sex. Take time to build your lady up to the climax. And, NO! The climax is not the orgasm—the climax is when your lady wants nothing more than for you to be inside of her. To get her to that point, run your hands slowly over her body, caress her breasts, and gently kiss her from her mouth all the way down to her belly button—making sure to use your tongue along the way. And TAKE YOUR TIME! A woman loves it when her man runs his fingers through her hair and tenderly cups her head in the palm of his hands as he kisses her. She also loves it when you move her hair away from her shoulders and touch the back of her neck with your lips. It’s guaranteed to send chills all the way down her spine and directly to her most intimate parts!
As a man, it’s important for you to remember that a woman’s desire for sex comes from her heart and mind first—not her body! How she feels about “you” in her heart and mind each and every day has EVERYTHING to do with how often she wants to have sex with you. So give your lady what she wants and needs! Connect with her emotional side first, create a loving mood, and then work her body over. By doing this, you’ll not only give her what she needs to say, “Let’s get it on!” You’ll also get just what you want and need—more sex!
Enjoy!!!
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Marcy Taylor
Says:
I am a woman, and all of these statements are true for me!
vincent
Says:
great tip i will try it
slim
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it really works, pukka job
Rob
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Hey Gabrielle, you are absolutely right, especially the “lazy” part, in the routine, complements often are forgotten and is the only right way to keep her buttons activated..Thanks for your reminders and tips, always enjoying it…
talflo
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Hola Gab,
i enjoyed your mail very much. Looking forward to reading more.
Sithandekile
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I love your work you rock my world.Ever since i started receiving your mail ihave orgasmed everytime i have sex.
You are the best.
Love
Ira
Says:
Thank you for the advise. My wife told me the next day that she really feels like a queen. And we had the best sex ever
Justus Munene
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Hi Gabbie, thanks so much for the tips, i get such hang ups from my lady sometimes and am sure this will help alot. i have a question, i touch her alot and rub her clitoris then put my thumb in her for a while and this causes her to orgasm and spill waters from inside her. is this to mean that i do her well? this makes sex all the better for us especially after she’s splashed the waters because the pussy is wider and smoother and she orgasms the same way again. is this the ultimate level of orgasm?
Gezahegn
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I have got deep Knowledge from you. and I can solves many problems about the relation ship b/n me and my wife.my previous problems are:-
A/pre-ejaculation problem
B/to get my wife sexual sense problem
c/ To get her mood problem and so on…
in the future i will learn more from you
God bless you
sigit
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thanks Gab…..nice
Ali
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Great, i’am sure it will work with my lady,
Best regards to the best Gabrielle…
blanche
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im a woman and your emails blow my mind and i have started teaching my boyfriend everything you say. Everytime i see him we are at it. HE thinks im on a suppliment but he still does not get it. It took you to teach us that sex is powerful,fun and intriguing.
thank you for changing my sex life for the better.
ogbonji
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this is a great advice expecting more from my dear gabrielle. your wonderful