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The G-Spot FAQ

Every day I get TONS of questions about the elusive g-spot. So today I decided to enlighten you with some facts about it and of course some tips on how you can bring your lover to a ‘Big O’ via the ‘Elusive G’.

What is the G-Spot?

The g-spot is actually named after German gynecologist Ernst Grafenberg, who is the one credited for having discovered this sweet area in women in the 1950’s. Since then a lot of debated has come up as to whether this spot even exists. This is because research on the subject has been limited because, well, I guess there are not a lot of volunteers!

However, recent studies (based on MRI scans and biopsies) have revealed that the g-spot does in fact exist so now, more than ever, is the time to really have fun in the bedroom!

How Big is the G-Spot?

Women vary so there is no single diameter we can affix the gspot. There is, however, a guideline of sorts. It’s said to be about one fourth of an inch to about two inches.

What’s the Texture of the G-spot?

The g-spot is reputed to be soft but a bit rough. It has the softness of a woman’s clitoris but it has a ridge-like texture. Many say it’s just like the upper wall of your mouth so run your tongue over that area for an idea.

Why is Foreplay Important in the Quest to Find the Gspot?

Foreplay is important because the gspot, just like the clitoris, gets puffed up when aroused. So the more foreplay you guys engage in, the more titillated she will be and the bigger her g-spot will be. This will make it extremely easy for you to find it. Also, being fully aroused means she’s very wet which prevents any pain as you go in and try to find that sweet nub of hers.

WHERE is the G-Spot Located?

Again, keep in mind that all women are different so there’s no exact area. However, here are the guidelines. The g-spot is located at the front of her vaginal wall, about 2-3 inches from her ‘opening’. Think of her navel as positioned at 12 o’clock; between 11 o’clock and 1 11 o’clock is her g-spot.

What’s the Best Way to Find the G-Spot?

I suggest that your woman tries to find her g-spot alone first. A woman’s body has many secrets, nooks & crannies, and each one of us has a unique way of becoming really aroused. So it’s important that SHE gets to know her body first before you join the picture.

The benefits of her engaging in self-pleasure are two-fold: (1) she becomes better at being able to guide you more during sex regarding what techniques really bring her pleasure, which in turn (2) removes any frustration or even pain that may occur as you try and find her gspot.

Trust me, finding and stimulating the g-spot to its fullest does not happen overnight. A lot of ‘trial and error’ can be prevented if your woman engages in self-love first.

Now, as for the mechanics on how to locate the spot, read on. (Instructions below are for her.)

- Lie down on your back and place small pillow on your lower back to elevate your hips.
- Think erotic thoughts so you start to get wet.
- Play with your clitoris.
- As you become really wet and aroused, insert a finger or two (palm facing upwards) inside you. Keep in mind the general location and texture described above.
- Once you find your g-spot, apply various speeds and techniques to stimulate it. Enjoy!
- After reaching your Big O, think about what you really liked and what really turned you on so you can let your lover know what you want.

Once your woman has done the above steps, feel free to join her for the next session!

She Needs to Pee?!?

Oftentimes, as the g-spot is stimulated, your woman will have this burning desire to take a leak. This is because the g-spot is located near her bladder and stimulating it induces this sensation to urinate. However, don’t stop what you’re doing. The feeling will soon subside and she really won’t pee.

What are the Best Positions for a G-spot Orgasm?

The best positions for g-spot climaxes are woman-on-top and ‘flat doggie-style’. For the former, this is great because she can easily angle her body to whatever position so your penis gets to reach her gspot better.

For the latter position, she should lie down on her belly and only spread her legs slightly. You enter her from behind, while also keeping yourself in a horizontal position. She should then bring her legs together tighter. This produces more friction as you thrust and positions your penis to thrust with a slightly upward angle, which is great for hitting her gspot.

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