Hot Tips to Help Her Give You the Best Oral Ever
There’s no doubt about it. Men love to receive oral sex and for the most part, women do love to give oral to their men. So what if your partner is not too keen on giving you oral sex? Does that mean you need to beg for it all the time? Not at all…
How to Make Her LOVE Giving You Oral Sex
Be Clean
For the most part, if a woman does not like giving oral sex then it’s a hygiene issue. Hold on! Before you start protesting, consider this. Sure, you bathe every morning but by the time you come home to your lover, surely you have visited the men’s room a couple of times at least and maybe even perspired a bit. Even those ‘little’ things can be conducive to your aroma down there. Keep in mind that your manhood has been ‘locked up’ all day and the exact minute you pull down your drawers may not be the best time for her to go down on you. So what to do?
Take a shower! It’s the easiest and cheapest way to ensure you smell clean and fresh down there. If you’re right smack in the middle of foreplay then simply suggest taking a sensual bath together!
You Are What You Eat
In the TV show Sex and the City, there’s this very popular episode where one of the characters has an issue swallowing her lover’s cum because it was ‘funky’.
Now, you may say that you are not at all forcing your woman to swallow your cum but you do emit some wetness of your own during oral sex you know. It’s called pre-cum and if it’s funky too you can bet that your lover will not be too enthusiastic to give you oral.
Also, come on, you KNOW you want her to at least try and swallow it even once so it’s in your best interest to make everything easy for her to choose to do just that.
So, if your cum is funky, why is that? Most likely it’s your diet. If you love to eat food with a lot of spices in it or like garlicky food, then chances are your cum will be ‘funky’. If you chug down cups of coffee, then your cum may have a bitter taste too. To change all this, simple change your diet.
Try to incorporate more fruits like kiwis, berries and pineapple into your food intake to change your cum from ‘funky’ to ‘sweet nectar’.
Of course, you can also incorporate certain edible things during oral sex to sort of disguise the taste of your cum; for this purpose, liquid chocolate, whipped cream, edible lube, and other come to mind.
Avoid Making Oral a ‘Movie Sex’ Moment
Contrary to what you see in adult movies, most women do NOT actually like it if you shove your manhood down her throat. It can be quite painful you know! So be gentle and let HER be in control of just how far down she wants you to go.
Think of Her Comfort Too
If women take their time to reach a climax, men can sometimes take forever too though oral sex. And although your lover may be willing to see it through till you reach your orgasm, she might not do so simply because she’s uncomfortable!
For instance, Jean (real name withheld for privacy) once told me that she and her lover like to have showers together which of course ends in her kneeling down and giving him oral. She loves doing it but she can’t do it long because it hurts her knees!
Anyway, her lover thought she just doesn’t like to give him oral and really wanted to experience that with her. Suffice it to say that after this issue was cleared out, they found out together that the best – and most pleasurable – position for them was to have him lying in bed while she lies on her stomach and gives him oral. For ‘variation’ they do the 69 too every now and then!
Nonoy D. Flores
Says:
I’ve been dreaming to have one, yet none has been instituted so far. Maybe in our 25th year wedding anniversary. Maybe i just failed to change to an appropriate style and setting. I’ll love to try it.
Thanks a lot and best regards.
Nonoy
Nonoy D. Flores
Says:
I’ve not experienced having an oral sex with my wife. However, someone did that to me when i was still single and in college. Oh girl, need to have one again but in an appropriate atmosphere and setting.
Best regards,
Nonoy
colin
Says:
hi yes my wife give me the best oral sex i had she is very good at it she love do it to me and i like doing it to her as well .one thing i like she suck me soft to hard that great she take i all you should try it.am very lucky man thanks colin x
robert
Says:
the information you send is most helpful,for a more enjoyable,and fulfilling sex life.
Tony
Says:
There is nothing better,than a nice,exciting bath together with my lover after a long,busy day,before a hot 69.Love it.
SAMUEL LARTEY
Says:
PLEASE IT IS A TABOO IN OUR TRADITION TO HAVE ORAL SEX, SO HOW CAN I CONVINCE HER TO ACCEPT IT.
Bill
Says:
After I go down on my girl…My mostache catches an “aroma” noticable to my wife. What do you recommend before or after oral sex to mask of eliminate the sent of a woman?
RAWNETTE
Says:
firt off im a woman who will not giv eney woman oril sex becuse its wrong but i am a womam who will giv men oril sex
alisha hart
Says:
i love this advice i have to show my boyfriend this because hes always trying to push my head down to make me deepthroat it. thank you for your advice i can really use this
Tom
Says:
Getting oral is great, but I like to think of it as foreplay for the real pleasure. I love to have my wife stand up at the side of the bed still wearing her sexy, silk panties. She bends over, pulls hte panty leg to the side and I get to feel her panties with my hands, watch my thrust go in and out of her and her panties and listen to her moaning sounds of pleasure.
The best thing about our marriage is be both want to do whatever it takes to get the other partner off as much with the most intense pleasure possible. I love panties and my wife gives me a panty party every once in a while. I lay down and she rubs her panties all over me, mounts me and keeps rubbing the panties on my nipples, chest and face until I explode.
boyd
Says:
I enjoy giving and recieving oral pleasures, but i like givig alittle more than recieving…. its like a game for me lets see how hot and wet i can make her get on my tongue or how long she can last before begging for sex, or how much cum i can get in ten minutes… oral conquest is the term…..
maegan
Says:
I have given oral to all my men,they always want more.My tip is to concentrate on all the sensitive parts of the penis,your tongue holds all the secrets.Do not allow them to cum as you want them down on you,which then usually brings on a hot 69.
junior
Says:
i had oral its so great i want her to give it to me all the time.
Ron
Says:
Hi Gabrielle! Fantastic advice! Love, Ron
jim
Says:
I do not know my my wife of 20 years this may will not give me a bj
she thinks it is disgusting…
also the odd time she lets me go down on her she loves it and all of a sudden pushes me a way and says stop…
She definately enjoys it but some thing kicks in…
I try to have foreplay before sex but she likes to get it over fast..quickly
Tried talking..ends up crying