How to Encourage Her to Masturbate
By now, you probably know that A LOT of women do not reach an orgasm during intercourse. And sadly, nearly all the blame is put on you, her lover. Well, the truth is, each one of us should be responsible for our own sexual happiness, right?
Unfortunately, it has somehow been burned into our minds that self-pleasuring or masturbation is a ‘guy thing’. In reality, engaging in self-love is one of the best things a woman can do so that she gets to understand her body better… and in return, she’ll be able to guide YOU on how to help her reach an orgasm better and faster.
So if your woman is one who has been ‘brainwashed’ into thinking that masturbation is ‘bad’, it’s your job to convince her otherwise. And trust me, you’ll have a lot of wild fun doing that.
Self-Love Tips for HER
Firstly, lead by example. I mean if she expects that self-pleasuring is normal for you then might as well prove her right, right? Seriously, what you’re trying to do here is to show her how OK it is and how much pleasure one can derive from self-love. Besides, who better a teacher than you?!?
Secondly, treat her to some hot lingerie. Lingerie makes men horny as it makes women feel hot and sexy. So really this gift is a win-win situation. Buy her some really racy, decadent ones. They will boost her courage to enjoy ‘me time’ more.
Thirdly, surprise her with a subscription to some adult literature. Women tease men with their hidden stacks of adult mags but really, a lot of women would just love to take a peek at them too! Bring her to an adult bookstore, see what she likes and get an annual subscription for her!
Fourthly, encourage her to watch adult movies together. For this tip, be careful not to watch hardcore x-rated movies with her as most women find the content degrading and totally unsexy. It reinforces the belief the picture of women as ‘sex objects’ and not ‘romantic partners’. Anyway, just get some soft porn. At the very least, it will put her in the mood. At the most advantage, she can learn a thing or two about self-pleasuring.
Lastly, buy her a sex toy! A lot of women get their first mind-blowing orgasm via a battery-operated tool. There are so many sex toys nowadays that choosing one can be a bit tedious so my suggestion is that you browse online together and sort of shortlist what she thinks she would like. You can either continue on buying online or visit a local adult shop. And make sure she uses it too! For example, say something like you’ll leave her to it for a month but by the end of that period you would like to at least watch her do it using the sex toy.
Follow the tips above and she’ll be more comfortable engaging in masturbation soon. Remember, a woman who really knows her body is one who can best benefit from all the pleasure it can bring.
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