How to Get Her Ready for You
Most women do not reach an orgasm during intercourse. In fact, some studies show that 10% of all women do not even reach an orgasm in their lifetimes! TRAGIC!
So if your partner reaches a climax now and then does that mean you’re already a sex god? Hell no! What you should do is aim to increase her level of orgasm instances. And following are my tips to help you along this endeavor.
How to Speed Up Her ‘Big O’
Encourage her to spend some ‘self-love’ time. I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again, women really should be responsible when it comes to knowing what makes them tic sexually. Ladies, men are really not mind readers! To be more blunt, if your girlfriend/wife doesn’t know where her g-spot is, how the hell should you know that?!? So encourage your woman to engage in a little masturbation time.
Tell her that knowing her body is important so she can tell you EXACTLY what she wants and needs sexually. If she needs more prodding, give her gifts! Start with some hot and sexy lingerie, working your way up to a nice and small vibrator she can practice on. (Make sure you provide the batteries right away.)
Paint a lovely, wild and erotic story for her. We women are truly mental pictures. We need to be sexed up in our minds first and only then will the love juices come in droves! So here’s a tip for you: write down an x-rated story. If you think this is hard, it’s not at all; just like write down your sexual fantasy. If you like, you can even just record your voice instead of writing things down.
So start by how you envision her (maybe wearing that lingerie you gave?) and then how you just love watching her playing with herself (maybe using that vibrator you gave?), and how with all her thrashing and groaning and grinding, you couldn’t help but kneel down on the bed, bow your head and… to be continued!
This erotic script will make her thing of sex all day and wait in hot anticipation for you! And believe me, when she’s in this state already, it won’t take long for her to reach an orgasm when you guys finally do the deed.
Why focus on one hot button when you can focus on many? You have two hands, a mouth and you’re perfect penis so why not use them ALL at the same time during sex? Sometimes, you get so absorbed with their thrusting, that you forget that you can stimulate so many zones on her body.
For instance, while engaging in intercourse, reach down with one hand and play with her clitoris. You can also engage in oral sex and then reach up and fondle her erect nipples. When she’s buckling and moaning beneath you, replace your tongue with your manhood but continue fondling her breasts. She’ll be so dazed with pleasure that she’ll reach her orgasm soon.
Bring out the gizmos! I know we already discussed vibrators in my first tip above but this time, why not use one for your mutual benefit. They are many buzzing sex toys around now that you can position between the two of you.
For instance, place one of these buzz toys between you and have her go woman on top. As she grinds against you, a buzz is created stimulating her clitoris and your penis. Instant orgasms in no time!
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Craig Percasky
Says:
I have been fortunate enough to have had lovers in the past that are truely open minded to many fun games and things to mutually pleasure onre another .
My Question is though if the partner you are in love with is ( i know this sounds a little crass ) damaged goods unable to open herself up to the pleasures of lovemaking due to abuse endured prior to your relationship and is not prepared to take the leap to get professional halp is there still hope that between the two of you with patients and love that things will become more exciting or am i destined to wondering weather 1. i should call it a day and move on ( sounds selfish ) 2. That my long suffering patients will eventually pay off and she will openly not begrudgingly become the lover that i suspect quite often she wishes she could be .
Kind Regards Craig
David
Says:
Thanks for the tip on putting the vibrator between us with her on top. Will try that soon as I find a women that will play with them with me. Most are to shy.
John
Says:
Craig, my Dominican wife was frigid. A lot of patience and understanding later and we both smile daily.
Art Lorenz
Says:
Gabtiella,
Some basic techniques. I will try them out in the morning with my “friend” and hopefully the results will be gratifying!!
Art
kushvendra
Says:
really nice article….
Arsalan khan
Says:
hi
i saw ur so many mails. that was gr8 n i gain lot of experience 4rm them. but i live in pakistan n so many tricks cant use in paki womens bcoz they feel uncomfortable but ur some tricks is damn hot n i saved that tricks in ma mind
thnx fo the mails
Kobonyane
Says:
Hi, Gabrielle, hw s everything, i have managed to receive all of the mails and they are fantastic, the problem is that i am a bit jealous because i am a woman (married) and i want to learn how to please my man, is that possible Gabi!