How to Perform a Lap Dance
This one is for the ladies. Of course, if you men out there want to try it…
Lap dancing isn’t just for pros alone, anyone with the desire and determination to learn can begin bumping and grinding in no time at all. Spice up your romance life by learning these lap dancing tips.
#1: Be comfortable with your body.
The basic truth is that you can’t look sexy if you don’t feel sexy, and you cannot feel sexy if you’re not comfortable with the way you look. So have a good body image. If you feel and act sexy then your partner will look at you in a sexy way too.
#2: Get some ‘training’.
You don’t need to enroll in some fancy lap dance school. (Of course, you can if you want to.) If you don’t have any idea on how to perform a lap dance then simply rent some adult videos or movies you know contains a scene like this. Study the moves you see in private first if that helps you.
However, do note that there really is no hard-fast rules to performing a lap dance. As long as it’s sexy and your partner digs it, then you’ve accomplished your goal!
#3: Choose the right outfit.
A sexy outfit is needed to drive your man into the right mood – hot panties, skimpy lingerie, a see-through night robe or a hardcore cop outfit are a few of the options available. Basically, you could use any outfit you know would drive your partner wild. Remember also that you should be able to easily slip out of any outfit you choose.
#4: Create a romantic atmosphere.
Dim the lights, perfume the air and light some candles. The room shouldn’t be too hot or cold. Spice this up with slow and sensual music.
#5: Loosen up.
I recommend drinking a few sips of wine to help you loosen up. It’ll definitely set you sailing smoothly. It’s a great idea to also have your partner relaxed too. The idea here is to take just enough alcohol to help you relax and not getting drunk.
#6: Boundaries are important.
Before beginning, your partner should know what his boundaries are (if any). For instance, you shouldn’t allow him touch you or suck your nipples – no matter how badly he wants to – if you don’t want him to as part of the teasing aspect of your lap dance.
In fact, don’t give in even if he begs for it. You’re in control and the longer you make him wait for it, the better your coming together will be!
#7: Positioning.
Begin by slowly cat-walking toward him until you’re near enough. Gracefully lift a leg and place it between your partner’s wide-opened legs and then place the other leg on the arm of the chair.
#8: Teasing.
While moving seductively to the rhythm of the music, slowly run your hands over your body: face, neck, breasts, abdomen and then from your ‘behind’ to your inner thighs and then slowly to your vulva. The idea is to turn him on completely and have him fantasizing. You need to keep him spell-bound! Make his heart race!
Slowly and seductively take off your clothes – everything except for that sexy bra and G-string. By this time, he’s almost having a stroke. Always remember that innovation is important – new techniques are important to make him look forward to your lap dances.
#9: Don’t let the donkey have the carrot.
No matter how much he wants to grab you and make sweet love, you cannot give in. You want to keep him on the very edge. Eye contact is also very important as you need to make him want you so badly.
#10: Work it slow, then bump and grind.
Slowly lean toward his ears, making sure your breasts are right in front of his face. Nibble, lick, and bite his ears softly; you can also say naughty things into his ears. Softly nibble his neck while moaning softly. Communication is essential. Reposition yourself, slowly sinking yourself just enough for your sweet stuff to be in touch with his erect penis. This is where the bumping and grinding comes in. Don’t do this too long or both of you may give in eventually!
Remember the best lap dancers are those who know how to tease a man and remain in control – and their best kept secret is their power to be innovative. Good luck!
lili
Says:
wow i am totally gonna do this to my boyfriend:) i havnt seen him in two months but we cant wait to be with each other but this is going to drive him crazy>